Wannan Mahaifiyar ta Raba Hoton Alamar Mijinta don yin Bayani Game da Karban Jiki

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Alamar miƙawa ba ta nuna wariya-kuma wannan shine ainihin abin da ke haifar da tasiri mai tasiri Milly Bhaskara da nufin tabbatarwa.

Mahaifiyar yarinyar ta hau shafin Instagram a farkon wannan makon don raba hoton mijinta Rishi, wanda aka zana da kyalkyali na azurfa. A cikin hoton, an kuma ga dan nasu, Eli, yana dora kansa akan cinyar mahaifinsa yana murmushi. (Mai Alaƙa: Wannan Matar tana Amfani da kyalkyali don tunatar da duk wanda ke da Alaƙa Mai Kyau)

Bhaskara ya rubuta tare da hoton mai ƙarfi. "Suna daidai da al'ada ga duk jinsi."

Ta hanyar nuna alheri ga kansu, Bhaskara ta ce ita da mijinta suna fatan koya wa ɗansu game da karɓar jiki tun yana ƙarami. Ta rubuta cewa "Muna daidaita tsiraici a cikin wannan gidan, muna daidaita jikin al'ada da alamominsu na yau da kullun, kumburi, da kumburi," in ji ta. "Muna daidaita zama mutum tare da jikin mutum." (Mai Alaka: Wannan Mace Mai Kyau Ta Bayyana Matsalolin 'Ƙaunar Laifinku')

Ta kara da cewa "Da fatan hakan zai taimaka masa tare da karban jikinsa lokacin da ya tsufa," in ji ta.

Washegari, Bhaskara ta raba hoton alamunta na miƙewa tare da irin wannan saƙo: "Ka daidaita jikinka na yau da kullun (duk abin da ya dace) ga yaranka," ta rubuta. "Daidaita tsiraicin da ba na maza ba, tabo, taɓa platonic, yarda, iyakokin jiki, yarda da jiki [da] yin magana da kanku da kanku."

Ko da yake ƙa'idodin kyau na rashin gaskiya-ciki har da kuskuren imani cewa ya kamata a ɓoye alamomi, maimakon bikin - suna da yawa a cikin kafofin watsa labaru na yau da kullum, iyaye suna da damar da za su ƙalubalanci waɗannan ƙa'idodin a gida tare da 'ya'yansu, idan sun zaɓa. Daga haɓaka kyakkyawar alaƙa tare da abinci da motsa jiki don fifita fifikon halaye masu kyau na rayuwa, yara na iya ɗaukar halayen iyayensu tun suna ƙanana.

Kamar yadda Bhaskara ta ce da kanta: "Yaranku suna jin abin da kuke faɗi. Suna ganin yadda kuke kula da jikinku don haka ku kyautata wa kanku da jikinku koda kuwa da farko za ku yi ƙarya a kusa da su!"

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