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• Halayen Baby babban buƙata
• Abin yi
• Yaya ci gaban jariri babban buƙata
• Yaya lafiyar uwa

Jaririn babban buƙata, jariri ne wanda ke da buƙatar kulawa da kulawa daga iyaye, musamman daga uwa. Yana buƙatar a riƙe shi koyaushe, tunda an haife shi, ya yi kuka sosai kuma yana son ciyarwa kowane sa'a, ƙari ga rashin yin sama da minti 45 a jere.

Bayanin halayen jaririn da ke cikin tsananin buƙata likitan yara William Sears ne ya yi shi bayan lura da halayyar ɗan ƙaramin ɗansa, wanda ya sha bamban da sauran 'yan uwansa. Koyaya, waɗannan halaye ba za a iya bayyana su da cuta ko ciwo ba, kasancewar nau'ikan halaye ɗaya ne na yaro.

Halayen Baby babban buƙata

Jaririn da ke da buƙatar kulawa da kulawa yana da halaye masu zuwa:

• Kuka sosai: Kuka yana da ƙarfi da ƙarfi kuma yana iya kusan kusan tsawon yini, tare da ƙananan tazara na minti 20 zuwa 30. Abu ne gama-gari ga iyaye da farko suyi tunanin cewa jaririn yana fama da wata cuta, saboda kukan kamar ba shi da nutsuwa, wanda ke haifar da likitocin yara da yawa da kuma yin gwaje-gwaje, kuma duk sakamako daidai ne.
• Barci kaɗan: Galibi wannan jaririn baya yin bacci sama da minti 45 a jere kuma koyaushe yakan tashi da kuka, yana buƙatar cinya don ya huce. Dabaru kamar 'barin kuka' don dakatarwa basa aiki saboda jariri baya barin kuka koda bayan sama da awa 1 kuma karatu ya nuna cewa yawan kuka na iya haifar da illa ga kwakwalwa baya ga barin alamomi a dabi'un yaron, kamar rashin tsaro da rashin yarda .
• Kullum kwangilarsa take: Kodayake jariri ba ya kuka, mai yiyuwa ne yanayin sautin na jikinsa yana da matukar zafi, wanda hakan ke nuna cewa tsoka ko yaushe suna daurewa kuma hannayensa suna dunkulewa sosai, yana nuna rashin gamsuwa da sha'awar kawar da wani abu, kamar dai koyaushe a shirye suke su gudu. Wasu jariran suna jin daɗin lulluɓe su a cikin bargo, wanda aka matse shi da sauƙi a jikinsu, yayin da wasu kuma kawai ba sa goyon bayan irin wannan hanyar.
• Tsotse ƙarfin iyayen: Kula da jariri cikin tsananin buƙata yana da gajiya sosai saboda kamar suna shan dukkan kuzari daga mahaifiya, suna buƙatar cikakken kulawa mafi yawan kwanaki. Abinda yafi yawa shine cewa uwa ba zata iya nisantar jariri sama da rabin sa'a ba, dole ta canza zanin, ciyarwa, sanya bacci, kwantar da kuka, wasa da duk abin da ya wajaba don kula da jariri. Babu wani wanda zai iya biyan bukatun jariri babban buƙata.
• Ku ci da yawa: jaririn da ke cikin tsananin buƙata kamar koyaushe yana jin yunwa da rashin gamsuwa, amma saboda yawan kuzarin da suke yi, ba za su zama masu kiba sosai ba. Wannan jaririn yana son shayarwa kuma baya amfani da madarar uwa don shayar da jikinsa, har ma da motsin zuciyar sa, don haka ciyarwar ta tsawaita kuma jaririn yana matukar son a shayar da shi, yana yin duk mai yiwuwa don zama a cikin wannan yanayi mai kyau inda yake jin kariya. kuma ƙaunatacce, tsawon lokaci fiye da na al'ada, kamar dai a kowane lokaci.
• Yana da wahala a kwantar da hankali kuma kar a huce shi kadai: Wani korafin da iyaye ke yi tare da jariran da ke cikin tsananin buƙata shi ne cewa dabarun da suka gudanar don kwantar masa da hankali a yau ba za su iya aiki gobe ba, kuma ya zama dole a yi amfani da dukkan dabaru don kwantar da hankalin jaririn da ke yawan kuka, kamar tafiya tare da shi a kan cinyarsa, a cikin keken motar, rera wakar lullabies, pacifiers, bet a kan fata-da-fata lamba, saka a kan mama, kashe wutar.

Samun jariri cikin tsananin buƙata na buƙatar sadaukarwa sosai daga iyaye, kuma abin da aka fi sani shi ne uwa ta ji takaici kuma ta yi tunanin ba ta san yadda za ta kula da jaririnta ba, tun da a koyaushe yana son ƙari da yawa, kulawa, cin abinci kuma koda ta yi masa komai, duk da haka, a koyaushe yana iya zama mai rashin gamsuwa.

Abin yi

Hanya mafi kyau da za'a iya jajantawa jariri cikin tsananin buƙata shine samun lokaci a gareshi. A yadda yakamata, uwa bata kamata tayi aiki a waje ba kuma zata iya dogaro da taimakon uba ko wasu mutane don raba ayyuka banda kula da jariri, kamar tsaftace gida, sayayya ko girki.

Hakanan mahaifi na iya kasancewa a cikin rayuwar yau da kullun na yara kuma abu ne na al'ada yayin da jariri ya girma ya saba da ra'ayin cewa ba uwa ce kawai a cikin rayuwarsa ba.

Yaya ci gaban jariri babban buƙata

Ci gaban psychomotor na jariri babban buƙata abu ne na al'ada kuma kamar yadda ake tsammani, don haka kusan shekara 1 ya kamata ka fara tafiya kuma a shekara 2 zaka iya fara hada kalmomi biyu, kafa 'jumla'.

Lokacin da yaro ya fara magana yana nuna abubuwa ko rarrafe zuwa garesu, wanda ke faruwa kusan watanni 6 zuwa 8, iyaye na iya fahimtar abin da jaririn yake buƙata, sauƙaƙa kulawar yau da kullun. Kuma lokacin da wannan yaron ya fara magana tun yana ɗan shekara 2, zai zama da sauƙi a fahimci abin da yake so saboda zai iya faɗi ainihin abin da yake ji da abin da yake buƙata.

Yaya lafiyar uwa

Mahaifiyar yawanci tana gajiya sosai, an cika ta da nauyi, tare da duhun dare da ɗan lokacin hutu da kula da kanta. Jin kamar damuwa ya zama gama gari musamman a farkon watannin rayuwar jariri ko kuma har sai likitan yara ya zo ga gano cewa yaron yana cikin tsananin buƙata.

Amma tsawon shekaru, yaro yana koyan zama abin damuwa da nishaɗi tare da wasu kuma mahaifiya ba ta zama cibiyar kulawa ba. A wannan matakin abu ne na yau da kullun ga uwa don buƙatar ba da shawara game da hankali saboda yana yiwuwa ta saba da rayuwa musamman ga yaro babban buƙata cewa zai yi wuya ka rabu da ita, koda kuwa don ta shiga makarantar renon yara ne.