Kalifoniya Ta Zama Jiha ta Farko da Ta Yi 'Sata' Ba bisa Ka'ida ba

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"Satawa," ko aikin cire kwaroron roba a ɓoye bayan an amince da kariya, ya kasance yanayi mai wahala na shekaru. Amma yanzu, California ta sanya dokar ta zama doka.

A cikin Oktoba 2021, California ta zama jiha ta farko da ta haramta “sata,” tare da Gwamna Gavin Newson ya sanya hannu kan dokar ta zama doka. Lissafin yana faɗaɗa ma'anar jihar batirin jima'i don haka ya haɗa da wannan aikin, a cewar Sacramento Bee, kuma zai ba da damar wadanda abin ya shafa su bi shari'ar farar hula don diyya. "Ta hanyar zartar da wannan lissafin, muna nuna mahimmancin yarda," in ji shafin Gov. Newsom a cikin Oktoba 2021.

'Yar Majalisar Cristina Garcia, wacce ta taimaka wajen rubuta kudirin, ita ma ta yi jawabi a cikin wata sanarwa ta Oktoba 2021. "Tun shekarar 2017 na fara aiki kan batun sata, kuma na ji dadin cewa a yanzu an samu wani hukunci ga wadanda suka aikata wannan aika-aika, cin zarafi musamman na mata masu launin fata, ana shafa su ne a karkashin tulu." Garcia, a cewar Kudancin Sacramento.

Stealthing ya zama wani ɓangare na tattaunawar fyade na ƙasa bayan ɗalibin Yale Law School Alexandra Brodsky ya buga wani bincike a cikin Afrilu 2017 yana ba da cikakken bayanin yadda maza a cikin wasu rukunin yanar gizo za su yi ciniki game da yadda za su yaudare abokin aikin su cikin rashin amfani da kariya. Wannan ya ƙunshi abubuwa kamar ƙirƙira robar kwaroron roba ko amfani da wasu matsayi na jima'i don kada mace ta ga namiji ya cire robar, duk tana kan ra'ayin cewa ba za ta gane abin da ya faru ba sai lokacin ya yi latti. Ainihin, waɗannan mazan suna jin kamar sha'awar su ta yin tafiya ba tare da ɓata lokaci ba tana murƙushe haƙƙin mace na rashin yin ciki ko kuma gujewa kamuwa da cutar ta hanyar jima'i. (PSA: Haɗarin STDs ya fi yadda kuke zato.)

Wannan ba kawai yana faruwa ne a cikin groupsan ƙungiyoyin tattaunawar tayi ba, ko dai. Brodsky ta gano cewa da yawa daga cikin kawayenta mata da kawayenta suna da labarai iri ɗaya. Tun daga wannan lokacin, an buga bincike wanda ke tabbatar da abubuwan da ta gano. Ɗaya daga cikin binciken 2019 na maza 626 (shekaru 21 zuwa 30) a cikin Pacific Northwest ya gano cewa kashi 10 daga cikinsu sun tsunduma cikin sata tun suna ɗan shekara 14, a matsakaicin sau 3.62. Wani bincike na 2019 na mata 503 (shekaru 21 zuwa 30) ya gano cewa kashi 12 cikin 100 nasu suna da abokin jima'i suna yin sata. Haka kuma wannan binciken ya gano cewa kusan rabin mata sun ba da rahoton cewa abokin tarayya yana adawa da amfani da kwaroron roba ta hanyar tilastawa (da karfi ko barazana); kashi 87 cikin ɗari sun ba da rahoton abokin tarayya da ke adawa da amfani da kwaroron roba ba tare da tilastawa ba.

Yayin da matan Brodsky suka yi magana sun ba da rahoton rashin jin daɗi da bacin rai, yawancin ba su da tabbacin idan ɓarna "ƙidaya" azaman fyade.

To, yana da ƙidaya. Idan mace ta yarda tayi jima'i da condom, Cire robar kwaroron roba ba tare da amincewarta ba yana nufin cewa jima'i baya yarda da juna. Ta amince da yin jima'i a karkashin sharuddan robar. Canza waɗancan sharuɗɗan, kuma kun canza shirye -shiryen ta don ci gaba da aikin. (Duba: Menene Yarda, Gaskiya?)

Ba za mu iya nanata wannan isashen ba: Cewa "eh" don yin jima'i ba yana nufin kun amince da kowane jima'i da za a iya tsammani ba. Kuma ba yana nufin wani mutum zai iya canza sharuddan ba, kamar cire robar roba, ba tare da lafiya ba.

Kuma gaskiyar cewa maza suna yin shi "cikin ɓata" yana nuna cewa su sani kuskure ne. In ba haka ba, me yasa ba za ku kasance gaba-gaba game da shi ba? Ambato: Domin samun iko akan mace wani bangare ne na abin da ke sa “yin sata” ke jan hankalin wasu mazan. (Mai Dangantaka: Menene Maganin Namijin Namijin Dafi, Kuma Me Yasa Yake Yin Cutarwa?).

Abin farin ciki, a cikin 2017, 'yan majalisa sun fara daukar mataki. A watan Mayu 2017, Wisconsin, New York, da California duk sun gabatar da takardar kudi da za su hana sata- amma ya dauki har zuwa Oktoba 2021 don sanya dokar California ta zama doka, kuma har yanzu ba a zartar da takardar New York da Wisconsin ba.

Wakilin Carolyn Maloney (New York) ya fada a cikin wata sanarwa a lokacin cewa "" Cire kwaroron roba wanda ba a yarda da shi ba a matsayin cin amana da mutunci. " "Na firgita da cewa har ma muna bukatar yin wannan zance, cewa ma'aurata za su keta amincewa da amincewar abokin zamansu kamar haka. Sata cin zarafi ne."

Yayin da ake ganin Amurka na da hanyar da za ta bi kafin a haramta sata a duk fadin kasar, kasashe irin su Jamus, New Zealand, da Birtaniya sun riga sun dauki sata a matsayin wani nau'i na cin zarafi, a cewar sanarwar. BBC. Ga fatan hukuncin na California ya kafa abin misali ga sauran jihohin Amurka.

Don ƙarin bayani game da sata ko cin zarafi kowane iri, ko don samun taimako idan an cutar da ku, je zuwa RAINN.org, yin magana akan layi tare da mai ba da shawara, ko kuma a kira layin waya na sa'o'i 24 na ƙasa a 1-800-656- BEGE

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