Katrina Scott Ta Ba Ma Magoya Bayanta Raw Duban Yadda Rashin Haihuwa Na Sakandare Ke Kamani

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Tone It Up co-kafa Katrina Scott bai taɓa nisanta kansa daga kasancewa mai rauni tare da magoya bayan ta ba. Ta buɗe game da mahimmancin fifita lafiyar kwakwalwa kuma ta kasance mai fa'ida game da ainihin sabuwar uwa. Yanzu, tana raba wani abu har ma da na sirri: gwagwarmayarta da rashin haihuwa ta biyu.

Kwanan nan Scott ya ɗauki shafin Instagram don raba wani rubutu mai raɗaɗi game da dalilin da ya sa ta yi shuru a kafafen sada zumunta tun daga baya. "Wannan ɗan hangen nesa ne na yadda duniyarmu ta kasance a kwanan nan," ta raba tare da reel wanda ke nuna ainihin ƙalubalen da ke ƙoƙarin sake samun ciki.

Shirin shirin bidiyo ne inda Scott ke sarrafa abin da ya zama allurar hormone IVF a cikin cikin ta, ko dai da kanta ko tare da taimakon dangi da abokai. A wani lokaci, har ’yarta Isabel ‘yar shekara 2 ana ganin tana mata jaje tana sumbantar cikinta inda aka yi mata allura. "Wannan tafiya ta kasance komai daga ɓacin rai zuwa rudani, da duhu mai duhu," Scott ya rubuta tare da reel. "Amma ya nuna mani kyawu a cikin bege, ɗan adam, da waraka. Da gaske da ban yi ƙarfin hali don ci gaba da matsawa ba tare da ku duka, dangina, abokaina, da manyan likitoci da ma'aikatan jinya." (Mai dangantaka: A'a, allurar COVID ba ta haifar da rashin haihuwa)

Rashin haihuwa na biyu, ko rashin iya yin ciki bayan sauƙin samun cikin ku na farko, ba a magana game da rashin haihuwa na farko ba - amma yana shafar mata kimanin miliyan uku a Amurka (Lura: Duk da yake Scott bai mike tsaye ya ce yin ciki ba. karo na farko ya kasance iska, ita ma ba ta rubuta kowane irin balaguron haihuwa don wannan ciki ba.)

Jessica Rubin, wani ob-gyn wanda ke zaune a New York a baya ya ce "Rashin haihuwa na sakandare na iya zama abin takaici da rudani ga ma'aurata da suka yi juna biyu cikin sauri a baya." Siffa. "A koyaushe ina tunatar da majinyata cewa yana iya ɗaukar ma'aurata masu lafiya, masu lafiya shekara guda kafin su sami juna biyu, don haka kada su yi amfani da adadin lokacin da suka yi ƙoƙarin ɗaukar ciki a baya azaman ma'auni, musamman lokacin da ya kasance watanni uku ko ƙasa da haka." (Mai dangantaka: Abin da Ob-Gyns ke son mata su sani game da haihuwarsu)

A cikin watan Maris na 2021 a shafinta, Rayuwa Mai Kyau, Scott ta bayyana cewa ta yi fama da zubar da ciki biyu a cikin 2020. Bayan haka, "Mun yanke shawarar cewa ba za mu yi IVF kawai ba.duk da haka"Ta rubuta a cikin sakon. "Mun kusan tafiya wannan hanyar a watan Janairu, amma likitanmu ya ba mu shawarar cewa mu sake gwadawa." Bayan haka, ta sami ciki na sinadarai, kalmar asibiti na zubar da ciki da wuri, wanda ke faruwa lokacin da kake ciki. ciki kawai makonni biyu ko uku. Ya bayyana cewa, tun lokacin, sun yanke shawarar gwada IVF. "Daya daga cikin mafi wuyar abin da na taba yi shi ne shiga cikin asibitin haihuwa bayan asarar da muka yi na ce ina bukatan tallafi. " ta rubuta a cikin sakon Instagram. "Amma da na duba dakin jira, na gane cewa ba mu kadai ba. Zai iya zama warewa idan muka riƙe abubuwa a ciki ... amma da gaske, duk muna tare. "

"Ban san abin da makomar zata kasance ga danginmu ba, amma kowace rana ina riƙe da bege, imani, da ƙauna," in ji ta. (Mai Alaka: Yadda Na Koyi Na Aminta Da Jikina Bayan Zuciyata)

Sanin yadda tsarin ya kasance mai wahala, Scott ta yi amfani da dandalinta don ba da wasu kalmomi na goyon baya ga sauran mayakan rashin haihuwa, ta sanar da su cewa ba su kadai ba. "Ga duk wanda ke fuskantar asara, rauni, gwagwarmayar haihuwa...ko ma rashin tabbas kan iyawar su na shawo kan cikas, ina so ku sani koyaushe akwai haske yana haskaka ku," in ji ta. "Ka dage kai, zuciyarka gaba, kar ka manta cewa ka cancanci kyakkyawan labari, ba laifi ka nemi taimako kuma ka ce kana bukatar tallafi."

Yayin kiyaye cikakkun bayanai marasa ma'ana, Scott ya bar magoya bayanta tare da ƙaramin sabunta abin da ke gaba a cikin tafiya. Ta rubuta "Kwai na ne yau, don haka zan huta kuma in warke." ICYDK, a lokacin aikin IVF, ana fitar da ƙwai daga cikin ovaries, takin maniyyi a cikin dakin gwaje-gwaje, sa'an nan kuma a kwashe kwai (s) da aka haifa zuwa mahaifar ku, a cewar Mayo Clinic. "Ina son ku duka ku sani ina matukar godiya da addu'o'inku da goyon bayanku," ta ci gaba da cewa. "Ni da Brian muna jin hakan kuma yana ba mu ƙarfi fiye da yadda za mu iya sanyawa cikin kalmomi."

Dangane da rauninta, da yawa daga cikin jama'ar motsa jiki sun yi musayar soyayya.

Tasirin motsa jiki Anna Victoria, wanda ita kanta ta yi fama da haihuwa, ta ba Scott goyon baya a sashin sharhi. "Don haka ina alfahari da ku don raba wannan," in ji mai ba da horo. "Da fatan dawo da kwai ya yi kyau kuma kumburin bayan dawowa baya da muni ko mai raɗaɗi. Duk zai zama darajarsa !!!" (Mai Dangantaka: Tafiyar Mahaifiyar Anna Victoria ta Ƙarfafa ta don Kaddamar da Sababbin Shirye -shirye akan App Fitness App)

Abokiyar horarwa, Hannah Bronfman ta kuma raba wasu kalmomi masu kyau da aka rubuta: "Raba labarin ku zai taimaka wa mata da yawa. Alfahari da tafiyarku kuma ina ba ku sararin samaniya da dukan mayaƙan IVF a can!"

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