Danielle Brooks ya yabawa Lizzo saboda Taimakawa mata Taimaka wa Jikinta na Bayan haihuwa

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Wataƙila kun ji cewa kwanan nan Lizzo ta haifar da cece-kuce bayan da ta raba cewa ta yi wanka mai laushi na kwanaki 10 don "sake saita" cikinta bayan tafiya zuwa Mexico. Ko da yake ta ce ta ji "mai ban mamaki" bayan tsaftacewar, mawakiyar ta sami ra'ayi daga mutanen da suka ji cewa sakonnin nata suna yada sakonni marasa kyau game da siffar jiki.

Daga baya, mawaƙin ya mayar da martani ga sukar ta hanyar bayyana cewa har yanzu tana kan hanyar samun daidaitaccen lafiya kuma tana aiki tukuru don gyara alaƙar ta da abinci da sifar jikin mutum. Fiye da duka, Lizzo ta ce tana son magoya bayanta su san cewa ita ɗan adam ce kuma ta cancanci tafiya ta kanta.

Yayin da wasu har yanzu suna kan shinge game da tsabtace santsi na Lizzo, 'yar wasan kwaikwayo Danielle Brooks ta zo don kare mawaƙin. A cikin wani sako mai ratsa zuciya na Instagram, Brooks ta ce raunin Lizzo ya ba ta kwarin gwiwar yin magana game da yadda ta ke fama da hoton jiki tun lokacin da ta zama uwa. (Mai Dangantaka: Danielle Brooks Tana Zama Fitacciyar Jarumar Da Ta Kasance Tana Fatan Ta Samu)

"A matsayina na wanda ya kirkiri kalmar #voiceofthecurves Na yi muryata na 'yan watanni yanzu saboda kunya," Brooks, wacce ta haifi' yarta Freeya a watan Nuwambar 2019, ta rubuta tare da hoton kanta mai ban sha'awa da fari. "Na ji kunyar kara nauyi, duk da na kawo mutum gaba daya duniya, na ji kunya saboda na kasa kula da nauyin jikina na yau da kullun bayan daukar ciki."

Brooks ta ce da farko ta yi shuru a shafukan sada zumunta da fatan za ta kai matsayin da za ta iya "buka hoton da aka dauka a baya kamar yadda wasu shahararrun mutane ke yi ta hanyar mu'ujiza" bayan ta haihu. "Amma wannan ba labarina ba ne," ta ci gaba da aikawa. "(Mai Alaƙa: Duk Abinda Ya Kamata Ku Sani Game da Rage Nauyin Haihuwa)

Gaskiyar ita ce, yalwa na mutane ba su da wani "mu'ujiza mai daukar hoto" da za a buga a Instagram bayan haihuwa. A gaskiya ma, akwai mutane da yawa da ke amfani da kafofin watsa labarun musamman don tunatar da wasu cewa rage nauyin jariri yana ɗaukar lokaci kuma yana da muhimmanci a rungumi maƙarƙashiya, fata mai laushi, da sauran canje-canje na dabi'a da na al'ada da ke faruwa bayan haihuwa. (Mai alaƙa: Tia Mowry Yana da Saƙo mai ƙarfafawa ga Sabbin uwaye waɗanda ke jin an matsa musu su "Snap Back")

Amma kuma gaskiya ne ana yawan yabo da yabo ga wadanda suka yi yi "Snap back" bayan ciki, musamman mashahuran mutane. (Duba: Beyoncé, Kate Middleton, Chrissy Teigen, da Ciara, don suna kaɗan.) Lokacin da waɗannan sauye-sauye suka yi kanun labarai kuma aka ɗaukaka su a shafukan sada zumunta, yana iya jawo hankalin wasu mutane, musamman ma waɗanda za su iya jin rashin tsaro game da nasu. bayan-baby jiki. (Mai Alaka: Wannan Mai Tasirin Yana Cigaba Da Haƙiƙa Game da Shiga Daki Mai Kyau Bayan Haihuwa)

Dangane da Brooks, ta yarda a cikin post ɗin ta cewa ta gwada "kowane irin abinci [da] tsarkakewa" a cikin tafiya ta bayan haihuwa - ba don ba ta son kanta ba, ta rubuta, amma saboda ta yayi son kanta, jikinta, da hankalinta, kuma tana kokarin kula da kanta.

"Kamar Lizzo, da sauran 'yan mata masu' kiba 'da yawa yakamata a ba mu damar yin zaɓin lafiya a bainar jama'a ba tare da sanya mu ji kamar zamba don ƙoƙarin zama lafiya," Brooks ta ci gaba da aikawa. "Ina jin yana da mahimmanci a raba tafiya, a matsayin tunatarwa cewa ba mu kaɗai ba ne, ba koyaushe muke haɗuwa da shi ba, kuma mu duka ayyukanmu ne na ci gaba." (Mai alaƙa: Yadda ake Ƙirƙirar Muhalli Mai Mahimmanci A Cikin Wurin Lafiya)

Mafi mahimmanci, Brooks yana son mutane su san cewa asarar nauyi, bayan haihuwa ko a'a, ba layi ba ne kuma an ba ku damar yin kuskure a hanya. "Yana da kyau a nuna tsakanin ci gaban," ta rubuta, tana kammala aikin nata. "Ba koyaushe za ku kasance tare ba."

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