Tattaunawar Gashin Jiki Kadai Mata Suna Bukatar Karanta

Wadatacce

• Tarihin cire gashi a jiki
• Bayan wasu yan shekaru, Gillette ta kirkiro mata reza ga mata mai suna Milady Décolleté
• Abin da mata 10 suka ce game da gashin jikinsu, cire shi, stigmas, da kansu
• A kan yadda gashin jiki ke shafar ayyukansu da hulɗarsu da wasu
• Akan cire gashin jiki
• A kan hanyar da aka fi so ta cire gashin jiki
• A kan hanyar ana nuna gashin jiki a cikin kafofin watsa labarai da kuma kyamar da ke tattare da shi
• Akan alakar da ke tsakanin gashin jiki da na mata
• A kan ko sun sami kwarewa mara kyau da lalacewar gashin jiki
• Kuma a can kuna da shi, ra'ayi akan gashin jiki yana da rikitarwa kamar yadda yake da sauƙi

Lokaci yayi da zamu canza yadda muke ji game da gashin jiki - rashin kulawa da tsoro sune kawai halayen da za'a yarda dasu.

Yana da shekara ta 2018 kuma a karo na farko har abada, akwai ainihin gashin jiki a cikin cinikin reza ga mata. Me ya faru da duk kafafun da ba su da gashi, gutsurarren gabobin hannu, da layukan bikini masu ‘ɗauke da hoto?

Da kyau, waɗannan tallace-tallacen suna nan (kamar yadda tallan shuɗi mai talla suke yi har yanzu), amma hoton jiki mai kyau yana nan kusa, kuma mun kasance a nan lokacin duka jikuna suna godiya.

“Babu wanda ke da gashin jiki a kafafen yada labarai. Ka girma cikin tunani na al'ada ne kuma mai sauƙin samu. "

Bayan mun yi rawar jiki a cikin sabon tallan reza na Billie, mun kuma yi mamakin: Ta yaya gashin jiki yake ƙirar mu kuma me ya sa yake kawo irin wannan tasirin na gani daga talakawa?

Wataƙila amsar, kamar yawancin amsoshi na al'adu, tana cikin tarihi - ana iya gano cirewar gashin jiki tsawon ƙarni.

Tarihin cire gashi a jiki

A cewar gidan kayan gargajiya na Mata na Kalifoniya, sau da yawa ana cire cire gashi a tsohuwar Rome a matsayin mai gano matsayin. Mata masu arziki za su sami hanyoyi daban-daban don cire gashin jikinsu, gami da yin amfani da duwatsun pumice.

An ƙirƙiri kayan aski na farko mafi aminci cikin 1769 daga wanzami Bafaranshe Jean-Jacques Perret. Wannan kayan aikin cire gashi na farko an kara inganta su tsawon shekaru a kokarin kirkirar wani kayan aiki mafi aminci wanda talakawa zasuyi amfani dashi. William Henson ya kara ba da gudummawarsa ta hanyar kirkirar reza "mai kama da hoe," tsarin da yawancinmu muka saba da shi a yau.

Sakamakon Fahs ya nuna cewa yawancin mata sun kyamaci tunanin gashi na jiki, duka nasu da kuma ra'ayin wasu matan suna barin gashinsu yayi girma.

Koyaya, har sai da wani mai tallan tafiya mai suna King Camp Gillette ya haɗa siffar reza ta Henson tare da muradin sa yin aski cikin sauƙi a ƙirƙira ruwa mai kaifi biyu da aka fara amfani da shi a shekarar 1901.

Wannan ya kawar da buƙata don kaifafa aski bayan kowane aski kuma mai yiwuwa ya rage yiwuwar fushin fata.

Bayan wasu yan shekaru, Gillette ta kirkiro mata reza ga mata mai suna Milady Décolleté

Wannan sabon sakin-da-kawancen mata da saurin canji a tsarin mata - mara hannayen riga, gajerun siket, da rigunan bazara - sun rinjayi mata da yawa don cire gashin da ke girma a ƙafafunsu da kannansu.

