Yadda Ake Ganewa da Kula da Halayyar Rashin Mutunci a Yara

Wadatacce

• Menene halin rashin cin mutuncin yara?
• Dalilai masu haɗari don halayyar zamantakewar al'umma
• Menene alamun rashin nuna halayyar zamantakewar yara?
• Halin halin ɗan-adam a cikin yara
• Hana halaye marasa kyau
• 1. Rigakafin farko
• 2. Rigakafin Secondary
• 3. Rigakafin manyan makarantu (magani)
• Hanyoyi don bi da halaye marasa kyau
• Matakai na gaba

Yana da kyau yara su nuna halaye na gari masu kyau da marasa kyau yayin da suke tsufa da girma. Wasu yara karya, wasu 'yan tawaye, wasu janye. Ka yi tunanin wayayyun tauraruwar waƙoƙi amma fitaccen shugaban ƙasa amma mai tawaye.

Amma wasu yara suna nuna manyan halayen halaye marasa kyau. Suna da adawa da rashin biyayya. Suna iya sata da lalata dukiya. Suna iya zama masu zagi da zagi.

Irin wannan halin yakan nuna ɗanka yana nuna alamun halin rashin mutunci. Halin halin zamantakewar jama'a yana da sauƙin sarrafawa, amma na iya haifar da matsaloli masu tsanani yayin balaga idan ba a kula da su ba. Idan kun kasance damu cewa ɗanka yana da halaye na rashin daidaituwa, karanta don ƙarin koyo.

Menene halin rashin cin mutuncin yara?

Halin halin zamantakewar al'umma yana tattare da:

• tsokanar zalunci
• ƙiyayya ga hukuma
• yaudara
• bijirewa

Wadannan matsalolin halayen suna yawan bayyana yayin yarinta da lokacin samartaka, kuma sun fi yawa ga samari.

Babu wani bayanai na yanzu da ke nuna yawan yaran da ke nuna wariyar launin fata, amma binciken da ya gabata ya sanya adadin tsakanin miliyan 4 zuwa 6, kuma yana ƙaruwa.

Dalilai masu haɗari don halayyar zamantakewar al'umma

Dalilai masu haɗari don halayen zamantakewar al'umma sun haɗa da:

• makaranta da muhalli
• jinsin jini da tarihin iyali
• ayyukan talakawa marasa kyau
• tashin hankali, rashin kwanciyar hankali, ko rikicewar rayuwar gida

Rashin hankali da matsalolin jijiyoyin jiki na iya haifar da halayyar ɗan adam. Matasa da ke fama da matsalar raunin hankali (ADHD) an same su da kasancewa masu haɓaka halayen zamantakewar al'umma.

Menene alamun rashin nuna halayyar zamantakewar yara?

Ana iya gano halin ɓata gari lokaci-lokaci a cikin yara masu ƙarancin shekaru 3 ko 4, kuma yana iya haifar da wani abu mai tsanani idan ba a bi da shi ba kafin shekara 9, ko aji na uku.

Kwayar cututtukan da ɗanka zai iya nunawa sun haɗa da:

• cin zarafi da cutarwa ga dabbobi da mutane
• kwance da sata
• tawaye da keta dokoki
• barna da sauran lalata dukiya
• zalunci na kullum

Bincike ya nuna cewa halayyar rashin zaman lafiya ta yara tana da alaƙa da mafi yawan giya da shan ƙwayoyi a lokacin samartaka. Wannan saboda tasirin jinsi ne da tasirin muhalli.

Halin halin ɗan-adam a cikin yara

Hanyoyin da ba su dace da zamantakewar jama'a ba na iya haifar da rikice-rikice, ko kuma ganewar asali na rikicewar adawa. Yaran da ke gaba da zamantakewar jama'a na iya barin makaranta kuma suna da matsala wajen riƙe aiki da kyakkyawan dangantaka.

Halin zai iya haifar da rikice-rikicen halayen mutum a cikin balaga. Manya da ke rayuwa tare da rikice-rikicen halin zamantakewar jama'a sau da yawa suna nuna halin rashin zaman lafiya da sauran alamun rashin lafiya na rashin ɗabi'a kafin shekara 15.

Wasu alamun rikice-rikice na halaye na zamantakewar al'umma sun haɗa da:

• rashin lamiri da tausayawa
• rashin kulawa da cin zarafin hukuma da hakkin mutane
• zalunci da nuna ƙarfi
• girman kai
• amfani da laya don sarrafawa
• rashin nadama

Hana halaye marasa kyau

Sa hannun farko shine mabuɗin don hana halayyar zamantakewar jama'a. Cibiyar Ingantaccen Haɗin gwiwa da Practabi'a ya nuna cewa makarantu suna haɓakawa da aiwatar da dabarun rigakafi daban-daban guda uku.

1. Rigakafin farko

Wannan zai haɗa da shiga ɗalibai cikin ayyukan makaranta wanda zai iya dakatar da halaye na rashin daidaito, kamar:

• koyarda warware rikici
• dabarun sarrafa fushi
• ilimin tunani

2. Rigakafin Secondary

Wannan yana ƙaddamar da ɗaliban da ke cikin haɗari don haɓaka halayen zamantakewar al'umma da shiga su cikin ayyukan keɓaɓɓu, gami da:

• koyarwa na musamman
• karamin rukuni na darussan ilimin zaman jama'a
• nasiha
• jagoranci

3. Rigakafin manyan makarantu (magani)

Mataki na uku shine ci gaba da ba da shawara mai ƙarfi. Wannan yana kula da ɗalibai masu nuna wariyar launin fata da ɗalibai tare da halaye na yau da kullun na zalunci da zalunci. Cibiyar ta ba da shawarar cewa iyalai, masu ba da shawara, malamai, da sauransu suna tsara ƙoƙari don bi da yara tare da halaye marasa kyau.

Hanyoyi don bi da halaye marasa kyau

Sauran hanyoyin da za a bi da halaye marasa kyau sun haɗa da:

• horar da ƙwarewar warware matsaloli
• halayyar halayyar halayyar mutum
• halayyar dangi ta hali
• maganin iyali da kula da yara

Hakanan iyaye za su iya shan horo na kula da iyaye don magance duk wata matsala mara kyau game da tarbiyya wacce za ta iya taimakawa ga halaye marasa kyau na yaro.

Bincike ya gano cewa ɗumi da ƙauna, horo mai kyau, da tsarin kula da tarbiyya irin na iyaye suna da kyakkyawan sakamako ga yara. Wannan na iya taimaka musu ƙirƙirar kyakkyawar dangantaka da haɓaka aikin makaranta.

Matakai na gaba

Yana da kyau yara da matasa su nuna wasu halaye na rashin haɗin kai, kamar janyewa ko ɗan tawaye. Amma ga wasu yara, waɗannan halayen zasu iya nuna wani abu mai ban tsoro.

Yi magana da yaronka idan kana damuwa game da halayensu don haka zaka iya samun kyakkyawar fahimtar abin da ke faruwa daga hangen nesa. Tabbatar cewa kayi magana kuma da likita don haka zaka iya samar da ingantaccen tsari don magance ɗabi'arka ta rashin mutuncin jama'a.

Yana da mahimmanci ku magance matsalolin gudanarwa tun farkon ƙuruciya kamar yadda zai yiwu don hana kamuwa da cuta mai tsanani a nan gaba.