Dalilin da yasa Netflix Sabuwar Fat-Phobic Show "Mai ƙoshin" yana da haɗari sosai

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'Yan shekarun da suka gabata sun ga wasu manyan ci gaba a cikin motsin haɓakar jiki-amma wannan baya nufin cewa kitse-phobia da stigmas masu nauyi ba har yanzu ba abu ne mai yawa ba. Nunin Netflix mai zuwa M yana tabbatar da cewa har yanzu akwai abubuwa da yawa game da yadda ake nuna hoton jikin a cikin kafofin watsa labarai waɗanda muke buƙatar magana akai. (Mai dangantaka: Jessamyn Stanley's Uncensored Take akan "Fat Yoga" da Motsa Jiki Mai Kyau)

ICMYI, M bai ma fita ba tukuna kuma tuni ya haifar da babbar muhawara. Ga taƙaitaccen taƙaitaccen bayani: A cikin daƙiƙan buɗewar tirelar, babban jigon "Fatty Patty" (wanda 'yar wasan kwaikwayo Debby Ryan ta buga a cikin rigar kitse) ta sami cin zarafi daga abokan karatunta na "zafi" na makarantar sakandare saboda girmanta. Bayan an doke ta a fuska, dole ne Patty ta rufe kunnen ta a lokacin bazara da karkatar da makirci! Kuma ta ci gaba da ɗaukar fansa a kan duk abokan ajin da suka yi mata mugunta lokacin da take da kiba.

Ee, akwai 'yan matsaloli a nan. Babban daya? Yadda hali ya rasa nauyi. Erin Risius, mai ba da shawara a Hilton Head Health wanda ke ƙwarewa game da ƙyamar nauyi da sifar jikin mutum . "Ina tsammanin da akwai wata hanyar da ta fi dacewa da za a kalli wannan batun na cin zarafi saboda son zuciya." (Mai Dangantaka: Dalilin Kunyar Jiki Wannan Babban Matsala ce-da Abin da Zaku Iya Yi Don Dakatar da Shi)

Ba abin mamaki bane, masu fafutukar daukar hoto sun yi saurin sukar shirin. "Ahhh eh, yarinya mai kiba ba zata iya tsayawa kanta tana mai kiba ba kuma tabbas sai an kai mata hari a rufe bakinta kafin ta zama mafi kyawunta, kitsonta. Da kyau ki sani!" Marubucin mata Roxane Gay ya rubuta a shafin Twitter.

Risius ya yarda cewa yadda wasan kwaikwayon ke nuna alaƙa tsakanin farin ciki da nauyi yana da matsala. "Rasa nauyi ba yana nufin cewa komai zai yi kyau ba zato ba tsammani a cikin duniyar ku ko kuma ya kawo farin ciki - wannan ba haka bane." (Ƙari akan hakan anan: Me yasa Rage Nauyi Ba koyaushe yake haifar da Amincewar Jiki ba)

Abin da muke buƙatar gani fiye da haka a cikin kafofin watsa labarai shine nunin kamar Mu ke nan, tare da haruffa masu yawa kamar Kate wanda Chrissy Metz ya buga. Lissafin labarinta wani lokaci game da rage nauyi, amma kuma game da manufofinta da yadda take ji da mafarkinta, in ji Risius. Ya kamata a lura cewa Ryan ya yi magana ta hanyar Instagram game da koma baya, yana cewa a wani bangare cewa duk da cewa ta fuskanci al'amurran da suka shafi hotunan jikinta (wanda ba shi da shi?!) Ta "jawo zuwa shirye-shiryen nunin zuwa wurare na gaske" da kuma cewa nunin ba "a cikin sana'ar kitse ba".

Har yanzu, Wuri Mai Kyau Jarumar Jameela Jamil (wacce ta fara harkar “I Weigh” a dandalin sada zumunta domin yakar masu girman kai kuma ta dade tana magana akan sakonnin kunya a kafafen yada labarai) ta kuma soki shirin. "Ba sosai a cikin yanayin Fatty Patty ba ... wata matashiya ta daina cin abinci kuma ta rasa nauyi sannan kuma lokacin da 'kyakkyawa mai ƙayatarwa' ta ɗauki fansa a kan 'yan makaranta? Wannan har yanzu yana gaya wa yara su rage nauyi don' cin nasara. ' Abin kunya mai kitse yana da ban sha'awa kuma yana da ban tsoro," ta rubuta a kan Twitter.

Ba masu fafutuka ba ne kawai ke fusata da koma baya. A zahiri, koke na Change.org na dakatar da Netflix daga fara wasan kwaikwayon a ranar 10 ga Agusta a halin yanzu yana da sa hannun sama da 170,000. Takardar koken ta bayyana cewa tirelar ta riga ta haifar da masu fama da matsalar cin abinci kuma tana da yuwuwar yin barna sosai idan aka fito da shirin. (FYI wannan ba shine kawai Netflix ya nuna ƙwararrun lafiyar hankali suna da matsala tare da: Masana sun yi magana a kan "Dalilai 13 da ya sa" Da sunan Rigakafin Kashe kai)

Layin ƙasa? Sa mutane su ji kamar ba su isa ba kuma don haka suna buƙatar "gyara" kansu, kamar yadda wannan wasan yake yi, kawai zai ƙarfafa halayen marasa lafiya, in ji Risius. Sabanin haka, "Idan muna jin daɗin kanmu daga ciki, da alama za mu zaɓi mafi kyawun zaɓin kula da kanmu," in ji Risius. (Mai alaƙa: Wannan matar tana son ku sani cewa rage kiba ba zai sa ku farin ciki da sihiri ba).

Akwai labulen azurfa ɗaya a ciki MSakon rigima, in ji ta. "Idan wannan wasan kwaikwayon ya yi iska, aƙalla zai buɗe tattaunawar a kusa da wannan batun ƙima mai nauyi-wani abu wanda tabbas kuma yana matukar buƙatar kulawa mai kyau."

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