Taylor Swift Ta Gaji Da Ganin Matsalolin Jima'i Biyu Rike Mata Baya
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ICYMI, ɗaya daga cikin sabbin waƙoƙin Taylor Swift, "The Man", yana bincika ƙa'idodin jima'i guda biyu a masana'antar nishaɗi. A cikin waƙoƙin, Swift yayi la'akari ko za ta zama "shugaba mara tsoro" ko "nau'in alpha" idan ta kasance namiji maimakon mace. Yanzu, a cikin sabon hirar da Zane Lowe akan shirin rediyo na Beats 1 na Apple Music, Swift ya buɗe game da jima'i da ta jimre da wuri a cikin aikinta wanda ya yi wahayi ga waɗannan waƙoƙin: "Lokacin da nake ɗan shekara 23, mutane suna yin nunin faifai na rayuwar soyayyata da sanya mutane a ciki da na zauna kusa da wurin biki sau ɗaya kuma na yanke shawarar cewa rubutacciyar waƙa tawa dabara ce maimakon fasaha da fasaha, ”ta gaya wa Lowe.
Da zarar mutane sun ɗauki Swift a matsayin "mai cin abinci", ta ce ta ji kamarduka daga cikin nasarorin da ta samu sun rage zuwa lakabi. A halin yanzu, mazan da ta yi kwanan wata (har da shahararrun) sun tsira daga irin wannan hukunci - yana nuna ma'auni biyu wanda yawancin mata da ba su da masana'antar kiɗa za su iya danganta da su. (Mai dangantaka: Taylor Swift yayi rantsuwa da wannan ƙarin don rage damuwa da damuwa)
Takeauki ɗan wasan motsa jiki na Olympics Gabby Douglas, alal misali: Bayan lashe lambobin zinare biyu a Gasar Olympics ta 2012, mutane a kafafen sada zumunta sun soki gashin Douglas saboda kallon "mara kyau" idan aka kwatanta da sauran masu wasan motsa jiki. Shekaru hudu bayan haka yayin wasannin Olympics na 2016 a Rio, mutane sun kasance har yanzu Tweeting game da gashin Douglas, maimakon lambar zinare ta uku, yayin da kafofin watsa labaru game da 'yan wasan motsa jiki maza na Amurka ba su haɗa da cikakkun bayanai game da bayyanar 'yan wasa ba.
Sannan akwai batun daidaiton albashi wanda Kungiyar Kwallon Kafa ta Mata ta Amurka (USWNT) ke fafatawa da shekaru. Duk da shigo da kusan dala miliyan 20 fiye da kuɗin maza na Amurka a cikin 2015, an biya membobin USWNT kusan kashi ɗaya cikin huɗu na albashin abokan aikin su a wannan shekarar, a cewar wani korafi da ƙungiyar mata ta gabatar a lokacin. Hukumar Samar da Ayyukan Aiki, hukumar tarayya ce da ke aiwatar da dokoki game da nuna bambanci a wurin aiki, kowaneESPN. Tuni dai Hukumar ta USWNT ta shigar da karar nuna wariyar jinsi a kan Hukumar Kwallon Kafa ta Amurka (USSF), hukumar gudanarwar wasanni, kuma har yanzu karar na ci gaba da gudana.
Tabbas, wannan gibin albashi ya mamaye ko'ina cikin masana'antu da yawa. A matsakaita, mata masu aiki a Amurka suna samun dala 10,500 kasa da shekara fiye da maza, ma'ana mata suna samun kusan kashi 80 cikin 100 na abin da maza suke samu, bisa ga rahoton Majalisar Wakilai na baya-bayan nan kan gibin albashin jinsi.
Kuma kamar yadda Swift ya nuna a hirarta ta Beats 1, lokacin mata yi yin gwagwarmayar abin da suka cancanci ko kira marasa mahimmanci, maganganun wulakanci game da kamannin su (maganganun da galibi ba za a yi game da mutum ba), mutane galibi suna yi musu hukunci don yin magana kwata -kwata. "Ba na tsammanin mutane sun fahimci yadda yake da sauƙi a fahimci cewa wani mai zane ko mace a masana'antar mu yana yin wani abu ba daidai ba ta son soyayya, son kuɗi, son nasara," in ji Lowe. "Ba a yarda mata su so waɗannan abubuwa kamar yadda aka yarda maza su so su." (Mai alaƙa: Lokacin da ake Matsar da Jima'i ta hanyar Yabo)
Batutuwa na tsarin jima'i a masana'antar nishaɗi, wasanni, dakunan kwana, da ƙari ba za a warware su cikin dare ɗaya ba. Amma kamar yadda Swift ya gaya wa Lowe, a can su ne mutanen da ke aiki don wargaza misogyny na cikin gida kowace rana - kamar Jameela Jamil, misali. "Muna kallon yadda muke sukar jikin mata," Swift ya gaya wa Lowe. "Muna da mata masu ban mamaki a waje kamar Jameela Jamil tana cewa, 'Ba na ƙoƙarin yada yanayin jiki ba ne. Ina ƙoƙarin yada tsaka -tsakin jiki inda zan iya zama a nan ban yi tunanin abin da jikina yake ba.'" ( Shafi: Wannan Mace Ta Bayyana Bambanci Tsakanin Ƙaunar Kai da Kyawun Jiki)
Dangane da jima'i a masana'antar kiɗa, Swift ta ba da shawarar ta ga masu fasahar mata masu zuwa-masu zuwa-shawarar hakan kowa da kowa na iya koyo daga: Kada a daina ƙirƙira, ko da ta fuskar misogyny. "Kada ku bar wani abu ya hana ku yin fasaha," ta gaya wa Lowe. "Kada ku shagala cikin wannan har ya hana ku yin fasaha, [koda] idan kuna buƙatar yin fasaha game da wannan. Amma kada ku daina yin abubuwa."