Me yasa Ba lallai ne ku zaɓi tsakanin tsokoki da mata ba, a cewar Kelsey Wells

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Idan ya zo ga jikin mata, mutane ba za su yi kamar su daina sukar su ba. Ko yana da kunya, fatsi-fatsi, ko yin lalata da mata, ana ci gaba da kwararar sharhi mara kyau.

Matan 'yan wasa ba banda bane - ma'ana Kelsey Wells yayi a cikin wani matsayi mai ƙarfi na Instagram. (Mai alaƙa: Kelsey Wells Yana Ci gaba da Haƙiƙa Game da Rashin Yin Wahala Kan Kanku)

"Ba lallai ne ku zaɓi tsakanin kasancewa mai ƙarfi KO mai rauni ba. Mai ƙasƙantar da kai KO mai ƙarfin hali. Muscular OR mata. Mai ra'ayin mazan jiya KO sexy. Karɓar KO tabbatacce a cikin ƙimar ku," in ji mai koyar da SWEAT. "Rayuwa ba ta da sauƙi KO wuya, tabbatacce KO kalubale kuma zuciyarka ba ta cika ko da yaushe ba." (Mai Alaƙa: Kelsey Wells Yana Raba Abin da Ainihi Yana Nufin Ji da Ƙarfafawa)

Wells ta raba wannan muhimmin tunatarwa tare da hotuna guda biyu na gefe-gefe na kanta. A cikin hoto ɗaya, tana sanye da kayan motsa jiki, tana riƙe dumbbell, kuma tana murɗa tsokar ta. A d'ayan kuwa ta k'yale ta sanye cikin atamfa mai k'yau. Maganar ta? Ita ma mace ce a cikin hotunan biyun, duk da cewa wasu na iya tunanin ba haka ba. (An danganta: Sia Cooper Ta Ce Tana Jin "Mata Fiye Da Ko da yaushe" Bayan Cire Nononta)

"Idan kai mace ce, jikinka yana da kyau sosai kuma mace ba ta da mahimmanci na ƙwayar tsoka ko sifar jiki ko girmanta kawai saboda KAI MACE ce," in ji ta. "Ku daina gwagwarmaya don dacewa da tsarin da duniya ta tsara muku wanda aka yi daga ra'ayoyin wasu da ƙa'idodin ƙa'idodin jama'a na yau da kullun. A zahiri, ɗauki wannan ƙirar da SHATTER IT." (Bincika dalilin da yasa Kelsey Wells yake son ku yi la'akari da rage nauyin burin ku.)

Yana da dabi'a a so a raba abubuwa kamar yadda Wells ke kwatantawa. Amma ana samun kyakkyawa ta gaske a cikin wuraren launin toka na rayuwa, wanda shine ainihin abin da Wells ke ƙarfafa ku ku rungume. Kuna yanke shawarar abin da ke da kyau, kuma mace ita ce abin da kuke yi da shi.

"Kai ne AND, ba KO ba," Wells ta rubuta, tana kammala sakon ta. "Dukkanku sassanku ne. Kai cikakke ne, ku. Ku rungumi gaskiyar ku kuma ku shiga cikin bayyanar da kanku. KU SHIGA WUTA."

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