Wannan Harness Ne Kadai Wanda Ba Ya Sa Na Ji Kamar Ina Ta Hawan Dutse A Lokacin Jima'i

Wadatacce

• Menene Harshen Jima'i, Kuna Tambayi?
• Ta yaya da Amfani da Harness (kuma Me yasa Kuna Iya So)
• Yayi, Yayi, Amma Ga Dalilin da yasa nake son SpareParts Joque Harness Sosai
• Abubuwan jima'i don tafiya tare da kayan aikin ku
• Bita don

A kwanakin nan, nemo vibrator wanda ya fi dacewa da ~ jin daɗin jima'i ~ yana da sauƙi kuma, danna (anan, nan, da nan). Abin takaici, sake dubawa na kayan aiki yana da wahala a samu. Don haka lokacin da kuke kan kasuwa don sabon kayan aiki galibi ana tilasta muku gungurawa shafi-kan-shafi na sake dubawa na Amazon mara amfani. Sa'a gare ku, ina nan don sauƙaƙe abubuwa.

Bayan shekaru goma na gwaje-gwajen kayan aiki, zan iya cewa mafi kyau, mafi yawan kayan aiki mai mahimmanci ba tare da wata shakka ba: The SpareParts Joque Harness (Saya It, $115, amazon.com; goodvibes.com). Karanta don cikakken nazari na ... kun san kuna son.

Menene Harshen Jima'i, Kuna Tambayi?

Kayan doki don jima'i shine duk wata na'urar da ke ba ku damar amintar da abin wasa na jima'i a jikin ku. Mafi yawanci, ana sawa a kan yankin al'aura don tabbatar da dildo inda azzakari zai kasance akan mutumin da aka ba namiji lokacin haihuwa (AMAB). SpareParts Joque shine irin wannan kayan doki. Duk da haka, yana da kyau a ambaci cewa akwai kuma rigunan cinya (Malibu Thigh Harness, Buy It, $45, babeland.com), kayan ɗaurin baki da fuska (Latex Face Fucker Strap On Mask, Buy It, $86, kinkstore.com), ba don ambaci, da yawa na wearable bautar kaya kuma an kasafta a matsayin "kayan doki."

Wani abu mai mahimmanci don sani shine cewa ana amfani da kalmar "madauri" lokacin da ake amfani da kayan ɗamara tare da dildo kuma yana da wannan damar.

Ta yaya da Amfani da Harness (kuma Me yasa Kuna Iya So)

A gaskiya, IMO, akwai dalilai da yawa don gwada kayan doki a gado, amma kafin in shiga cikin su, ku san wannan: Akwai tatsuniyar tatsuniyoyi da ke yin amfani da abin wasan motsa jiki na 'yan madigo. Amma za a iya sawa da kuma jin daɗin abin ɗamarar mutum da abokin tarayya ba tare da la’akari da jinsi, al’aura, ko jima’i ba. (Kuma, pssh, ba duk 'yan madigo ba ma son su!)

Andy Duran, darektan ilimi na Good Vibrations ya bayyana cewa "Ana iya sawa a yayin jima'i na farji, jima'i na hannu, jima'i na baki, al'aura, da ƙari." Hakanan shahararrun sutturar rana ce tsakanin mutanen transmasculine waɗanda ke neman cimma nasarar bayyanar azzakari tare da taimakon dildo mai lanƙwasa, kamar New York Sex Toy Collective Mason (Sayi Shi, $ 175, goodvibes.com) ko Archer Silicone Packer (Sayi Shi, $ 60, goodvibes.com).

Duran ya ce, "Mai mallakar al'aura, alal misali, na iya sanya madauri don shiga cikin abokin aikinsu ba tare da hannu ba," in ji Duran. A cikin alaƙar da duk abokan haɗin gwiwa ke da ɓarna, ana iya sawa kayan ɗamara tare da dildo don shigar azzakari cikin farji-wanda aka fi sani da madaidaicin madauri. (Shin Q yana game da madaidaicin jima'i? Wannan zai taimaka: Jagorar Jagora don Barci da Wata Mace a Karon Farko.)

Ko kuma, mai vulva zai iya amfani da abin doki tare da kowane abokin tarayya don jima'i na tsuliya ko pegging. Duran ya kara da cewa "Kayan doki yana ba wa mutumin da azzakari damar shiga tare da wani abu ba jikin su ba," in ji Duran. (Wannan ya zama ruwan dare a tsakanin masu kamuwa da maza da mata da masu fama da rashin karfin mazakuta). wasu ninki biyu shiga.

Yayi, Yayi, Amma Ga Dalilin da yasa nake son SpareParts Joque Harness Sosai

Harnesses sun zo cikin manyan salo guda biyu: jockstrap- da salon tufafi. Gabaɗaya magana, kayan sawa na jockstrap suna cin nasara akan kwanciyar hankali da sarrafawa, yayin da salon suttura ke fitowa saman don ta'aziyya. Amma tare da SpareParts Joque, ba lallai ne ku zaɓi ɗaya daga cikin waɗannan mahimman abubuwan akan ɗayan ba - kuna samun duka biyun.

"Joque yana da daɗi kamar yadda ya tabbata," in ji Duran. "Kuna iya sanya dildo na kusan kowane girman a cikin kayan doki, kuma ba zai faɗi ƙasa ko jujjuyawa ba." Wannan saboda, ban da samun dorewar AF O-ring (shine ɓangaren dildo ya shiga), madauri suna daidaitawa sosai. Ma'ana, zaku iya murƙushe kayan doki a jikin fata.