A lokacin shekarun 1960, wasu motsi - galibi hippie ko mata a yanayi - na karfafa kwalliyar “dabi’a”, amma akasarin matan wancan lokacin sun zabi cire gashin ne a duk inda suka ga dama.

A cikin shekarun da suka gabata, al'adun gargajiyar da kafofin watsa labarai sun rura wutar wannan yanayin mara gashi a matsayin daidaitaccen abin karba ta hanyar nuna jikin mutum mai santsi.

“Ina bayyana wa matan da na aura cewa ina son gashin jiki. Akan ni. Akan su. Haƙiƙa ya kunna ni. ”

A cikin nazarin na 2013, malama Breanne Fahs ta gudanar da gwaje-gwaje biyu da suka dabaibaye mata da alakar su da gashin jiki, musamman abin da suke tunani game da gashi.

Sakamakon Fahs ya nuna cewa yawancin mata sun kyamaci tunanin gashi na jiki, duka nasu da kuma ra'ayin wasu matan suna barin gashinsu yayi girma.

Kashi na biyu na binciken Fahs ya kalubalanci mahalarta su kyale gashin jikinsu ya yi girma na tsawon makonni 10 da kuma adana jarida game da kwarewar. Sakamakon binciken ya nuna cewa matan da suka shiga cikin tunani sosai game da gashin jikinsu har ma sun ƙi yin hulɗa da wasu yayin gwajin.

Kuma kamar Fahs, mu ma muna da sha'awar alaƙar da ke tsakanin waɗanda suka yi daidai da mace da kuma alaƙar su da gashin jiki, don haka muka yi namu binciken. Bayan duk, a ƙarshen rana, yana da fifiko na mutum.

Abin da mata 10 suka ce game da gashin jikinsu, cire shi, stigmas, da kansu

A kan yadda gashin jiki ke shafar ayyukansu da hulɗarsu da wasu

“Lokacin da na fara soyayya da wani, nakan sanya shi a sanya gashin jikina a bayyane. Idan ta mayar da martani mara kyau, to na daina hulɗa da ita. Lokacin da muke yin jima'i a karon farko, nima haka nake auna aikinta; rashin kulawa da tsoro sune kawai abubuwan da za a yarda da su. "

“Ina kokarin boye jikina kamar yadda zan iya yayin da nake da gashi. A lokacin rani yana da matukar wuya a aske gashin kaina koyaushe kuma na yi jinkiri sosai tunda ina da jariri don haka na ƙare da dogayen hannayen riga ko dogon wando fiye da yadda ya kamata! ”

“Na saba koyaushe wax / Nair lokacin da nake da sababbin abokan tarayya, amma yanzu ban damu da gaske ba. Tabbas har yanzu ina kawar da gashi mara kyau don yin hannun riga, musamman a cikin aiki da saitunan aiki. Ina jin matsin yin hakan kuma na gaji sosai don shawo kan mutane cewa jikina da gaske yake nawa a cikin wadannan wurare. ”

"Ba haka bane. Akalla ba yanzu ba.Yana da wani abu na. "

“Ba ma kadan ba. Ina bayyanawa matan da na sani cewa ina son gashin jiki. Akan ni. Akan su. Haƙiƙa ya kunna ni. ”

“Zan iya guje wa sutura mara hannaye idan gashin kaina wanda ba shi da tsawo sosai. Duk sauran abubuwa iri daya ne. ”

Akan cire gashin jiki

“Ba na aske farji na - sai don a datsa ni don samun saukin shiga yayin jima’i - kuma ba kasafai nake aske gindina ba. Bana yin wadannan abubuwan domin 1. suna da gajiya kuma suna cin lokaci; 2. idan ba maza suyi ba, me yasa zan; kuma 3. Ina son yanayin jikina da yadda nake ji da gashi. ”

“Ee, amma‘ a kai a kai ’lokaci ne mai sako. Nakan yi lokacin da na tuna yi ko kuma idan zai zama dole a gare ni in nuna wani bangare na jikina. Ina da kyau sosai kuma gashi mara kyau sosai saboda haka sau da yawa nakan manta cire shi har sai in ga dogon gashi mai kunya. Na fi dacewa da cire gashin da ke karkashin hannuna. "

“Ee, yauwa alkhairi na. Tunda ciki na gashi gashi ya fara shigowa cikin sauri da sauri! Ba zan iya mu'amala da duk wani taurin kai da girman gashi ba. "

"Ya zama al'ada kuma na saba da jikina mara gashi."

