Dalilin da yasa Matsayin Jima'i na Lotus Ya Kasance A Juyinku

Wadatacce

• Yadda Ake Yin Matsayin Jima'i
• Lalacewar Hankali da Jiki na Lotus
• Yadda ake sanya Matsayin Jima'i na Lotus yayi muku aiki
• The Madaidaiciya Lotus
• Durkusawa Lotus
• Lotus mai aiki
• Bita don

Dan Adam yana jima'i saboda dalilai da yawa. Yayinda sha'awar gaba da ƙaho ke kan menu, ba shakka, wani lokacin kuna son wani abu fiye da gamsuwa nan take. Kamar yadda Karen Gurney, ƙwararriyar ilimin ɗabi'a kuma ƙwararren masanin ilimin halayyar ɗan adam, ta yi nuni a cikin littafinta, Tunani da Gap, kusanci sau da yawa abin da mutane ke nema lokacin da suke yin jima'i da abokin tarayya. Yana da dabi'a don son haɓaka kusanci.

Idan wannan shine burin ku, babu wani matsayi na jima'i kamar na kusa a lotus. A cikin wannan matsayi, da gaske kun nade jikin abokin tarayya kamar maciji. Ba ya samun kusanci fiye da haka.

Hakikanin sunan lotus shine "Yab Yum" kuma ya samo asali ne daga Tantra, tsohon tsarin imani na ruhaniya wanda ya samo asali a Indiya kuma ya kasance shekaru dubbai; a cikin wannan tsarin imani, komai na iya zama wani ɓangare na tafarkin ku na ruhaniya, ko wannan shine cin abinci, tunani, motsa jiki, da i, jima'i. Yayin da jima'i ƙaramin sashi ne na tantra, shine ɓangaren da mutane ke son mai da hankali akai, Layla Martin, babban malamin tantra kuma mai ɗaukar nauyin shirin YouTube Epic Sex & Legendary Longing a baya ya fada Siffar

Taylor Sparks, malami mai lalata kuma mai kafa shagon jin daɗin rayuwa Organic Loven ya ce Yab Yum ya sami sabon suna "saboda ya fi sauƙi a kunnuwan Yammacin Turai." Labari mai dadi: Ko kun zaɓi kiran wannan matsayi da magarya ko Yab Yum, tabbas yana cikin jujjuyawar jima'i.

Yadda Ake Yin Matsayin Jima'i

Don matsawa zuwa matsayin lotus, abokin haɗin gwiwa ya kamata ya zauna da kafaɗa a kan gado, kujera, ko shimfiɗa. Ana kiran wannan "rabin lotus." Kuna samun "cikakken lotus" lokacin da kuka ƙara wani mutum.

Mutumin da aka shiga sannan "yana zaune a saman su kuma yana iya nade kafafu a kusa da su kuma yana koala da su, kamar bishiya," in ji Kenneth Play, ƙwararren masani kan ilimin jima'i. Maimakon yin tsalle sama da ƙasa, mutumin da ke saman yana jujjuya kwatangwalo da baya a cikin wani wuri mai girgizawa.

Yana da mahimmanci a lura cewa yayin da wannan matsayin a al'adance ya haɗa da shiga ciki, ba lallai bane. Maimakon haka, za ku iya jin daɗin wannan matsayi cikin sauƙi ta hanyar "niƙa da goga juna a maimakon hawa sama da ƙasa da aka saba yi, wanda kuma yana ba ku damar tada clitoris," in ji Sparks.

Ƙaramin harsashi ko mai girgiza yatsa - kamar Hot Octopuss DiGit (Sayi Shi, $ 104, ellaparadis.com) - ana iya amfani dashi don "motsawar kai tsaye ba tare da katse haɗin ku ba kamar yadda ya dace akan yatsun hannu," in ji ta. Wancan ya ce, hannaye, dildos, vibrators, madauri, da azzakari duk manyan zaɓuɓɓuka ne don matsayin jima'i na lotus.

Lalacewar Hankali da Jiki na Lotus

Kamar yadda aka ambata a sama, babban abin da ake kira wannan matsayi shine kusanci. Ba wai a ce yana da iyaka ba don saduwa da jima'i na yau da kullun, amma ku tuna cewa akwai hulɗar fuska da yawa yayin da kuke cikin wannan matsayin. (Ƙari a nan: Yadda ake Gina Kusa da Abokin Hulɗa)

Duk da cewa tabbas zaku iya ɗora goshin ku a kafadar abokin aikin ku don gujewa kallon juna, idanun ido na ɗaya daga cikin dalilan da wannan matsayi ya shahara. Don haka, idan ba ku jin daɗin saduwa da ido yayin jima'i, ƙila ba za ku zama babban fan na matsayin jima'i na magarya ba.

