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Idan kun saba da zaɓuɓɓukan ƙa'idar ƙawance da ke akwai a yanzu, wataƙila kun ji labarin Bumble, wanda ya bambanta kansa da sauran ta hanyar buƙatar mata su yi motsi na farko da zarar an daidaita mutane biyu. (Na gode don ceton mu daga duk masu rarrafewa waɗanda ke cikin ta don dalilan da ba daidai ba, Bumble.) Wannan dabarar tana ba mata damar jin daɗin sarrafa rayuwar soyayyarsu, sabanin ƙa'idodi kamar Tinder da Hinge, waɗanda ke ba da damar duk wanda kuka dace da shi. don tayar da convo. (BTW, Tinder kwanan nan ya bayyana "aiki mafi jima'i" akan app.)

Abin takaici, babu wani app na soyayya da zai iya cin nasara akan lamarin fatalwa, lokacin da mutum ɗaya kawai ya daina mayar da martani ga ɗayan ba tare da wani bayani ba. Yana da kyau mafi ƙarancin abin da za ku iya yi wa wanda kuke tattaunawa ta soyayya, amma yana faruwa * duk * lokaci, musamman idan ya zo ga alaƙar da ta samo asali daga kan layi. (Kamar idan saduwa ba ta da wahala, dama?)

Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa wata mace ta yanke shawarar ƙaddamar da labarinta mai ban sha'awa ga Elite Daily's Boom, Ghosted, shafi na mako -mako inda rukunin yanar gizon ke rabawa sitti mai banƙyama mara kyau kowane mako. Wannan ya yi muni sosai cewa Bumble a zahiri ya yanke shawarar dakatar da mai laifi-wani abin birgewa a ɓangaren su.

Bari mu yi bayani. Wata mata ta yi daidai da wani saurayi a kan Bumble kuma sun tafi kwanan wata. Bayan haka, bayan convo ɗin rubutu da alama yana tafiya lafiya, sai ya yi mata fatalwa. Ta yi baƙin ciki amma ba ta yi tunanin komai a kai ba saboda abin baƙin ciki, wannan abu ne gama gari. Sa'an nan, wannan ya faru: "Na sami wani sabon bayanin martaba na Bumble da ya yi. Ya kara da cewa a kasa, "Don Allah kada ku kasance mai kiba a rayuwa ta ainihi."

A gaskiya mutumin ya shiga cikin matsala don ƙirƙirar sabon bayanin martaba, cikakke tare da sharhi mai banƙyama mai banƙyama. A fahimta, matar ta ji daɗi sosai kuma ta ruɗe. Ta ci gaba da cewa, "kamar ummm kiyi hakuri? Nasan zai iya zama game da wani, kamar daga garinsu, amma haduwar ta dan zayyana a gareni, to yanzu ina so in gasa shi a bainar jama'a wai shi dan alade ne. Kuma wallahi ba ni da kiba. Zan iya tsugunnawa kawai, kamar fam 200, don haka ina da kyawawan cinyoyi masu kauri."

Na farko, waɗancan sune wasu manyan squat #manufa. (Waɗannan mata hujja ce cewa ƙarfi yana da matsi.) Na biyu, ba mu zarge ta da son jawo hankali ga gaskiyar cewa wannan mutumin ya kasance mai rarrafe. A zahiri ba shi da mahimmanci idan yana magana musamman game da ita ko a'a saboda ba a yarda da irin wannan yaren mai kitse kowane halin da ake ciki.

Don haka a nan ne abubuwa ke tafiya mai kyau. Bumble ya ga sakon game da wannan gabaɗayan saga kuma ya kai ga marubucin da ya haɗa labarin don samun gano bayanan mai amfani don a cire shi daga app.

Ka'idodin masu amfani da Bumble sun bayyana a sarari cewa irin wannan ɗabi'ar ba ta da kyau: "Mu al'umma ce mai banbanci. Wannan yana nufin yakamata ku girmama imani, sha'awa, da kadarorin wasu yayin da kuke kan Bumble. Ya kamata ku nuna hali iri ɗaya akan Bumble zaka yi a rayuwa ta zahiri. " Yana yiwuwa gaba ɗaya mutumin nasa IRL ne mai jajircewa, amma a kowane hali, yanzu za ku iya tabbata cewa akwai ƙaramin rami ɗaya akan Bumble. Abin farin ciki mai ɗamara! (Ana buƙatar shawara akan saduwa da mutum akan intanet? Duba waɗannan nasihohi 7 don saduwa akan layi.)

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