Dalilai 7 Da Zaku Bawa Jima'i Salon Wani Harbi

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• Matsayin Jima'i Yanayin Matsayi 101
• 1. Yana da kyau don motsawar G-spot.
• 2. ... da motsawar A-spot.
• 3.Zaku iya sarrafa zurfin.
• 4. Za ka iya kawo gunkin ku a cikin aikin.
• 5. Kuna cikin babban matsayi don jima'i na baki.
• 6. Ba ya bukatar gado.
• 7. A zahiri * na iya * zama na kusanci.
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Tambaya mai mahimmanci: Menene mafi faranta rai, salon duban dan tayi ko salon salo? Wasu masu mallakan al'aura-musamman waɗanda suka shahara sosai game da salon jima'i na zomaye na zomo-tabbas za su gaya muku duka rashin soyayya, kusanci, da ta'aziyya. Don haka, idan kuna jin daɗi * yatsa emoji * game da yanayin jima'i na salon doggy, ba ku kaɗai ba.

"Salon karnuka yana samun mummunan wakilci saboda babu wani ido da ido kuma ba a ganinsa a matsayin 'na kusa' kamar, a ce, matsayin mishan," in ji mai koyar da jima'i, August McLaughlin, marubucinYarinya Boner kumaJaridar Yarinya Boner. Abun shine, fuskantar juna daga juna ba lallai bane mummunan abu bane, in ji ta. Idan kun taɓa jin kanku game da fuskar da kuke yi yayin jima'i, jima'i na salo na iya sa ku ji daɗin sakin jiki, in ji McLaughlin.

Bugu da ƙari, "idan kun yi watsi da salon salo na doggy, da gaske za ku iya rasa wasu manyan fa'idodin matsayin" (kamar G-spot da A-spot stimulation, wasan nono, da ƙari), in ji ta. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa, idan kuna da abokin tarayya mai shirye da yarda, zaku iya yin wasu tweaks zuwa matsayin jima'i na doggy kuma ku ba shi wani harbi. (Mai alaƙa: Mafi kyawun Matsayin Jima'i ga Mata)

A ƙasa, McLaughlin tare da Candice Smith, M.Ed, ƙwararren mazaunin mazaunin mazaunin My First Blush sun raba duk abin da suka sani game da jima'i na salo, gami da dalilai takwas don mayar da matsayin a juyawa.

Matsayin Jima'i Yanayin Matsayi 101

Bari mu fara da saurin wartsakewa: "Salon kare shine lokacin da abokin tarayya ya kasance a bayan ɗayan kuma ya shiga cikin farji ko dubura daga baya, ta amfani da abin wasa, azzakari, ko yatsa," in ji McLaughlin. Yawanci, wannan yana faruwa tare da abokin tarayya mai karɓa wanda aka sanya shi a cikin tsayin hannaye da gwiwoyi akan duka huɗu. Amma kun sami zaɓuɓɓuka.

"Salon Doggy matsayi ne mai ban mamaki da za a iya daidaita shi ta baya," in ji Smith. "Doggy za a iya yi a tsaye, durƙusa, kwance a gefen ku ko ciki, yayin da ake lanƙwasa a kan kujera, sama da bango ... duk abin da ya burge ku."

Shirye don ƙarin Intel akan matsayin jima'i na OG? Ci gaba da karantawa saboda dalilan da yasa salon doggy yakezuw mai kyau.

1. Yana da kyau don motsawar G-spot.

An ba shi suna bayan likita na farko da ya bayyana shi a cikin adabin likitanci, Ernst Gräfenber, G-spot wani ɗan jin daɗi ne wanda ya kai kusan inci biyu a bangon gaban farji. Wataƙila kun ji za ku iya samun wannan tabo ta hanyar yin motsi mai zuwa tare da yatsun ku a cikin farjin ku-wannan gaskiya ne. Amma kuma ana iya motsa shi ta hanyar jima'i salon doggy.

