Abubuwa 8 masu ban mamaki da suka shafi Rayuwar Jima'i

Wadatacce

• Abin da kuke kallo a daren Daren
• Abokai Guy Nawa Kuke
• Ikon Haihuwar ku
• Nau'in Saurayin da kuke Saduwa
• Ko Kwakwalwarka Tana Wayar Da Ita
• Abin da kuke yi Bayan Jima'i
• Al'adar Abincinku Mai Sauri
• Yawan Yoga kuke yi
• Bita don

Lokacin da ka buga zanen gado, jima'i yana da gaske game da dabaru-abin da ke zuwa inda, abin da ke jin daɗi (da sunadarai, ba shakka). Amma abin da kuke yi kafin-ba foreplay, muna nufin hanya kafin-da bayan jima'i na iya samun yawa, idan ba mafi tasiri akan aikin ku ba. A zahiri, har ma yana iya tantance ko a zahiri za ku yi aikin (duba waɗannan 5 Libido-Crushers don Gujewa). Kimiyya ta gano wasu dalilan da ba na jima'i ba a baya ko kuna yawan yin jima'i, mai gamsarwa ko kuma ba za ku iya rage sha'awar yin tsirara ba. Kuma daya daga cikin dalilan da muka tattara ya faru ne a cikin ɗakin kwana. Koyar da kanku yanzu don tabbatar da mafi kyawun lokaci a cikin ɗakin kwana (sannan gwada waɗannan Motsi guda 5 zuwa Orgasm Tonight).

Abin da kuke kallo a daren Daren

Mujalli

Kamar yadda zaku iya son fitar da sabon fim din Nicholas Sparks (kuma akwai wani sabo!) Don shiga cikin yanayi, ƙwanƙwaran kajin ku na iya kashe shi ta hanyar jima'i. Da gaske-masana kimiyya sun gano cewa maza ƙila za su so yin jima'i bayan an yi musu yanayin soyayya (a wannan yanayin, yanayin da ke nuna Leonardo DiCaprio da Kate Winslet sumba ta farko a Titanic, da shirin soyayya daga Shawara mara kyau), bisa ga binciken da aka buga a mujallar Taskokin Halayen Jima'i. Masu binciken sun kammala cewa yayin da mata ke ƙara kunna ta ta hanyar abubuwan da suka faru na soyayya, maza suna da kyau tare da ƙarin abubuwan motsa rai, kamar batsa. (Ga Yadda ake Kallon Batsa Tare.)

Abokai Guy Nawa Kuke

Mujalli

Koyaushe game da gasa da maza ne, daidai ne? A gaskiya ma, ko da gane gasa na iya sanya rayuwar jima'i ta yi zafi, in ji wani binciken da aka buga a cikin Jaridar Psychology Kwatantawa. Masu bincike sun jefa maza 393 maza da mata a cikin dogon lokaci, dangantaka mai ƙarfi, kuma sun sa su kimanta bayyanar abokin aikin su, abokai maza da abokan aikin su da yawa da suke tunanin tana da su, yadda suka yi imani da cewa wasu maza sun same ta, kuma sau nawa suke yin jima'i da ita. Bayan haka, matan da ke da ƙarin abokai da abokan aiki sun fi yin jima'i da abokan zamansu. A bayyane yake, wannan barazanar ɗan ƙaramin gasa yana sa mu fi so ga mutuminmu.

Ikon Haihuwar ku

Mujalli

Kun san kwaya tana shafar da yawa fiye da ko kun yi ciki ko a'a-amma kun san yana iya zama sigar gogewar giya ta libido? Kulawar haihuwa na Hormonal na iya tantance ainihin wanda kuke so, a cewar binciken Burtaniya. Masana kimiyya ba wai kawai sun gano cewa matan da suka ci gaba ko kashe ikon haihuwa na hormonal yayin da suke cikin alaƙa sun sami raguwar gamsuwa ta jima'i, amma kuma matan da suka sadu da mazajensu na gaba yayin da suke kan kulawar haihuwa amma suka rabu da ita bayan yin aure sun zama ƙasa da ƙasa. sun gamsu da aurensu (musamman idan mijin nasu bai kasance "zafi ba"). (Samu cike da ƙarin Abubuwan Haihuwa Mafi Yawanci na Kula da Haihuwa.)

