Yadda Ake Rayuwa Da Farin Ciki

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MELISSA RYCROFT, Ta kasance ɗaya daga cikin mata 25 da suka fafata don kulawar Jason Mesnick a kai Digiri. "Na ci gaba da wasan tare da buɗe zuciya da buɗe zuciya-kuma ina tsammanin kowa ya san yadda ya ƙare!" 'yar shekara 26 ta barkwanci. (Idan kun rasa shi, Jason ya ba da shawara ga Melissa a wasan karshe na kakar wasa, sannan ya dakatar da shiga cikin wani shiri na gaba makonni shida bayan haka don ci gaba da dangantaka da wanda ya zo na biyu a wasan.) Amma maimakon zama a kan wannan jama'a. takaici, Melissa ta ci gaba. Ta kama wani abin burgewa a matsayi na uku Yin rawa tare da Taurari (DWTS) , zama a Barka da safiya Amurka mai ba da gudummawa ta musamman, kuma ta sake haɗawa da Tye Strickland, wanda ta yi aure kuma ta yi shekaru biyu. Sannan a watan Disambar da ya gabata, Melissa da Tye sun ce "Na yi" a gaban kusan abokai da 'yan uwa 200 a wani daurin aure a gefen teku a Isla Mujeres, Mexico. Ta ce "Har yanzu ba zan iya yarda da hakan ba." "Wannan shekarar da ta gabata, rayuwata ta kasance tatsuniya!" Melissa ta zauna tare Siffa don raba abin da wannan lokacin "mahaukaci" ya koya mata game da soyayya, da shirya bikin aure, da bin zuciyarka ko menene.

Soyayya ta gaskiya zata same ku

Melissa da Tye sun kasance ma'aurata a baya Digiri, kuma rabuwar su ita ce ta sa Melissa ta fara shirin. Melissa ta ce "Na yi matukar bacin rai, kuma na yi tunanin zai fitar da ni daga Dallas kuma ya sake dawo da ni rayuwa," in ji Melissa. "Bugu da ƙari, ya ba Tye lokaci nesa da ni." Ba da daɗewa ba bayan wasan kwaikwayon wasan kwaikwayon, ita da Tye sun dawo tare, kuma tun daga lokacin ba su rabuwa. Melissa ta ce "Mun sami hanyar hauka, wanda shine dalilin da ya sa waƙar aurenmu ta kasance Rascal Flatt's 'Bless the Broken Road,'" in ji Melissa. “Amma idan muka waiwaya baya, mun san cewa duk wani shiri ne na Allah a gare mu, komai yana faruwa ne idan lokacin ya yi.

"Na ji wani yana cewa lokacin da kuka sami soyayyar ku ta gaskiya, za ku ji a gida koyaushe. Tye shine gidana: Shi ne wurin zaman lafiya na, mai sanyaya zuciya, kuma ina jin cikakken farin ciki a duk lokacin da nake kusa da shi. "

Babu wani abu kamar cikakkiyar bikin aure

Melissa ta ce "Ina son iyalina da dangin Tye su yi farin ciki da bikin aure, amma ba shakka ina son in yi farin ciki kuma," in ji Melissa. "Saboda haka na ba da abinci iri-iri kuma na kunna kiɗan kiɗa, kuma na tabbatar da duk bayanan baƙo daga sufuri zuwa ayyuka an rufe su." Shawarwarin da ta fi so ga matan da za su aura: Kawai shakatawa ka yi na ku cikakke rana. "Falsafa ta ita ce, zan ci abincin, in yi rawa ga kiɗa, kuma in zauna tare da mijina-kuma kada na bar ƙananan abubuwa kamar kayan kwalliya ko mayafi su ba ni ƙarfi. duk sun mutu, har yanzu bikina zai kasance cikakke a gare ni. "

Muryar cikin ku koyaushe daidai ce

Lokacin da yazo game da cikakkun bayanai game da bikin aure-komai daga samun abokai na kusa guda hudu kawai a cikin bikin amaryarta zuwa tsallake gudun hijira-Melissa ta san ainihin abin da take so kuma ta amince da ilhamarta. Ta ce: "Na je wurin Alfred Angelo don rigata, kuma na ƙaunaci rigar farko da na gani a cikin kundin adireshin su," in ji ta. "Sun sa aka tura shi, na gwada shi, kuma ya kasance da ado. Shagon ya tsara min alƙawari na awanni uku, amma na fita a cikin mintuna 20!"

Kuma game da hutun amarci, hanjin ta ya yi daidai game da hakan ma: "Tye ya fara kasuwancinsa a watan Janairu, don haka tafiya kawai bai ji dadi ba," in ji Melissa. “Kowa ya ce dole ne mu ɗauki gudun amarci saboda alamar, ammanamu alamar ta kasance tare muke farawa."