“Ba na yawan cire gashina. Ina kawai aske gashin giya a lokacin da ba zan iya daina yin almara da shi ba. "

A kan hanyar da aka fi so ta cire gashin jiki

“Na taba amfani da reza. Ina tsammanin an gabatar da ni ne kawai ga wannan hanyar kuma yana da alama yana aiki a gare ni. Tun daga lokacin na koyi abin da ruwan wukake yake aiki mafi kyau da kuma yadda zan kula da fata na sosai. Na yi la'akari da kakin zuma amma ga alama mafi cin zali da zafi. Na aske sau da yawa a mako. Zai iya zama damuwa game da shi. ”

"Na fi son cire sinadarin mai sinadarai saboda askewa da kakin zuma na da mummunar illa ga fata tawa mai saukin kai."

“Ina son yin kakin zuma da kuma amfani da Nair. Yin kakin zuma saboda ba sai na rinka yin sa ba kuma ina amfani da Nair idan gida na da ‘larura.’ Na cire gashi nesa ba kusa ba kamar yadda nake yi a baya saboda abin da yake damuna kadan yanzu. ”

“Yin aski. Ita ce kadai hanyar da na gwada har yanzu. Kowane makonni uku zuwa huɗu don lokacin ƙasa idan ban ziyarci rairayin bakin teku ba kafin lokacin. Ban duba ainihin lokacin da yawanci nake jira tsakanin yin layin bikini ba kuma ban aske ƙafafuna ba. "

A kan hanyar ana nuna gashin jiki a cikin kafofin watsa labarai da kuma kyamar da ke tattare da shi

"Yana da bijimai-t. Jikina a zahiri anyi shi da duk wannan gashin akan shi, me yasa zan dauki lokaci ina cire shi alhali hakan baya jefa ni cikin hadari? Ba na kwankwasa ko kunya ga duk wata mace da ke yi, ba shakka, amma ni da kaina na yi tunanin cewa matsin lambar da mata ke yi wa mata don cire gashi wata hanya ce ta daban don ƙoƙarin ba ta jarirai da kuma sanya ta ta zama daidai da ƙa'idodin da maza ba sa yi biyayya da shi. ”

“Muna da batutuwa, mutum. Zan ce na riƙe wasu daga cikin waɗannan ƙyamar kuma yana damuna. Misali, Ina ganin mata (da maza) waɗanda ke da ƙanƙanin gashi ba su da tsabta (kuma masu ƙona rigar mata). Kuma yayin da na san wannan karya ce kawai, amma tunanina na fara zuwa. ”

“Babu wanda ke da gashin jiki a kafafen yada labarai. Ka girma cikin tunanin da ke al'ada da kuma sauƙin samu. Hakanan ina jin kamar na girma a cikin lokacin da ake cinikin reza na mata - Ina tsammanin reza Venus ta fito ne a farkon 2000s kuma kwatsam kowa ya buƙaci a same ta. Amma kuma kuna buƙatar duk wani sabon ƙanshin cream askin ya fita. A lokacin, ina ganin abin ya zama kamar wata hanya ce ta 'zamanantar da' cire gashi ga sabuwar karni (ba askin mamanka ba ne da duka), amma yanzu ya bayyana kawai suna son mu sayi wasu kayayyaki ne. ”

"Suna gajiya da tsada. Gaskiya, ya kamata mu bar mata suna rayuwa yadda suke so. ”

“Muna bukatar mu daina sanya‘ yan sanda abin da mutane suke yi da jikinsu ko kuma yawan gashin da suke ajiyewa a wani bangare na jikinsu. Ina tsammanin kafofin watsa labaru sun sami ci gaba ta hanyar motsawa daga ci gaba da ƙyamar da ke tattare da gashin jiki. Ana rubuta labarai akan tasirin gashi na jiki kuma wannan abin ban mamaki ne. "

