Kalmomi 15 da Jumloli Muna Bukatar Daina Faɗawa

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Bossy. Mun sami dalili Sheryl Sanberg ya ƙaddamar da kamfen don hana kalmar B, amma muna tsammanin kawai yana buƙatar gyara kaɗan. Saukar da "y" kuma ba zato ba tsammani ya daina raina gaskiyar cewa mata ne ke da alhakin-kuma sun daɗe.

Tazarar cinya. Babu tsarin cin abinci ko tsarin motsa jiki da zai iya faɗaɗa kwatangwalo da sihiri don ƙirƙirar sararin da ba dole ba tsakanin kyawawan gams ɗin ku. Sai dai idan an haife ku da daya, ku manta da shi.

Kamar yarinya. Kamar tashin 'yan wasa mata masu karfi kamar wasan tennis Serena Williams, sarauniyar dusar ƙanƙara Lindsey Von, da almara ƙwallon ƙafa Mia Hamma bai dade da yin wannan tunanin ba. Lokacin da Koyaushe muke tono shi don kamfen ɗin sa na kwanan nan, ba za mu iya yin tunani ba kawai, "Kasance tare da lokutan, mutane."

Matar ganima. Sokewa da ABC sitcom na suna iri ɗaya bayan farkon lokacin bazara a wannan bazara shine ƙarin tabbaci cewa gajiya ce da rashin ƙarfi. Kimiyya ta yarda: Sabon bincike daga Jami'ar Notre Dame da aka buga a cikin Nazarin Ilimin zamantakewa na Amurka ya tabbatar da cewa manufar yin amfani da kyakkyawa don inganta matsayin zamantakewar tattalin arziƙin mutum shine mafi yawan tatsuniya wanda mutane masu ɓacin rai ke ci gaba da ƙarfafa ta.

Wata mace mai fushi. Kawai saboda kuna da ƙwazo game da imaninku (kuma wataƙila ku sami ɗan rayayye da ƙima yayin bayyana abubuwanku) ba yana nufin kun yi fushi ba. Idan da gaske kuna son ganin mahaukaciyar mace, wannan lafazin kalmomi zai yi. Shawararmu: Kada ku je can.

Yin shi duka. Shin har yanzu mutane suna yin rijistar wannan ra'ayin da ba zai yiwu ba? Burin da ya fi kyau: Tsara rana lokacin da ba ku da abin da za ku yi.

MILF. Sabanin abin da aka sani, shi ne ba lallashi ko la'akari da yabo don yaba wa inna don rashin barin kanku gaba ɗaya bayan haihuwa. Rashin mutunci ne kawai.

Mai bugun mata. Kalmomi biyu mafi kyau don bayyana wannan farar fata, marar hannu, rigar da ta dace: saman tanki.

Daya daga cikin yaran. Domin kawai an ga cewa kuna da kyau don rataya baya ba waɗannan mazan damar faɗi da aikata abubuwan da ba su dace ba (kamar magana game da “mahaukacin bitches” da iskar gas) a gaban ku. Newsflash: Ke mace ce ko da sun so su kwana da ke ko a'a, don haka, maza, ku daina zama jackasses.

Kugar. Labari mai dadi: A ƙarshe mata suna cewa "murɗa shi" zuwa ƙa'idodin al'umma kuma suna juyar da ma'auni biyu a kai. Ba laifinku bane cewa ƙanana za su iya ci gaba fiye da manya.

Akan raggo. Lokacin wannan lokacin na wata ya yi, abu na ƙarshe da kuke buƙata shine tunatarwa ta amfani da gani mai banƙyama. A maimakon haka, mu kasance (maza da mata) duka mu kasance masu godiya, fahimtar juna, da kuma yarda da juna, don Allah, domin idan ba tare da shi ba, babu ɗayanmu da zai kasance a nan a yanzu.

Matsalolin baba. Gaskiyar ita ce, Daddy zai sami matsala tare da ku yana cewa wannan babbar magana ta shari'ar da ke nuna cewa ku mabukata ne, marasa hankali, da neman yarda daga maza masu nau'in siffa.

Tomboy. Wataƙila lakabin maraba ne lokacin da kuke yaro kuma ba ku dace da sauran 'yan mata mata a cikin aji ba. Amma yanzu da kuka fi sani, lokaci ne na jima'i wanda yakamata a kawar da shi daga al'ummomin da ke gaba. Ƙarin sifofi ga ƙananan 'yan mata masu aiki: "ɗan wasa," "babban tauraro," da "tilasta yin lissafin su." [Tweet wannan!]

Wifey. Abu ɗaya ne idan hubby ɗinku ya faɗi hakan - kuma watakila hakan zai sa ku dawo don kiransa "hubby" ko "hubs." Amma lokacin da abokan aiki maza ko abokan aikin da ba ku aura ba ku faɗi hakan, kawai tawali'u ne. Lokaci na gaba da za su kira ku "wifey," ku sa su biya abincin dare ko ba ku tausa kamar yadda kowane miji nagari zai yi.

Shuka wasu kwallaye. Mai wasan barkwanci Betty White ta ce mafi kyau: "Kwallan suna da rauni kuma suna da hankali. Idan da gaske kuna son yin tauri, girma farji! Waɗannan abubuwan suna ɗaukar nauyi!" Wannan abin lura kuma ya shafi "itauke shi kamar mutum," "Kada ku zama farji," da "Man up."

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