McLaughlin ya ce "Abokin tarayya zai iya samun mafi kyawun buga G-Spot idan kun runtse jikin ku zuwa ga gado." Don haka, bari jikinka na sama ya huta kuma ka nemi abokin tarayya ya matsa a hankali da zurfi. Ka tuna, G-spot kawai inci ɗaya ne ko biyu ko uku a cikin bangon farji, don haka babu buƙatar yin hakowa don taska.

2. ... da motsawar A-spot.

Bayan 'yan inci mai zurfi fiye da G-spot ɗin da aka ambata, yankin ɓarna mai ɓarna na gaba (kamar yadda ake kiranta ~ ana kiranta) yana cikin zurfin farji tsakanin mahaifa da mafitsara. McLaughlin yayi bayanin cewa: “Kisan shigarwa yayin jima'i na salo na dogaye yana ba da damar zurfafa zurfafawar da ake buƙata don ƙarfafa wannan wurin nishaɗi,” in ji McLaughlin.

Dangane da tsawon azzakari/dildo/yatsan abokin tarayya, za su iya ta da A-tabo yayin da kuke kan ƙafa huɗu. Idan ba haka ba, faduwa akan gwiwar hannayen ku zai buɗe ku da ƙari kuma ya ba abokin tarayya damar nutsewa cikin jikin ku, in ji ta. Wani zaɓi: Ku kwanta a kan tummy ku sa abokin aikinku ya kwanta a samanku, kamar pancakes biyu.

A cewar McLaughlin, wasu mutane na iya fuskantar inzali na "A-spot" daga zurfafa shiga ciki, yayin da wasu na iya samun gaurayewar inzali idan suka hada wannan abin mamaki tare da wasu kula. (Mai Alaƙa: Mafi kyawun Tsallen Tsage, A cewar Malaman Jima'i).

3.Zaku iya sarrafa zurfin.

Idan kun ji tsoro game da ba da jima'i irin na jima'i don tafiya musamman saboda kun sami zurfin shiga cikin rashin jin daɗi ko ma mai raɗaɗi, labari mai daɗi: "Akwai hanyoyin jin daɗin matsayin ba tare da duk zurfin ba," a cewar Smith. (FYI: Yin jima'i na dubura bai kamata ya kasance mai zafi ba. Idan haka ne, ba za ku yi jinkiri ba ko amfani da isasshen lube.)

Tana da manyan nasihu guda uku.

• Kawo kafafunku kusa da juna: Ta yi bayanin cewa "A kusa da kafafuwanku suke a hade, yadda karfin kuzarin farjin ku zai zama, zurfin zurfin abokin tarayya zai iya samu," in ji ta. "Wannan kuma yana ba abokin aikin ku damar sumbata, lasa, ko ciji kafadun ku ko bayan wuyan ku kuma yana kawo su kusa da su don rada mugayen tunani cikin kunnen ku." (Mai Dangantaka: Yadda ake Magance Kazanta Lokacin Jima'i).
• Take iko: Ta ce "Maimakon barin abokin aikinku ya sarrafa bugun, za ku iya ɗaukar motsi," in ji ta. "Ku karkata kwatangwalo, twerk, yi adadi takwas, ku dunƙule kuma ku niƙa duk abokin tarayya ta hanyar da ke da daɗi (kuma ba zurfi ba) a gare ku."
• Yi amfani da shinge na jiki: Yayin da zoben zakara na iya yin abin zamba, Smith ya ba da shawarar Ohnut, wanda shine saitin zoben da ke ɗorawa wanda ke zamewa akan azzakari/dildo kuma yana aiki azaman damina tsakanin shagon abokin aikin ku da farjin ku yayin shiga.

