Ciwon jarirai: 3, 6, 8 da 12 watanni

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• Rikicin watanni 3
• Abin yi
• Rikicin watanni 6
• Abin yi
• Rikicin watanni 8
• Abin yi
• Rikicin watanni 12
• Abin yi

Yarinyar shekarar farko ta rayuwa tana cike da matakai da ƙalubale. A wannan lokacin, jaririn yakan yi fama da rikice-rikice 4 na ci gaba: a 3, 6, 8 kuma lokacin da ya kai watanni 12.

Wadannan rikice-rikicen wani bangare ne na ci gaban yara na yau da kullun kuma suna da alaƙa da wasu "tsalle-tsalle na tunani", ma'ana, lokacin da hankalin jariri ya haɓaka da sauri, ana nuna shi da wasu canje-canje na ɗabi'a. Yawancin lokaci, a cikin waɗannan rikice-rikicen jarirai suna da wahala, suna yawan kuka, suna samun saurin fushi kuma sun zama mabukata.

Fahimci rikice-rikicen jariri a lokacin shekarar farko ta rayuwa da abin da za a iya yi a kowane ɗayansu. Yana da mahimmanci a tuna cewa kowane iyali yana da tsari, halaye da damar don haka, saboda haka, dole ne ya dace da su.

Rikicin watanni 3

Wannan rikicin yana faruwa ne saboda har zuwa wannan lokacin, ga jariri, shi da mahaifiyarsa mutum ɗaya ne, kamar dai ciki ne a wajen mahaifar. Hakanan za'a iya bayyana wannan lokacin azaman haihuwa na biyu, na farko shine ilimin halitta, a ranar haihuwa kuma da isowar watanni 3, haihuwar hauka ta auku. A wannan matakin, jariri zai fara yin ma'amala da yawa, ya kalli cikin idanu, ya kwaikwayi ishara, wasa da gunaguni.

Rikicin na tsawon watanni 3 yana faruwa daidai saboda yaron yana da fahimta cewa bai daina cikin mahaifiyarsa ba, ya fahimci cewa baya cikin ta, yana ganin ta a matsayin wata halitta kuma yana buƙatar kiranta don ta sami abin da yake buƙata, wanda zai iya haifar da damuwa a cikin yaro.Yara, kasancewar ana iya gane shi ta hanyar wasu lokutan kuka. Wannan rikicin yana wanzuwa, a matsakaita, kwanaki 15 kuma yana da wasu alamu masu ban mamaki kamar:

• Canja a cikin ciyarwa: abu ne gama gari uwa ta ji cewa jariri baya son shayarwa kuma nononta bai cika kamar da ba. Amma abin da ke faruwa shi ne cewa jaririn ya riga ya iya shan nono da kyau kuma ya zubar da shi da sauri, yana rage lokacin ciyarwa zuwa minti 3 zuwa 5. Bugu da kari, nono baya barin madara mai yawa a cikin wadata, yana samarwa a wannan lokacin kuma gwargwadon buƙata. A wannan matakin, mata da yawa suna fara ba da tallafi saboda suna tsammanin ba sa ba da isasshen madara ga yaro, wanda ke haifar da rashin kuzari da haka yaye shi da wuri.
• Canje-canje a halayya da bacci: jariri a wannan matakin yakan fi yawan farkawa da daddare, gaskiyar cewa yawancin iyaye mata suna haɗuwa da canjin ciyarwa kuma sun fahimci cewa yunwa ce. Saboda haka, lokacin da yaron ya yi kuka, mahaifiyarsa tana ba shi nono, lokacin da ya yi ƙoƙari ya bar yaron ya yi kuka kuma su biyun suna kai da komo, wannan saboda jaririn yana shan nono ba tare da yunwa ba, saboda yana jin lafiya tare da mahaifiyarsa , kamar yadda lokacin da ya fahimci su biyu ne.

