Yadda za a gane idan Shi ne "Daya"

Wadatacce

• Gwajin Chivalry
• Gwajin Zumunci
• Gwajin Kudi
• Gwajin Ƙimar Iyali
• Gwajin Soyayya "Titanic"
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Yana iya barin safa mai datti a ƙasa, amma aƙalla ya buɗe muku ƙofa. Idan ya zo ga alaƙa, kuna ɗaukar mai kyau tare da mara kyau. Amma lokacin da kuke saduwa da wani saurayi kuna tunanin zai iya zama Mista Dama, ta yaya za ku tantance ko shi ne da gaske ne za ku ci gaba da rayuwa tare?

Mun je wurin kwararru don gano yadda za mu gaya idan da gaske mutum ne Mista Dama-ko dai Mista Yanzu. Anan akwai gwaje -gwaje guda biyar wanda dole ne abokin rayuwar ku ya ci.

Gwajin Chivalry

Patti Stanger

, Miliyoniya Matchmaker, marubuci, kuma tauraron TV na Bravo, ya ce chivalry bai mutu ba-aƙalla ba lokacin da aka zo ga '' masu kyau ''.

"Abubuwa kamar buɗe ƙofar mota ko kuma nan take ba ku rabo na abinci lokacin da kuke raba tasa a gidan abinci-waɗannan duk manyan alamomi ne da za ku nema don sanin ko a ƙarshe zai bi da ku daidai," in ji Stanger.

Kuma a wannan yanayin musamman, ayyuka suna magana da ƙarfi fiye da kalmomi. "Sau da yawa ana amfani da kalmomi a madadin ayyukan soyayya, amma babu komai a ciki ba tare da bin diddigin su ba," in ji ma'aikacin zamantakewa da ƙwararre kan jaraba Andrew Spanswick.

Gwajin Zumunci

Kyakkyawar dangantaka tana buƙatar duka tunani mai ƙarfi da haɗin jiki. "Shin har yanzu kuna son yin hulɗa da wannan mutumin koda kuwa ba su da sha'awar jima'i da ku?" ya tambaya 'masanin dangantakar' Lindsay Kriger.

Kuma yakamata ku ɗauki abokin tarayya fiye da ƙima. Ta kara da cewa "Kyakkyawan kamannun suna shudewa, amma mugun hali na har abada." Masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam na California Colleen Long ya yarda. "Kuna iya jin daɗin kawai jira a layi tare da shi a DMV?" ta tambaya. "Mafi kyawun dangantaka shine mutanen da za su iya zama abokai mafi kyau," in ji Stanger.

Gwajin Kudi

Ba abin mamaki bane cewa kididdiga ta nuna muhawara kan kudi shine mai karya yarjejeniya a yawancin aure. Don haka, Stanger yana ba da shawara don gano inda kuka tsaya kafin ku ɗauki waɗannan alwashi. "Yaya kuke kashe kuɗin ku? Ta yaya yake kashe nasa? Shin kun bambanta? Shin kun yarda kuma kun yi sulhu koda kuwa shine mai tanadin ku kuma ku ne masu kashe kuɗi? Waɗannan duk tambayoyi ne masu mahimmanci da za ku yi lokacin da kuke fara kulla wata alaƙa mai dangantaka. , "In ji Stanger.

"Rashin alhaki na kudi zai haifar da damuwa da rashi na tsawon rayuwa," in ji Tina Tessina mai ilimin halin dan Adam da ke Kudancin California. Ta kara da cewa "Idan ya yi caca da kudi ko kuma kawai ya kashe shi akan sabbin kayan wasan fasaha yayin da kuke neman tabbatar da makomar ku ta kudi, dangantakar ba zata yi aiki ba," in ji ta.

Gwajin Ƙimar Iyali

Kuna son adadin yara iri ɗaya ne, idan akwai? Shin yana tsammanin ku tuba daga Katolika zuwa Yahudanci? "Daga addini zuwa kula da gida, jima'i, da yara, dole ne ku raba ainihin dabi'u da imani iri ɗaya idan ana maganar sadaukarwa," in ji kwararre kan dangantakar shaharar Kailen Rosenberg.

"Yawancin abubuwan da ke haifar da rikici a cikin alaƙa shine lokacin da mutane ke da ƙima daban -daban akan mahimman batutuwa kuma ba a tattauna su a gaba ba," in ji Kriger.

Gwajin Soyayya "Titanic"

Stanger ya ce don hango wannan yanayin hasashe: Jirgin yana sauka kuma kuna cikin ruwa, kuna daskarewa. Shin yana ba ku itacen don ku ceci rayuwar ku? Yana jin nauyi mai nauyi amma "Ƙaunar Titanic" kamar yadda Stanger ya kira shi, shine abin da ake buƙata don ci gaba da haɗin gwiwa na rayuwa. Ta kara da cewa "Lokacin da yake son ku sosai wanda duk abin da ya damu da ku, yana da tabbacin cewa ku ne fifiko na farko."

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