Jama'a na yin amfani da Twitter don rabawa a karon farko da suka ji kunya

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Dama a duga-dugan Aly Raisman yana magana game da cin mutuncin jiki a Twitter, wani sabon hashtag yana ƙarfafa mutane su raba lokacin farko da suka ji wani abu mara kyau game da jikinsu. Sally Bergesen, wacce ta kafa kuma Shugaba na wani kamfani mai suna Oiselle, ta fara wannan dabi'a ta hanyar raba labarin kanta ta hanyar amfani da hashtag #theysaid.

"'Ki ci gaba da cin abinci haka za ki zama man shanu.' Babana lokacin ina shekara 12," in ji ta. "Pls RT a raba tsokaci na kunya."

Bergesen yana fatan fara tattaunawa game da yadda wulakanci da wulakanci jiki zai iya zama, amma ba ta san yadda hanzarin zai tashi da sauri ba.

Masu amfani da Twitter a duk faɗin ƙasar sun fara raba nasu #theysaid labarai-buɗewa game da farkon lokacin da aka soki su saboda girman su, siffa, abinci, salon rayuwa, da ƙari.

Tweets ɗin sun tabbatar da yadda wulakancin jiki ba ya nuna wariya kuma cewa sharhi ɗaya mai cutarwa zai iya tsayawa tare da ku har tsawon rayuwa. (Ba abin mamaki ba ne Amurkawa miliyan 30 suna fama da matsalar cin abinci.)

Mutane da yawa sun yi godiya cewa hashtag ɗin ya ba da dandamali don raba irin waɗannan labaran-sanar da su cewa ba su kaɗai ba ne.

Bergesen tun daga lokacin ya bi diddigin duk tweets, yana ba mutane shawara kan yadda za su mayar da martani ga waɗannan maganganun kunya. "Wace amsa zamu iya bawa 'yan matan mu?" ta rubuta. "Zan fara: 'A gaskiya, duk jikin sun bambanta kuma ni daidai ne a gare ni," in ji ta tweet. A matsayin madadin, Bergesen ya ba da shawarar: "'Na gode don ƙi ni, a-rami'."

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