Dalilin Da Ya Sa Muka Canja Yadda Muke Magana Kan Jikunan Mata

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Wataƙila kun ji cewa yarda da inda kuka yi kuskure shine matakin farko na yin daidai. Da kyau, yana da kyau a faɗi cewa yawancin intanet-Shape.com sun haɗa-yana samun kuskure tare da labaran da ke kwatanta, matsayi, ko ma jera rukunin mata ta jikinsu ko takamaiman sassan jikinsu. Ƙari musamman, muna magana ne game da jerin "mafi kyawun", kamar namu Mafi Kyawun Jihohin Rawar 2012 tare da Taurari da Manyan Mata Mafi Kyawun Dress 10 a Grammys na 2012, duka biyun, duk da babu mugun nufi daga abokan aikin da suka buga su a lokacin kuma duk da cewa sun sami dannawa da yawa, labarai ne da ba za mu taɓa yin irin wannan hanyar ba a yau a cikin 2017.

Ba wai kawai muna sake tsara ire -iren ire -iren labaran nan don bayar da tsayin daka don ƙarfi (a kowane nau'in kalma ba), mata mara kyau da muke so kuma muke jin wahayi daga gare su, amma muna sanya shi manufa ta yau da kullun don yin biki duka mata don ƙarfinsu, ƙarfin hali, jajircewa, da ƙarfin hali-babu ɗayansu da ke da alaƙa da kamanninsu. Wancan ya ce, lokacin da muka lura da koma baya daga wani labari na kwanan nan da Vogue.com ta buga, mai taken "Mafi kyawun Asirin Victoria na Duk Lokaci, Daga Gisele Bündchen zuwa Bella Hadid," mun san ba za mu iya yin rahoto kawai kan martanin kamar labari na al'ada. Saboda wani ɓangare na alhakinmu na ciyar da tattaunawar gaba shine mallakar waɗannan tsoffin labaran da ba mu da alfahari da su-da kuma ninka alƙawarin mu na zama murya (mai ƙarfi) a cikin motsi mai kyau na jiki.

Idan kun rasa buzz, Vogue yana fuskantar wuta (wanda aka fi sani da guguwar sharhi na Twitter) don labarin da suka buga gabanin Nunin Kayayyakin Sirri na Victoria a daren Talata, wanda ke nuna hotunan samfura daga farkon wasan kwaikwayon na 1995 har zuwa yau. Tare da tattauna kamannin su da sutturar su, labarin ya kuma lura cewa Asirin Victoria, wanda ya kasance cikin ruwan zafi don rashin bambance -bambancen, ya gwammace ƙarin tsoka da jikin 'yan wasa kwanan nan. Ko da har yanzu, alamar kamfai har yanzu ba ta haɗa da samfura masu ƙima a cikin wasan kwaikwayon-wani abu da ya yi kama da wani haske daga Ashley Graham, da wani abu da muke kira a dawo a 2015. Bayan Vogue ya inganta labarin akan Twitter, masu amfani sun yi saurin amsawa, suna cewa kawai zaɓin don nuna waɗannan zaɓaɓɓun samfuran kawai a matsayin "mafi kyau" suna rarrabasu azaman kunyatar da jiki. (Karanta ilimin kimiyyar fat-shaming, kuma za ku ga yadda haɗarin zai iya zama da gaske.)

"Yaya wannan ko da abu ne?" wani mai amfani ya rubuta. "Duk jikinsu abin ban mamaki ne saboda haka suna birgima a cikin titin jirgin sama mai kyalli!" Wani kawai ya tambaya, "Amma, kuma, me yasa muke kwatanta jikin mata?" Wasu kuma sun yi kira ga magen da ya yi amfani da abin da ya kai su don "haɓaka girman kai, ba lalata shi ba." Daga qarshe, ra'ayin masu sharhi ba wai kawai yin hukunci ga mata akan bayyanar su ba (har ma da manyan kayayyaki a cikin kamfai) al'ada ce ta jima'i da muke son ganin ta ƙare, amma kuma damuwa cewa aikin yana taimakawa haɓaka kyakkyawa mara kyau ko manufa ta jiki.

Ga abin: Vogue ba shi kadai ba. Amma yayin da gaskiya ne hakan Siffada sauran samfuran da ba su da yawa sun buga irin wannan zagayen a baya, a zahiri irin waɗannan maganganun suna ƙarfafa mu. Muna son cewa tattaunawarmu ta gama gari ta samo asali. Yana daga cikin dalilin da yasa muka fara motsi na Ƙauna Na kusan shekaru biyu da suka gabata, kuma me yasa rashin haɗin kai da haɓaka jiki shine kawai hanyarmu ta yin abubuwa a nan. #LoveMyShape ba labari bane (kodayake muna da su da yawa). #LoveMyShape ba kamfen ɗin kafofin watsa labarun bane (yep, haka ma). #Ƙaunar SiffaNa hanya ce ta tunani kawai, na nuna wa kanku wasu son kai-wani abu da muke fata ya zama na biyu ga mata da yawa. Domin jin lafiya da farin ciki shine kowane jiki.

Shin har yanzu za mu ba ku bayanan cikin gida kan yadda shahararrun mutane kamar Khloé Kardashian da Julianne Hough ke samun jikinsu mai ban mamaki? Ee, saboda wanene ya ce taurari ne kawai yakamata su sami dama ga mafi kyawun masu horarwa? Shin har yanzu zamu taimaka muku cimma burin lafiyar ku, ko menene? Eh, domin rayuwa cikin koshin lafiya yana nufin rayuwa mai tsawo da farin ciki. Shin har yanzu za mu taimaka muku rage nauyi ko samun ƙarfi idan abin da kuke so ke nan? Jahannama eh, saboda jikin abubuwa ne masu ƙarfin gaske, kuma murkushe burin ku yana jin daɗi. Amma kuma za mu ci gaba da tunatar da ku cewa ku ƙaunaci kanku daidai yadda kuke, cewa Mafi kyawun kowa ya bambanta, kuma yin hutun rana (ko uku) ba ya buƙatar samun kuɗi - kuna binta.

A karshen wannan rana, martani mai karfi daga wannan labari na baya-bayan nan wani abin tunatarwa ne a gare mu duka cewa ya kamata mu mai da hankali sosai kan yadda muke magana game da jikin mata.

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