Maganar jiki, wannan matsayi yana da kyau don ƙarfafa ƙwanƙwasa. Tun da ba ku yin bobble sama da ƙasa kuma kuna, a maimakon haka, yin birgima da baya, abokin haɗin gwiwa zai iya girgiza da ƙashin ƙugu, hannu, ko abin wasa. Bugu da ƙari, zaku iya guje wa ƙona cinya mai ban tsoro wanda galibi kamfanoni ke ɗaukar matsayin Cowgirl ko Rider.

Play ya ce mai mallakar azzakari kuma yana iya samun abubuwa da yawa daga cikin magarya, musamman idan suna da wahalar riƙe tsayuwa ko fuskantar fitar maniyyi da sauri. "Wannan matsayi na iya ba da ƙarin jin daɗi, dogon lokaci, don haka za ku iya zana kwarewa sosai," in ji shi.

Yadda ake sanya Matsayin Jima'i na Lotus yayi muku aiki

Duk da yake Yab Yum tabbas yana yin jerin madaidaicin matsayi na jima'i, maiyuwa ba shine mafi kyawun zaɓi ga kowa ba. Idan kuna da sauƙin sassaucin kwatangwalo, alal misali, wannan matsayi na iya haifar da rashin jin daɗi. Ko, wataƙila ba ku son motsi a hankali yayin jima'i. Sa'ar al'amarin shine, akwai wasu ƙwararrun gyare-gyaren da aka amince da su don dacewa da duk buƙatun matsayin ku.

Ko da wane irin bambancin matsayi na jima'i na lotus da kuke gwadawa, tabbatar da sauraron jikin ku kuma ku shiga kuma ku fita daga matsayi a hankali (tunanin: kamar yadda tare da yoga pose) don kauce wa ciwo ko rashin jin daɗi.

The Madaidaiciya Lotus

Idan kwatangwalo naku suna da ƙarfi, abokin tarayya ɗaya ko duka biyu na iya shimfida kafafu a mike a gabansu, in ji Lucy Rowett, ƙwararren kocin jima'i da likitan ilimin jima'i. Idan kun kasance a kan kujera ko kujera, abokin tarayya na kasa kuma zai iya sanya ƙafafu a ƙasa maimakon ketare. (Har ila yau, yi la'akari da gwada waɗannan yoga don sakin kwatangwalo.)

Sparks yana ba da shawarar yin amfani da matashin kai na jima'i idan kuna buƙatar ƙarin tallafi. "Idan masu lanƙwasa na hip suna da ƙarfi, yin amfani da matashin kai na iya taimakawa tare da rashin sassauci," in ji ta. Gwada Liberator Jaz (Sayi Shi, $ 100, lovehoney.com). "Jingina baya ko gaba zuwa matsayi ko kuma samun kafafunku a tsaye yana iya jin dadi ga mutumin da ke saman."

Durkusawa Lotus

Don sanya ƙarancin nauyi a kan abokin haɗin gwiwa ko don ba wa babban abokin hulɗa hutu, mutumin da ke saman kuma zai iya zaɓar durƙusa a cinyar abokin ƙasan, maimakon nade ƙafafunsu a kugu, in ji Charyn Pfeuffer, marubucin jima'i da marubuci na Hanyoyi 101 don Rock Online Dating.

Lotus mai aiki

"Idan kun kasance nau'in da ke son ƙarin matsayin ɗan wasa, za ku iya canza wannan matsayin ta jingina baya da tallafawa kanku da hannayenku," in ji Play, ga waɗanda ba sa jinkiri yayin jima'i. "Ta hanyar yin wannan kuna ƙara kusurwa tsakanin ƙashin ƙugu, wanda zai iya zama hanya mafi kyau don tayar da G-spot, kuma ku sami ƙarin ƙarfin yin wannan matsayi kaɗan kaɗan."

Gigi Engle ƙwararren masanin ilimin jima'i ne, malami, kuma marubucin Duk Kuskuren F * cking: Jagora ga Jima'i, Soyayya, da Rayuwa. Bi ta kan Instagram da Twitter a @GigiEngle.

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