Dalilin da yasa Alex Morgan yake son ƙarin 'yan wasa su rungumi uwa a cikin ayyukansu

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'Yar wasan ƙwallon ƙafa ta mata ta Amurka (USWNT) Alex Morgan ta zama ɗaya daga cikin fitattun masu fafutuka a fafutukar biyan albashi daidai a wasanni. Tana daya daga cikin 'yan wasa biyar da suka shigar da korafi a hukumance ga Hukumar Damar Samun Aiki Daidai a shekarar 2016, bisa zargin nuna wariyar jinsi daga Hukumar Kwallon Kafa ta Amurka.

Kwanan nan, Morgan ya zama ɗaya daga cikin membobi 28 na USWNT don yin ƙarar ƙwallon ƙafa ta Amurka bisa hukuma don gaza samar da ƙungiyar daidai albashi da "daidaita wasa, horo, da yanayin tafiya; haɓaka wasannin su daidai; tallafi daidai da ci gaban wasannin su; da sauran sharuɗɗa da ƙa'idodin aikin yi daidai da [Ƙungiyar Maza ta Ƙasa], "a cewar CNN. (Mai alaka: AmurkaKwallon kafa ya ce ba lallai ne ya biya kungiyar mata daidai ba saboda kwallon kafa na maza yana "bukatar karin fasaha")

Yanzu, a cikin watanni takwas na ciki, Morgan yana magana game da wani yaki a yakin neman daidaito: haihuwa a wasanni.

'Yar wasan mai shekaru 30 za ta haifi' yarta a watan Afrilu, kuma har zuwa kwanan nan, tana shirin shiga gasar Olympics ta Tokyo ta 2020, in ji ta Glamour mujallar a cikin sabuwar hira.

Tabbas, yanzu an dage wasannin saboda cutar amai da gudawa. Amma kafin jinkirin ya faru, Morgan ya fada Glamour cewa horon da ta yi bai taba daukar kujerar baya ba. Ta ce za ta ci gaba da yin zaman filayen wasa, horar da masu nauyi, azuzuwan motsa jiki, da gudu, har sai da ta yi ciki wata bakwai. Ba da daɗewa ba ta ƙi buga lambar yayin da ta kusan ƙarshen ciki, tana juyawa zuwa raye-raye na yau da kullun, ilimin motsa jiki, motsa jiki na ƙasa, da yoga kafin haihuwa, in ji ta.

Gabaɗaya, ko da yake, Morgan ta ce ba ta ɗauki cikinta a matsayin abin da zai hana ta horo ba. Masu sukar ta, duk da haka, da alama suna jin ba haka ba, ta raba. "Masoyan wasan na yau da kullun sun kasance kamar, 'Me yasa za ta yi wani abu makamancin haka a lokacin mafi girman aikinta?'" Morgan ya fada Glamour, yana nufin shawarar da ta yanke na haifi jariri.

Amma ga Morgan, ba kawai wannan babbar yarjejeniya ba ce, in ji ta. Ta ci gaba da cewa, "Ba kamar mata ba za su iya yin duka biyun ba - jikin mu yana da ban mamaki - gaskiyar ita ce ba a kafa wannan duniyar da gaske don mata su bunƙasa ba," in ji ta. "Na yi tunani a kaina, ina da tallafi iya dawowa. Babu dalilin da zai sa in tsaya kawai don in fara iyali. ”

Wancan ya ce, Morgan yana sane da cewa ba kowa ne ke yin imani da ikon mace na daidaita iyayenta da aiki mai nasara ba, musamman a wasanni; bayan haka, wasu samfuran motsa jiki sun fuskanci suka ga manufofin da sau ɗaya ba su ba da tabbacin kariya ga 'yan wasan da ke da ciki ko sabbin iyaye.

Morgan ta ce tana son ta kasance a bayyane game da balaguron cikinta a matsayinta na ƙwararriyar 'yan wasa don taimakawa mata "jin kamar ba lallai ne su zaɓi ɗaya ko ɗayan ba," in ji ta Glamour. "Yawan 'yan wasan mata da ke zama uwa a cikin sana'arsu, za su yi kyau. Yadda ake kalubalantar tsarin, haka za ta canza."

Daga nan Morgan ya yi ihu ga wasu takwarorinta 'yan wasa, ciki har da dan tseren tsere na Amurka Allyson Felix, sarauniyar wasan tennis Serena Williams, da abokin aikinta na USWNT Sydney Leroux. Abin da waɗannan matan ke da alaƙa da juna (ban da kasancewa ƴan wasa na banza): Duk sun nuna cewa juggling uwa da aiki. shine mai yiwuwa -ko da a fuskar nuna bambanci da masu naysayers masu shakku. (Mai alaƙa: Iyaye masu dacewa suna Raba Mahimman Hanyoyi masu Mahimmanci da Haƙiƙa waɗanda suke Ba da Lokaci don Ayyuka)

Misali: A watan Satumba na 2019, wasu mutane sun yi shakku game da ko Felix-wanda ya lashe lambar zinare ta Olympics sau shida kuma (a wancan lokacin) gwarzon duniya sau 11-zai ma iya samun cancantar shiga Gasar Cin Kofin Duniya ko Tokyo na 2020 Wasannin Olympics bayan ta haifi 'yarta, Camryn, watanni 10 da suka gabata. Amma kamar yadda kuka riga kuka sani, Felix ya ci gaba da yin tarihi a Doha, Qatar, ba wai kawai ya sami lambar zinare ta 12 ba amma kuma ya karya tarihin Usain Bolt na mafi yawan gasar cin kofin duniya.

Williams, a daya bangaren, ta kai wasan karshe na Grand Slam watanni 10 kacal bayan ta haifi 'yarta, Alexis Olympia. Hakan ya faru ne bayan da ta fuskanci matsalolin da ke barazana ga rayuwa yayin haihuwa, BTW. Tun daga lokacin Williams ta samu zuwa gasar Grand Slam da Wimbledon da kuma US Open, kuma ta kusa karya tarihin duniya na manyan kambu 24 da 'yar wasan tennis ta Australia Margaret Court ta rike. (Dubi: Halin Haihuwar Serena Williams Ya Yi Babban Sauyi a Gasar Tennis ta Mata)

Kuma abokin wasan Morgan, dan wasan USWNT Sydney Leroux ya koma filin ƙwallon ƙafa kawai 93 kwanaki bayan ta haifi ɗanta na biyu, diya Roux James Dwyer. "Ina son wannan wasan," Leroux ya rubuta a shafin Twitter a lokacin. "Wannan shekarar da ta gabata ta cika da hauhawa da yawa amma na yi wa kaina alƙawarin cewa zan dawo. Ko ta yaya hakan zai yi wuya. Doguwar hanya ce amma na yi. [Watanni uku] da kwana ɗaya bayan na haifi 'ya mace. "

Waɗannan matan ba kawai suna tabbatar da cewa mahaifiyar ba ta raunana ku (idan wani abu, da alama yana sa ku jahannama mai ƙarfi sosai). Kamar yadda Morgan ya ce, suna kuma ƙalubalantar ɓataccen tunanin cewa 'yan wasan mata "ba su da ƙwarewa" kamar takwarorinsu maza - ainihin tunanin da ke haifar da manufofin nuna wariya da ke kawo cikas ga ikon mata.

Yanzu, yayin da Morgan ke shirin ɗaukar fitilar, ga fatan sauran duniya na ci gaba da kamawa.

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