Dalilin Da Ya Sa Ake Kunna Ku Da Gaske Lokacin Da Cikakken Ciki

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• Me yasa kuke jin tashin hankali Lokacin da kuke Bukatar Nunawa
• Me game da Pee Orgasms?
• Yin Jima'i da Cikakkiyar Mafitsara
• Shin Da Gaske Yana Da Kyau Ku Riƙe Pee?
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Ga mafi yawancin, kun saba da abubuwan bazuwar abubuwan da ke kunna wutar ku-littattafai masu ƙazanta, giya da yawa, bayan wuyan abokin tarayya. Amma kowane lokaci kuma sannan, zaku iya samun kanku ba tare da tunani ba ta hanyar wani abu mara kyau: kamar samun cikakkiyar mafitsara. Da gaske, abu ne. Amma menene cikakken mafitsara da jima'i da juna?

Me yasa kuke jin tashin hankali Lokacin da kuke Bukatar Nunawa

Kodayake babu takamaiman bincike kan batun, jin tashin hankali tare da cikakken mafitsara ya zama ruwan dare fiye da yadda kuke zato, in ji Sherry Ross, MD, ob-gyn da masanin lafiyar mata a Santa Monica, California. A zahiri, shigar azzakari cikin farji (tare da azzakari ko abin wasa na jima'i), ƙara yawan zub da jini zuwa gindi da nama da ke kewaye, da cikakkiyar mafitsara na iya zama babban trifecta don cikakkiyar inzali. (Wannan ba rawar jiki ba ne!)

Amma me yasa cikakken mafitsara ya kunna ku? Kuma me ya sa jima'i ke jin daɗi lokacin da za ku leƙa? Labari ne game da jikin mutum.

Celeste Holbrook, Ph. "Cikakken mafitsara na iya turawa zuwa ga wasu sassan al'aurar da suka fi tada hankali da tada hankali, kamar ƙwararru da rassansa. Mata da yawa suna amfani da kuzari a ɗaya ko fiye daga cikin waɗannan wuraren don tada sauran." (Eh, ƙwanƙarar ku tana da rassa! Ga ƙarin bayani game da ƙwanƙolin da kuke buƙatar sani.)

Bugu da kari, G-tabo yana kusa da kofar shiga mafitsara, in ji Ross. Gaskiya ne: G-spot shine ainihin inda bayan gindi na ciki ya sadu da cibiyar urethral. Wannan na iya taimakawa bayyana dalilin da yasa samun cikakken mafitsara zai iya ba da gudummawa ga haɓaka kwarewar jima'i, in ji Ross. (Kuma yana daga cikin dalilin da ya sa za ku ji kamar kuna buƙatar leƙen asiri yayin jima'i, ko da ba tare da cikakkiyar mafitsara ba.)

Me game da Pee Orgasms?

Kamar mafi yawan gaskiyar ɗan adam mai ban sha'awa, abin mamaki na pee ograsm ko "pee-gasm" ya bayyana a cikin zaren Reddit. Hoton asali ya rubuta:

"Budurwata kwanan nan ta gaya mani idan za ta rike ledar ta na wani lokaci, idan ta je yin kwalliya, sau da yawa tana yin inzali wanda ta kan ji har kashin bayanta har zuwa kai. leke, sun ma fi faruwa, ta ce wadannan inzali... sun sha bamban da ƙwanƙwanta ko inzali.

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Sauran hotunan sun yarda, suna rubuta "Ina samun wani abu makamancin haka, amma ba daidai bane inzali, kawai abin jin daɗi ne" da "Ina jin daɗin jin daɗi, amma ba orgasm bane kuma ba jin daɗi bane."

Lallai, masana sun yarda cewa kwaroron pee yana da fa'ida gabaɗaya: Tabbas yana yiwuwa sakin fitsari bayan tsawon lokaci (don haka sakin matsin mafitsarar ku akan abubuwan jin daɗi a yankin ku na ƙashin ƙugu), na iya haifar da motsawar jijiyoyin pelvic. na iya jin kamar amsawar inzali, in ji Mary Jane Minkin, MD, wata takardar shedar ob-gyn a Makarantar Magunguna ta Jami'ar Yale, a cikin wani labari donMutane. (Kuma, bayan duka, sakin tashin hankali - ta hanyar barin pee ɗinku ya tafi ko, faɗi, nishi yayin jima'i - a sarari yana jin daɗi.)

Yin Jima'i da Cikakkiyar Mafitsara

Idan baku yi ƙoƙari ku shagaltu da cikakkiyar mafitsara ba, masana sun yarda cewa babu laifi yin hakan, muddin kuna yin hakan ta hanyar da ta fi dacewa da ku da abokin tarayya. Misali, idan buƙatar shiga lamba ɗaya yana tayar da ku da farko amma kun sami matsin lamba na cikakken mafitsara yana shagaltar da ku daga baya yayin jima'i, gwada ƙoƙarin yin fa'ida akan cikakken mafitsara sannan kuma zuwa gidan wanka kafin shiga ciki, in ji Holbrook. (Gaskiya mai daɗi: Haƙiƙanin mafitsara ɗinku yana cikin mawuyacin hali, duk da cewa abin da ke fitowa ba ainihin fitsari ba ne. Idan kuna son gwadawa, ga yadda.)

Ko, ƙila za ku so ku yi motsa jiki na Kegel don taimakawa hana duk wani zubar da mafitsara a tsakiyar jima'i-kadan wani abu da ake kira rashin kwanciyar hankali. "Yin kwangilar tsokoki na Kegel tare da sha'awar jima'i da inzali yana taimaka maka ka rasa fitsari, kuma yana jin dadi ga abokin tarayya a lokacin shigar ciki," in ji Ross. Darussan suna ƙarfafa tsokoki na ƙashin ƙashin ƙugu, suna tallafawa farji da urethra, saboda haka zaku iya matse waɗannan tsokoki cikin kwanciyar hankali yayin zubar da jini.

Shin Da Gaske Yana Da Kyau Ku Riƙe Pee?

Dabarar ita ce tabbatar da cewa ba ku riƙe shi na dogon lokaci (har zuwa inda yake da zafi) ko kuma sau da yawa (faɗi, riƙe shi a duk lokacin da kuke son yin jima'i) kawai don jin daɗin wannan jin cikewar mafitsara yayin jima'i . (Kuma koyaushe ku tuna yin lebe bayan jima'i ma, ba tare da la'akari da ko kun tafi kafin ko a'a ba.)

Bayan haka, siginar cikawa ba a nufin kunna ku ba amma don sa ku zubar da mafitsara, in ji Carol Queen, Ph.D., ma'aikaciyar ilimin jima'i don Kyakkyawan Vibrations. Da shigewar lokaci, yin watsi da siginar jikin ku zai iya haifar da rashin iya cika mafitsarar ku ko kuma ƙara haɗarin kamuwa da ciwon fitsari. (Duba: Shin Yana da Muni don Rike Pee ɗinku?)

Amma ana yin shi akai-akai, riƙe shi don yin jima'i tare da cikakkiyar mafitsara-kuma don haka mafi kyawun inzali-yana da kyau. Grrr, babba.

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