Nau'in Saurayin da kuke Saduwa

Mujalli

Kowane mutum yana da nau'ikan da ke kunna su: tsayi, fata, hawan igiyar ruwa, komai. Amma kimiyya ta tabbatar da cewa akwai ƴan halaye a cikin namiji waɗanda za su iya ƙara ƙarfin inzali. (Shin Kun taɓa yin inzali?) A wani binciken da aka buga kwanan nan a mujallar Juyin Juyin Halitta, Yawaita da tsananin inzali yana da alaƙa da samun kuɗin iyali na abokin tarayya (ya kamata ya yi yawa), amincewar kansa (wannan ma ya kamata ya yi girma), yadda kuke samunsa (mafi kyawun jin daɗi...) , da kuma yadda yake da kyau (faɗaɗɗen kafadu suna maɓalli a nan). Kuma, idan abokanka suna tunanin abokin tarayya yana da zafi sosai, wannan ma yana nufin mai yiwuwa ku fi gamsuwa a kan gado. Kimiyya ta ce haka!

Ko Kwakwalwarka Tana Wayar Da Ita

Mujalli

Idan kun sami kanku kuna sha'awar jima'i duka lokacin (ko ba a taɓa ba), zai iya samun ƙasa da alaƙa da libido fiye da kwakwalwar ku. Wasu mutane, bisa ga binciken da aka buga a UCLA's Ilimin zamantakewa da tasiri Neuroscience mujallar, ana yin ta ne kawai don ita. Masu bincike sun nuna ɗalibai 225 na ilimin halin ɗabi'a hotuna iri-iri waɗanda suka haɗa da ma'aurata suna sumbata, yin jima'i ko yin wani abu gaba ɗaya G-rated; mutanen da aikin kwakwalwarsu ke amsawa ga yawancin hotunan su ne wadanda suka fi yawan abokan jima'i. Ainihin, kwakwalwar waɗancan mutane sun fi kula da alamomin jima'i fiye da sauran, yana sauƙaƙa musu samun tashin hankali (wanda ke kai su ga neman ƙarin abokan hulɗa). (A cikin yanayi? Gwada Hanyoyi 4 don Kara Yin Jima'i-Daren Yau!)

Abin da kuke yi Bayan Jima'i

Mujalli

Wasu mutane suna sha'awar shan cokali bayan jima'i, wasu kuma suna ƙin yin loda. Yi tsammani wa ya fi gamsuwa ta jima'i? Masu cuddlers, in ji wani binciken da aka buga a cikin Taskokin Halayen Jima'i. Masana kimiyya sun lura da halayen mahalarta 335 bayan sun shiga ciki, kuma sun gano cewa waɗanda suka ɓata lokaci da yawa suna nuna ƙauna sun ba da rahoton jin daɗin jima'i. (Matsakaicin lokacin, idan kuna mamakin, ya kasance mintuna 15.) A zahiri, tsawon lokacin soyayya bayan jima'i ya kasance mafi girma fiye da tsayin wasan kwaikwayo da ainihin jima'i. Snuggle away! (PS: Gano Yadda Salon Barcinku ke Shafar Dangantakarku.)

Al'adar Abincinku Mai Sauri

Mujalli

Kun sani mafi kyau fiye da cin abinci cikin sauri kuma sau da yawa, kuma ga wani dalili ba don: zai iya kashe your jima'i drive. A cikin wani binciken da aka gabatar a taron shekara -shekara na Cibiyar Kula da Ciwon Haihuwa ta Amurka, masu bincike sun yi wa mata masu ciki 360 da ke tsakanin shekaru 20 zuwa 30 bayani game da rayuwar jima'i a cikin watanni kafin su yi ciki. Sun kuma ɗauki samfuran fitsari, suna auna matakin phthalates-ƙungiyar sunadarai da aka samo a cikin abinci mai sauri, abubuwan sarrafawa, da samfuran da ba na halitta ba waɗanda ke da alaƙa da ƙananan libido-a cikin kowane samfurin. Matan da ke da mafi girman matakin phthalates a cikin fitsarin su sun ninka sau biyu da rabi don ba da rahoton lalata jima'i. (Yunwa? Ku ci waɗannan 25 Superfoods don Ingantaccen Jima'i maimakon.)

Yawan Yoga kuke yi

Hotunan Corbis

A bayyane yake, akwai fa'idodi da yawa ga yoga (kuma ba wai kawai yana haɓaka girman ku akan gado ba). Nazarin da aka buga a Jaridar Magungunan Jima'i ya ce yana iya haɓaka aikin jima'i da gamsuwa musamman a cikin mata. Masu bincike suna da mata 40 a wani shirin yoga a Indiya sun cika daidaitattun tambayoyin aikin jima'i a farkon da ƙarshen shirin na mako 12. A ƙarshe, sun sami ci gaba a cikin sha'awar, tashin hankali, shafawa, inzali, zafi, da gamsuwa gaba ɗaya. (Gano me yasa wasu Yogis sun fi kyau a cikin gado.)

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