Akan alakar da ke tsakanin gashin jiki da na mata

“Ina ganin ya kamata mutane su yi abin da suka ga dama da su. Kasancewa ta mata ba dole ba ne ya zama daidai da kasancewarta mai gashi. "

"Yana da mahimmanci ga mata na, duk da cewa ban san cewa da na taɓa faɗi haka ba. Mata 'yanci ne na zaɓa da ayyana kanka don kanku. Ina tsammanin tsammanin zamantakewar jama'a don cire gashin jiki wata hanya ce da za a iya sarrafa mata da kuma jikinsu, don haka na matsa da hakan. ”

“Gashin jikina ba ya haifar da da yawa a cikin mata na kaina saboda, yayin da yake da nasaba kai tsaye da cin gashin kai na jiki, ba wani babban bangare bane na abin da zai yi tasiri cikin yanci na kaina da kuma yakin kawo karshen mahaifiyata. Na yi, duk da haka, ina ganin yana da matukar muhimmanci ga mata kuma ina goyon bayan duk wani aiki don kawo karshen munanan ra'ayoyin da muke da su game da jiki. "

“Da kaina, ban yi wannan haɗin ba. Bana tsammanin zan taba. Wataƙila saboda ba a sanya ni a matsayi ba in yi tunani a hankali game da zaɓin da nake yi da gashin jikina. "

"Duk da cewa zai yi matukar kyau idan ba a ji dadi ba a cikin saman madaurin spaghetti tare da kankararrun gashi, ba wurin da nake ganin ya kamata mu mai da hankali a yakin neman daidaito ba."

“Ban sani ba ko zan haɗa gashin kaina da na mata, amma ina tunanin harajin ruwan hoda da yadda ake tallata kayayyaki zuwa wurina. Saboda kusan Nair ne kawai kuma ina amfani da reza na maza (wukake huɗu = kusa da aski) lokacin da na aske, ba kasafai nake buƙatar sauka wannan hanyar a cikin shagon ba. Amma lokacin da na yi, ina mamakin yadda pastel duk ya kasance. Kayayyakin sun zama kamar an tsara su ne don roko na gani (a kan gado da kuma wanka) fiye da yadda suke aiki sosai. ”

A kan ko sun sami kwarewa mara kyau da lalacewar gashin jiki

“Na’am. Yayinda kake saurayi koyaushe ana maka dariya da komai. Yin ba'a da ɗan duhu (fata) duhu shine rayuwa ko mutuwa. [Amma kuma] ya dogara da inda kuke zama, inda mummunan ƙyamar gashi ga mata. Na zauna a [Los Angeles] kuma kowa yana cikin kulawa. Yanzu ina Seattle, ba wani babban abu bane wanda yake da gashi a jikinsu! "

“Ba da gaske ba. Na koyi koyon saka ne kawai wanda ba ya kama zafi ko danshi saboda hakan, hade da 'Afro' na yana ba ni maganin folliculitis. ''

"Wani lokaci ba zan sanya hoto ba a kafofin sada zumunta saboda akwai gashin jikin da ake gani a ciki."

Kuma a can kuna da shi, ra'ayi akan gashin jiki yana da rikitarwa kamar yadda yake da sauƙi

Kamar yadda daya daga cikin matan da muka zanta da ita ta sanya ta cikin ladabi: “Gaskiya abin yana min ciwo idan mata suka kunyata wasu matan saboda wannan. […] Na yi imani da 'yancin zabi. Kuma zabi na shine kar in cire gashi daga jikina saboda ina son shi a inda yake. ”

Cire gashin jikinku ko barin sa yayi girma ba dole bane ya zama sanarwa, amma ya wanzu - kuma kamar farkon gashin gashi mai kyau na reza na 2018, ya kamata mu yarda da hakan a bayyane.

Stephanie Barnes marubuciya ce, injin gaban gaba / iOS, kuma mace mai launi. Idan ba ta barci, za ku iya samun binge-tana kallon abubuwan talabijin da ta fi so ko kuma ƙoƙarin nemo tsarin kula da fata na yau da kullun.