Kada tsoro ya hana ku

Lokacin da aka ba Melissa damar maye gurbin Nancy O'Dell (bayan wancan- Samun damar Hollywood co-anga ta ji wa kanta rauni yayin wasan kwaikwayon wasan kwaikwayo) DWTS, akwai kama guda ɗaya: Tana da kwanaki biyu kacal don koyan aikin yau da kullun. "Na firgita d na ci gaba da tunani, 'Kowa zai so wannan ko za su ki shi,'" in ji ta. "Amma lokacin da na fito daga filin wasa, masu sauraro sun yi ba'a. Ina jin rayuwata ta canza a lokacin."

Ta yi daidai: Tsayayyar ta DWTS ya jagoranci aikin Melissa a matsayin mai ba da gudummawa ta musamman akan Barka da safiya Amurka. "Kusan na tambayi furodusoshi, '' Kun tabbata? '' In ji ta. "Amma sun ce suna son in kawo mutuncina a cikin wasan kwaikwayon, kuma na yi tunani, 'To, zan iya yin hakan.' Abin hawa ne mai ban mamaki, kuma ba zan iya yarda cewa har yanzu yana tafiya ba. ”

Kada ku taɓa yin sulhu da wanda kuke

Duk da sabon aikin da ta yi a harkar kasuwanci, wannan tsoho mai farin ciki na Dallas Cowboys ba shi da shirin komawa Los Angeles ko New York City. "Iyalanmu, abokanmu, da aikin Tye duk suna nan Texas," in ji ta. "Za mu ci gaba da kiyaye rayukanmu a inda suke da kuma inda suka kasance." Ga waɗanda suka yi aure, wannan na nufin kwanaki da yawa a kan hanya. "Ina tafiya sau da yawa a wata," in ji Melissa. "Wani lokaci Tye yana zuwa tare da ni, wanda ke sa ya fi jin daɗi.Amma idan ba zai iya ba, muna da dokar cewa ba za mu rabu da juna ba fiye da kwana hudu."

Ayyukan motsa jiki ya kamata su zama nishaɗi

Horon don DWTS ana buƙatar aikace-aikacen sa'o'i takwas, kwana bakwai a mako, wanda ya bar Melissa ta datse kuma ta yi rauni amma ta gaji. "Na kasance cikin mafi kyawun yanayin rayuwata," in ji ta. "A wani lokaci na kalli abs dina kuma zan iya ƙidaya su! Amma wannan ba jikina ba ne, kuma na san ba zan iya ci gaba da yin aiki a wannan ƙarfin ba." Kuma bayan wasan kwaikwayon, Melissa gaba ɗaya ta daina motsa jiki. "Ina buƙatar in ƙaurace masa, saboda ban so in rasa farin cikin yin aiki ba. Bayan wata guda, na fara kewar sa kuma na ji a shirye na sake farawa." Yanzu tana tafiyar mil biyu ko uku mil huɗu zuwa kwana shida a mako, kuma tana yin horo a gida. Kuma yayin da kallon sculpted yana da ƙari, Melissa ta ce motsa jiki yana taimaka mata ta kasance mai ƙarfi a zuciya. Ta ce, "Yana rage damuwa, kuma lokaci ne da zan kasance ni kadai in daidaita tunanina," in ji ta. "Bayan gudu, tashin hankalina ya tafi kuma koyaushe ina jin daɗin sauran rana."

Kasancewa lafiya salon rayuwa ne

Melissa ba ta jin kunya game da yarda cewa hutunta daga aiki ya zama abincin da ba shi da kyauta ga kowa. "Ni da Tye muna cin dare da yawa a mako kuma muna cin abinci iri-iri," in ji ta. "Amma lokacin da muka sake motsa jiki, mun san cewa dole ne mu ci abinci mafi kyau - yana da mahimmanci don samun sakamako." Maimakon cin abinci, ma'auratan sun yi canje -canje masu sauƙi, gami da samun yawancin abinci a gida maimakon a gidajen abinci. "Yanzu muna cin abinci sau ɗaya kawai a mako-ko dai ranar Juma'a ko Asabar-kuma ina yin girki a yawancin sauran ranaku," in ji Melissa. "A cikin 'yan shekarun da suka gabata, kawai ina kula da kaina, kuma a yanzu ina jin daɗin cin abinci a kan tebur lokacin da Tye ya dawo gida - za mu ga tsawon lokacin da hakan ya kasance! Na yi yawa. kaza, amma na koyi yadda ake shirya tuna tuna, kuma yana da daɗi!"

Melissa har ta sami hanyar cin abinci lafiya ba tare da barin abinci mai sauri ba. "Lokacin da nake son wani abu da gaske kamar yatsun kaji da soyayyen faransa, kawai ina cin abinci na yara," in ji ta. "Ya isa ya biya min buri na."

Akwai ma'anar sexy fiye da ɗaya

Melissa ta gano asirin jin daɗin ban mamaki komai kyawun ta ko abin da take sawa: tabbacin kai. "Amincewa, da yadda kuke nuna shi, yana da sexy," in ji ta. "Ina yin hakan ta hanyar murmushi da farin ciki da buguwa. Ni ba Megan Fox sexy ba ne, amma ni yarinya ce mai sexy-kofa na gaba-kuma na san Tye yana da kyau sosai. Kowa yana buƙatar samun ma'anar kalmar. -kuma yi nadama! "

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