Bugu da kari, ya zo a cikin girma biyu.Za a iya daidaita girman A don dacewa da kwatangwalo 20 zuwa 50 inci a kusa, yayin da girman B za a iya daidaita shi don dacewa da kwatangwalo 35 zuwa 60 inci a kusa. Idan wannan faɗin faɗin yana da ban sha'awa, yana da. Duran ya kara da cewa "Joque yana daya daga cikin ƴan kayan aikin da za su iya ɗaukar nau'ikan girman jiki iri-iri."

Waɗannan fasalulluka ba su zo da kuɗin ta'aziyya ba. Anyi shi daga cakuda spandex-nylon, gaban gaban yana da taushi da santsi a kan fata da mashaya-koda lokacin da ya jiƙe. Haka kawai ba za a iya faɗi ga sauran kayan da na gwada ba.

Siffar da na fi so ita ce panel ɗin da ke kusa da fata ya rabu gida biyu kuma ana iya matsar da shi gefe ta yadda lokacin da aka ɗaure ni zan ji dildo ya matsa sama da farji na. Ko da lokacin dildo baya yi yi rawar jiki, motsi na motsawa yana haifar da jin daɗi.

Kuma fasalin da na fi so na biyu shine gaskiyar cewa akwai aljihu biyu (2!) da aka gina a cikin Joque don masu girgiza harsashi-ɗaya a sama da ɗaya a ƙasan O-ring. "[Wannan] na iya ƙara yawan kuzarin da mai sanye yake ji yayin shiga abokin tarayya," in ji Duran. "Kuma girgizawa na iya yin tafiya har zuwa dildo don motsa abokin tarayya shima ya shiga." (Mai alaƙa: Mafi kyawun Harsashi Vibrator don Ko'ina, Duk Lokacin Ni'ima).

Wani abin lura shine idan kun gama wasa, zaku iya buga wannan jaririn a cikin wanka. Kuna iya amfani da shi a daren Juma'a, ku wanke shi Asabar, sannan kuma a ranar Lahadi ba tare da damuwa game da canjin ruwan jiki ko yiwuwar kamuwa da cuta ba. (Mai Dangantaka: Hanya Mafi Kyawu Don Tsabtace Kayan Jima'i).

A bayyane nake da sake dubawa da yawa game da abubuwan da na samu tare da SpareParts Joque Harness, amma Duran ya nuna batutuwa guda biyu da wasu mutane za su iya dogaro da fifikon dildo da girman jiki.

Na farko, ƙwanƙolin faɗin faɗin inci kaɗan ne kawai. "Manyan mutane masu girma da kuma waɗanda ke da manyan wuraren tudu na pubis na iya lura cewa duk da cewa kayan doki ya dace, yana haifar da kamanni mai saukowa," in ji shi. Ga mutanen da ba sa son wannan kayan ado-kuma duk wanda ya fi son kayan doki tare da ƙarin ɗaukar hoto-ya ba da shawarar SpareParts Tomboi Fabric Brief Harness (Saya It, $90, goodvibes.com).

Bayan gwada Tomboi, zan iya tabbatar muku O-ring ɗin yana da tsayayye kamar na Joque don haka har yanzu kuna jin cikakken iko. Hakanan yana da aljihunan girgiza biyu, ɗaya a kowane gefen dildo don haka har yanzu kuna da wannan fasalin.

Abubuwan jima'i don tafiya tare da kayan aikin ku

A kasuwa don sabon kayan doki don jima'i kuma ko ta yaya har yanzu ba a gamsu da samun Joque ba, wannan yakamata yayi dabara: A yanzu zaku iya samun $ 20 kowane oda na sama da $ 75 ta hanyar Kyakkyawar Jijjiga. Wannan ya sa kayan doki kawai $ 104.95 - sata!

Yayin da kuke kan hakan, magance wasu 'yan abubuwan jima'i waɗanda zasu haɓaka shebang gaba ɗaya. Idan kuna neman dildo na gaske, babu wani kamfani da ya fi shi kyau fiye da New York Sex Toy Collective. Mason (Sayi Shi, $ 175, goodvibes.com) babban zaɓi ne na farawa. Amma game da dildos marasa gaskiya, Ina ba da shawarar The Charm Silicone Dildo (Saya It, $ 45, goodvibes.com) don peggers na farko da Wet Ga madaurinta akan Dildo Black (Saya It, $55, wetforher.com) don wasu nau'ikan na wasan madauri. Sauran manyan zaɓuka: The BJ Dildo (Sayi shi, $ 90, goodvibes.com) don ƙarfafa jima'i na baki da Farin Fasaha ShareVibe (Sayi Shi, $ 115, goodvibes.com) don ayyukan hannu, al'aurar jinsi na jinsi, ko wasa tsakanin madara. -masu mallaka.

Idan kuna neman cin gajiyar ɗayan (ko duka biyu!) Na aljihun rawar girgiza, Duran yana ba da shawarar Bullet Crave Vibrator (Saya It, $69, amazon.com), Magic Touch Waterproof Vibrator (Saya It, $15, goodvibes.com ), ko Mu-Vibe Tango Mini Vibrator (Sayi Shi, $ 74, amazon.com).

Kuma a ƙarshe, shiga cikin aiki ba tare da lube ba! Yawancin dildos an yi su ne da silicone, wanda zai iya haifar da rashin jin daɗi-y ji akan fata lokacin da babu isasshen mai. Don haka kuna son amfani da lube na ruwa kamar Sliquid Sassy (Sayi Shi, $ 12, amazon.com), Sutil Rich Botanical Lubricant (Sayi shi, $ 42, goodvibes.com), ko Cake Toy Joy (Sayi Shi , $ 22, hellocake.com).

Jin abin sha'awa? Yi la'akari da ƙara zoben zakara mai girgizawa ko toshe butt a cikin keken ku. kuma.

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