4. Za ka iya kawo gunkin ku a cikin aikin.

Jima'i irin na Doggy shine daidaitaccen yanayin jima'i na dama. Ka yi tunani game da shi: Gwarzonka yana * dama * a can. "Yana da babban matsayi ga jima'i na tsuliya," in ji McLaughlin. Don gwada shi, ku ɗora duburar ku da azzakarin kwaroron roba/dildo. Bayan haka, sa su danna ƙwanƙwasa a kan bututun ku kuma yi amfani da matsa lamba a hankali yayin da kuka sake komawa cikin abin ji. "Yawancin mutanen da ke da vulvas suna mamakin yadda wannan zai iya ji idan sun fara santsi kuma a hankali," in ji ta. Me yasa yake jin dadi sosai? Shigar da dubura na iya haifar da A-tabo a kaikaice. (Mai dangantaka: Mafi kyawun Matsayin Jima'i).

Shawararta: Da zarar ka sami kari, shafa ƙwanƙolinka ko amfani da vibrator. Ƙarfafa ƙwanƙolin ku zai ƙara jin daɗin ku duka, "in ji ta."

Kuna iya ma gwada kutsawa sau biyu, in ji Smith. "Abokin aikinku na iya amfani da yatsa don shiga cikin farjin ku yayin da suke cikin duburar ku. Kawai kada ku koma daga ramin baya zuwa ramin gaba. Yin yin zai iya canza ƙwayoyin cuta masu ɗorewa daga dubura zuwa farjin ku, wanda zai iya ƙara haɗarin ku ga UTI.

5. Kuna cikin babban matsayi don jima'i na baki.

"Kuna iya shiga matsayin mai karɓar salo na karnuka, kuma ku daina shiga ciki," in ji Smith. (Ee da gaske!) "Kasancewa akan ƙafa huɗu yana ba da damar samun dama ga abokin aikin ku don yin cunnilingus ko kuma ya ba ku aikin rim," in ji ta.

Bugu da ƙari gaba ɗaya jiahhmazing, irin wannan wasa na baka kafin jima'i na iya taimakawa sa yanayin jima'i na doggy (ko kowane matsayi na jima'i, don wannan al'amari) ya fi daɗi. Al'aurar mace a dabi'a tana faɗaɗa yayin da kuke tashi, don haka fara wasa yana da mahimmanci don jin daɗi, in ji ta. .

6. Ba ya bukatar gado.

Idan kai da abokin aikinku kuna son saurin sauri ko yin jima'i a wuraren da ba a saba ba (karanta: * ba * a cikin ɗakin kwana ba), salon karnuka - musamman tsayuwar kare -tsaye. Kuna iya yin shi a cikin shawa, saman kwandon wanka, a cikin matakala, fashe-fashe lif, kabad mai kulawa / gashi, ko ... da kyau, ko'ina.

7. A zahiri * na iya * zama na kusanci.

Duba, wataƙila ba ku san shi ba daga kallon salo na salo, amma salon salon kare na iya zama mafi haɗin gwiwa fiye da na jiki. McLaughlin ya ba da shawarar "Shin abokin aikinku ya lulluɓe ku daga baya, kusan kamar kuna yin cokali don a ɗora hannayensu a kusa da ku." Ka sa ya zama mafi kusanci har yanzu ta hanyar kwanciya a kan gado domin kowane santin baya na ku ya rufe fatarsu, in ji ta.

Kuna iya yin la’akari da sanya madubi a gabanka, don ƙarin sahihiya da taɓarɓarewa akan salon salon kare, in ji ta. "Kulle idanu ta hanyar tunanin ku na iya ƙara kusanci, kuma kallon wasan ku na iya ƙara sha'awa. Yana da kusan yin tauraro da kallon fim din batsa a lokaci guda." Bugu da ƙari, idan abokin aikin ku ya rufe idanun su cikin ɗan gajeren farin ciki, zaku kalli yadda suke jin daɗin shi da ku. Da, HOT.

Hakika, idan kuna son wani abu na kud da kud, koyaushe za ku iya komawa ga mai wa'azin mishan nagari.

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