Menene Ainihi Ma'anar Yin Jima'i Mai Kyau?

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Kalmar "tabbataccen jima'i" na iya zama kamar ya ƙunshi jin dadi da kwanciyar hankali kashi 100 cikin 100 tare da amincewar jima'i da abubuwan da kake so, amma Janielle Bryan, MPH.

Ee, yana da matuƙar mahimmanci a haɓaka lafiya, ƙauna, alaƙar rashin kunya tare da jikin ku da jima'i (gami da, ba shakka, gabobin ku) da ɗaukar lokaci don koyan abin da kuke so. Amma "lokacin da na yi tunani game da mutum yana yin jima'i, ba kawai 'na rungumi jima'i da kaina ba,'" in ji Bryan. "Hakan yayi kyau - wannan shine matakin farko.Amma kuma, ba ku sanya kunyar ku ga sauran mutane ba? Domin wannan ma yana da mahimmanci don kasancewa tabbatacciyar jima'i. Ba wai kawai yadda kuke kallon kanku ba, har ma da yadda kuke kallon wasu da jima'i. "

A taƙaice, ƙimar jima'i yana da kyakkyawar ɗabi'a game da jima'i, da jin daɗin ji game da ainihin jima'in ku da kuma halayen jima'i na wasu, a cewar Ƙungiyar Ƙasa ta Duniya don Magungunan Jima'i.

Labari ne game da ƙyale kowa ya zama nasu "kasancewa ta jima'i" (tare da yarda, ba shakka), don haɓaka asalin jima'i da rayuwa tare da shi, da yin duk abin da suka ga dama, ko yana da hannun abokan tarayya ko babu , in ji Bryan. Har ila yau, ya haɗa da sanin cewa jin daɗi ya bambanta ga kowa, kuma ko da aikin da ke sa mutum ya ji daɗi ba ya jin dadin ku, ba haka ba ne, in ji ta. (Mai Dangantaka: Yadda Za a Magance Idan Abokin Hulɗa Ba Zai Sauka a Kanku ba)

Idan aka yi la'akari da yawan jin kunyar jima'i da al'umma ta sauke a kan mafi yawan mutane, kasancewa tabbataccen jima'i ba shi da sauƙi kamar yadda yake sauti. Wannan ya ce, yana da ƙima; akwai fa'idoji kaɗan ga kasancewa a buɗe don tattaunawa da ji game da jima'i da jin daɗi, in ji Bryan. Ta bayyana cewa "Muhallin jinsi mai kyau yana ba mutane damar yin rayuwa ingantacciya," in ji ta. "Idan za mu iya yin wannan tattaunawar, zan iya sani a gaba cewa abin da nake so da abin da kuke so ba zai daidaita ba, don haka ba zan ɓata lokacina da ma'amala da wanda bai dace ba ... Kasancewar jima'i yana ba da dama ku ƙaunaci ainihin ku wanda ke ba ku damar daidaitawa tare da mutanen da suke son abin da kuke so ko kuma suke son bincika tare da ku ta wannan hanyar. " (Masu Alaka: Hanyoyi 10 Don Haɓaka Rayuwar Jima'i)

Don haka, ta yaya za ku sami ra'ayin yadda ingancin jima'i yake? Takeauki wannan tambayoyin don gano idan kai babban tauraro ne na jima'i ko kuma kuna da ɗaki don ingantawa, sannan ku zana nasihu daga Bryan kan yadda ake samun ingantacciyar jima'i.

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