Kamar yadda wannan shine lokacin da jariri ya fara gano duniya, yana ƙara himma kuma hangen nesan sa ya inganta, komai sabo ne kuma yana haifar da tashin hankali kuma ya riga ya fahimci cewa yayin yin kuka za a biya masa buƙatun sa, yana haifar da damuwa da wani lokacin tashin hankali.

Abin yi

La'akari da cewa lokaci ne na yau da kullun na cigaban ci gaba kuma yana da mahimmanci ga ci gaba, iyaye ya kamata suyi ƙoƙari su kwantar da hankula kuma su kula da yanayin zaman lafiya don taimakawa jaririn ya shiga wannan, tunda cikin fewan kwanaki kaɗan al'amuran zasu dawo daidai. Yaron bai kamata a ba shi magani a wannan matakin ba.

Ana ba da shawara cewa uwa ta dage kan shayarwa saboda jikinta yana iya samar da adadin madarar da yaron yake bukata. Sabili da haka, idan rikon jariri ya yi daidai kuma ƙirjin ba ya ciwo ko tsagewa, babu wata alama da ke nuna cewa jaririn yana shayarwa sosai kuma, saboda haka, bai kamata a dakatar da shayarwa ba. Pointaya daga cikin abin lura shi ne cewa a wannan matakin yaro ya fi saurin shagala, don haka neman shayarwa a wuraren da ba shi da nutsuwa na iya taimakawa.

Sauran hanyoyin da za su iya taimakawa yayin wannan rikici sun hada da ba wa jariri cinya mai yawa da kuma amfani da hanyar kangaroo, bayar da labaran da ke nuna zane-zane kala-kala a cikin litattafai, da sauran ayyukan da ke nuna saduwa da kulawa. Duba anan menene Hanyar Kangaroo da yadda ake yinta.

Rikicin watanni 6

Tsakanin watanni 5 da 6 na yaro, an kafa alwatika na iyali kuma a wannan lokacin ne yaron ya fahimci cewa akwai uba. Kamar yadda uba yake aiki tun lokacin haihuwa, dangantakar jariri ba ta da ma'ana kamar ta mahaifiya, kuma kusan watanni shida ne wannan fitowar ke faruwa sannan rikicin ya fara.

Alamomin rikici sune yawan kuka, canje-canje a cikin bacci da yanayi, yaro ba shi da yawan ci kuma yana iya zama mafi buƙata da fushi. Don rikicewa kaɗan, farkon haihuwar hakora yakan faru ne a wannan lokacin kuma matakan biyu na iya rikicewa, tun da haƙori yana haifar da rashin jin daɗi kuma yaron na iya zama cikin damuwa da damuwa, ban da haifar da gudawa har ma da zazzabi . Duba alamomin haihuwar hakora ta farko.

Rikicin wata 6 kuma yana faruwa ga uwa kuma galibi ya fi shafar ta fiye da ɗanta, wanda dole ne ya yi mu'amala da shigar mahaifin cikin mu'amala, kuma galibi a wannan lokacin ne mata da yawa ke komawa aiki, abin da ke tsananta rikicin su.

Abin yi

Wannan shine lokacin da uwa zata bayar da sarari kuma uba zai kasance a rayuwar yaro, ban da tallafawa da taimakon mahaifiya. Dole ne uwa ta sanya kanta da kanta don kar ta ji laifi ko hassada, tunda tana bukatar kara sadarwar da jaririn. Har yanzu, a cewar wasu masana, sabawa da jaririn zuwa wurin kulawa da yara yana da sauki idan aka yi shi kafin watanni 8, tunda a wannan lokacin iyayen har yanzu basu ji sosai ba. Duba ƙarin game da ci gaban jaririn ɗan wata 6.

Rikicin watanni 8

A wasu yara wannan rikicin na iya faruwa a watan shida ko na wasu a ranar 9, amma yawanci yakan faru ne a cikin watan 8 kuma ana ɗaukarsa rikicin rabuwa, damuwa ko tsoron baƙi, inda halayen jaririn zai iya canzawa da yawa.

