Dude ya ɗaga kamar Uwargida: Dalilin da yasa nake son Ayyukan "Girly"

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Matan da ke yin motsa jiki na maza sun kasance masu fushi a baya -bayan nan, amma yaya maza ke yin motsa jiki "girly"? Shin mutum zai iya samun ƙwarewar motsa jiki a cikin ɗakin motsa jiki kamar yadda zai iya akan bene mai nauyi? Kuma, mafi mahimmanci, zai so? Don amsa duk tambayoyinmu na XY, mun yi hira da wani mutum-katin ɗauke da wani mutum wanda kawai ya kasance yana son wasan motsa jiki na al'ada na mata.

Ted C. Williams, mahaifin mahaifi ɗaya, ya kasance yana halartar azuzuwan horo na Turbokick, Hip Hop Hustle, BodyPump, da Tabata a YMCA na gida tsawon shekaru da yawa yanzu, kuma yayin da gabaɗaya yana ɗaya daga cikin ɗimbin maza a cikin ɗakin ( sau da yawa shine kawai mutum a cikin aji na hip hop), wannan baya hana shi samun babban motsa jiki (kuma mai daɗi). Lokacin da aka tambaye shi ko yawan isrogen ya taɓa dame shi, sai ya ce, "Ina jin tsoron fashewar cooties!" Kuma ina tsoron kada wata yarinya ta buga masa gindi? "A gaskiya ban ga sauran a cikin ajin ta jinsi ba amma fiye da kokarinsu da wasan motsa jiki."

Kasancewa cikin maza a cikin mata masu yawan gaske yana da fa'idodi-amma ba su ne za ku yi tunani ba, in ji Williams. Don abu ɗaya, "Ina samun kudos kawai don halartar tun kafin a fara aji." Amma baya neman kulawa ta musamman. "Tun da na sami kwarewa na raye-raye na baya, Ina so in zama mai kyau da kuma aiwatar da motsi kuma idan ba fiye da kowa ba a cikin aji, ba tare da la'akari da jinsi ba. Kamar yadda 6'1" Guy tare da firam mafi girma, kasancewa mai kyau baya zuwa kamar yadda aka saba, amma wannan ƙalubalen yana sa duk nasarar da nake da ita ta fi gamsarwa. "

Akwai wani abu da ke damun Williams idan ana maganar yin aiki da 'yan matan, yana mai cewa ya damu "idan matan ajin sun damu da ni a wurin." Ya fayyace, "Na san cewa [ga mata da yawa], waɗannan azuzuwan lokacinsu ne don sakin jiki, shakatawa, da tserewa daga layin ɗaukar hoto mara kyau ko rashin jin daɗi ana iya sanya su a wani wuri a cikin motsa jiki. Lokacin da nake can ina jin tsoro cewa na kawar da wannan matakin jin daɗi daga matan ajin. Ina ƙoƙarin fita ta hanyata don kada in zama mutumin da bai dace ba a cikin gidan motsa jiki kuma in gauraya. "

Me zai ce ga mutanen da ke raina wasannin motsa jiki na mata? "Ku shawo kan shi." Ya kara da cewa, "Idan ana maganar maza suna yin ayyukan da za a iya dauka na mata, akwai fargabar cewa ko ta yaya za a tuhumi mazancin ku. Shi ya sa maza ke saurin fitar da kirji da jefa zagi ga wasu mazan da za su iya yin wadannan ayyuka: suna tsoron cewa idan ba su yi ba’a ba, to ko ta yaya za su rage mazaje”.

Amma yana da kyau motsa jiki? Williams ya nuna cewa kamar yawancin motsa jiki, "da zarar kun matsawa kanku, za ku fita daga ciki!"

Menene ra'ayin ku game da maza suna yin motsa jiki na "yarinya"? Bar sharhi kuma raba tunanin ku!

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