Jennifer Lopez yayi Magana Game da Al'amuran Kima da Kai

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Ga yawancin mu, Daga Jennifer Lopez (mutumin) yana da alaƙa daidai da Jenny daga Block (persona): yarinya mai ƙarfin hali, mai magana mai santsi daga Bronx. Amma kamar yadda mawaƙi kuma ɗan wasan kwaikwayo ya bayyana a cikin sabon littafin, Soyayya ta Gaskiya, ba koyaushe take tare ba.

Tarihin sirri mai zurfi, wanda ake samu gobe, yana bincika lokacin da ke kewaye da saki daga tsohon Marc Anthony. A cikin wannan lokacin a cikin 2011, Lopez ya rubuta cewa, "ta fuskanci kalubale mafi girma, ta gano manyan abubuwan da ta firgita, kuma ta zama mutum mai karfi fiye da yadda ta kasance."

Yana da ɗan ban sha'awa jin J. Lo-mace da ke da alama tana da tabbacin kanta, mai jima'i, kuma tana da gaba gaɗi ga rashin amincewa da kai, tsoron kasancewa kaɗai, har ma da jin rashin isa. A wata hira ta musamman akan YAU, Lopez ta gaya wa Maria Shriver cewa ta gane cewa tana da batutuwa masu girman kai shekaru da suka wuce, lokacin da wani wakili ya ji ta jayayya da roƙon saurayinta a lokacin. "Ina da hankali da wayo da yawa. Ina da wannan kwarin gwiwa kan abin da zan iya yi," in ji Shriver. "Ba ni da kwarin gwiwa sosai a kan ko ni wane ne da abin da zan bayar kamar yarinya."

Yana iya zama da wuya a yi imani, amma wannan ra'ayi na mutane a zahiri ya zama ruwan dare a cikin mutanen da ke yin rayuwa, kamar Lopez, in ji Sari Cooper, ƙwararrun ma'aurata da likitan jima'i. Waɗannan mutanen suna da alama suna fita kan mataki, amma "galibi hakan yana rufe tunanin rashin cancanta da jin kunya da suke da ita a rayuwar su," in ji ta. Lallai, yayin da Lopez na iya samun ƙarfin hali a fagen fama, tana fama da rashin sa a rayuwar soyayya, tana tsalle daga alaƙa zuwa dangantaka don tsoron kasancewa ɗaya. Kwanaki kadan ta rabu da ita Ben Affleck, misali, ta sake haɗawa da Anthony, mijinta wanda zai kasance.

Amma a yau, a karon farko a rayuwarta, Lopez ba ta da aure. Kuma kasancewa kadai shine mafi kyawun abin da aka makala mata, in ji Cooper. Idan ku, kamar J. Lo, ku sami kanku kuna fara sabbin alaƙa ba tare da wani ɗan lokaci ba bayan na ƙarshe, mafi mahimmancin matakin farko da za ku ɗauka shine ku ɗan ɓata lokaci don sanin kanku, Cooper ya ba da shawara. "Ku ciyar lokaci neman ciki-ba waje ba, kuma ku koyi yadda ake yin zuzzurfan tunani don ku koyi yadda ake kula da waɗannan damuwar."

An yi sa'a, ma'anar Lopez na soyayya yana canzawa. Ta kasance tana cin abinci a cikin tatsuniyar da muke ji lokacin da muke yara: "Zai ƙaunace ni har abada, kuma zan ƙaunace shi har abada, kuma zai kasance da sauƙi," in ji ta. "Kuma ya bambanta da wannan." Kuma taken littafinta ya dace da sabon ra'ayinta. "Soyayya ta gaskiya ita ce koyan son kanku, ba da lokaci tare da kanku, da yin abubuwa da kanku," in ji Cooper. "Yana da sauƙi don son abokin tarayya, amma kuna buƙatar samun irin wannan ƙaunar ga kanku." Kuma muna farin cikin ganin J. Lo yana ɗaukar ɗan lokaci da ya cancanta don yin hakan!

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