Wannan rikicin shine wanda yafi dadewa, kimanin sati 3 zuwa 4 kuma yana faruwa ne saboda jaririn ya fara rabuwa da mahaifiyarsa sau da yawa kuma, a cikin kansa, ya fahimci cewa ba zata dawo ba, wanda ke haifar da jin daɗin barin. Akwai kakkarfan hutu a yanayin bacci a cikin wannan rikicin, yaro yakan tashi duk dare kuma ya farka a firgice kuma tare da tsananin kuka. Sauran alamun sun hada da tashin hankali da rashin sha'awar cin abinci, kasancewa sun fi tsanani fiye da sauran rikice-rikice. Koyaya, kamar yadda wannan matakin ya dogara da halayen kowane ɗa, yana da mahimmanci ga wasu jarirai su shiga cikin rikici ba tare da matsala ba.

Abin yi

Ma'aurata da yawa suna daukar ɗansu suyi bacci a gado ɗaya tare da su, amma wannan aikin ba shi da kyau saboda iyaye ba sa barci cikin kwanciyar hankali don tsoron cutar da yaro kuma akwai wannan haɗarin, ban da nisantar ma'auratan da yaron ya zama mai dogaro sosai daga iyaye, suna neman ƙarin kulawa. Lokacin da yaro ya sami harin kuka a cikin dare, an fi so cewa uwa ce ta kwantar da hankalin yaron, saboda lokacin da mahaifiya ta tafi, yaron yana da tunanin cewa ba zai dawo ba. Wannan yana taimaka mata fahimtar cewa kasancewar mahaifiya na iya biyo bayan rashi.

Bugu da kari, a wannan matakin yaro na iya zama abin kawance da wani abu da shi da kanta ya ayyana, wanda ke da mahimmanci saboda yana wakiltar adadi ne na mahaifiya kuma yana taimaka mata ta fahimci cewa, kamar yadda abin ba ya bacewa, uwa, koda kuwa ba ta nan, ba za ta shuɗe ba. Duk da haka, wani karin bayani shine cewa uwa koyaushe tana rungumar abun sannan ta bar shi tare da yaron, don ta ji ƙanshin uwar ba ta ji rashin taimako ba.

Kamar yadda yake a sauran matakai, yana da mahimmanci a ba da kauna da kulawa ga yaro don tabbatar masa da damuwarsa, bugu da ƙari koyaushe yin ban kwana da jaririn don a bayyana cewa zai dawo kuma ba za a yashe shi ba. Misali mai kyau na wasa a wannan matakin shine ɓoye-ɓoye da nema.

Rikicin watanni 12

Wannan shine lokacin da yaro ya fara ɗaukar matakan farko kuma, sabili da haka, yana so ya gano duniya kuma ya kasance mai zaman kansa. Koyaya, ta kasance mai dogaro kuma cikin tsananin buƙatar iyayenta. Rikicin yana faruwa daidai saboda wannan dalili.

Babban alamun wannan rikicin sune harzuka da kuka, musamman lokacin da yaro yake son isa ga abu ko matsawa wani wuri ba zai iya ba. Hakanan abu ne na yau da kullun cewa jaririn baya son cin abinci kuma baya iya bacci yadda yakamata.

Abin yi

Game da farkon aikin tafiya, ya kamata iyaye su karfafa yaro don motsawa, tallafawa, rakiya da tallafi, amma ba tilastawa, tunda yaro zai fara tafiya lokacin da yake tunanin zai iya kuma lokacin da kwakwalwa da ƙafafu suka haɗa kai. Koda hakane, wani lokacin yaron yana so kuma bazai iya ba, wanda hakan ke bashi wahala. An shawarce cewa muhalli lafiyayye ne, maraba ne kuma cikin lumana, kuma duk da cewa wannan matakin na iya zama da ɗan wahala, yana da kyau kuma yana da mahimmanci.

Bugu da kari, da karin tallafi da kariya da yaro ke samu a wannan lokaci na rabuwa, zai fi dacewa da shi ko ita don magance ta.