Wannan Matar Ta Yarda Ta Tambayi Me Ya Sa Saurayinta Mai 'Cikakken Jiki' Ya Ja Hankalinta

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Kalli abincin Raeann Langas na Instagram kuma da sauri za ku gane cewa mai rubutun ra'ayin yanar gizo da ƙirar ƙirar ƙirar ƙirar jiki da ƙimar jiki. Amma wannan ba yana nufin ba ta jin tsoron raba abin da ke sa ta rauni. A baya ta yi magana game da dalilin da ya sa yana da kyau kada ku ƙaunaci jikin ku wani lokacin koda kuna tallafawa yanayin jiki, da kuma yadda ta fahimci cewa ingancin jikin ba koyaushe yake game da yadda kuke kallo ba. Yanzu, tana buɗewa game da wata hanyar da ta ke fama da siffar jiki: a cikin dangantakarta.

"'Me ya sa kike sha’awar ni?' Wannan ita ce tambayar da na yi wa Ben bayan shekara guda da fara soyayya,” ta rubuta kwanan nan a shafin Instagram tare da hotonta da saurayinta. "Ba zan iya fahimtar yadda wani da ke da 'cikakkiyar jiki' zai ja hankalina ba. Shin ba zai fi farin ciki da wanda ya fi siriri kuma ɗan wasa kamar shi ba?" (Mai Alaka: Me Yasa Wannan Matar "Ta Manta Bikini" A Kwanan Wata Zuwa Teku)

Da ta waiwayi baya, Langas ta ce ta fahimci yadda gurbatacciyar dangantakarta da jikinta ta kasance. "A lokacin na kasance cikin rashin tsaro," in ji ta Siffar "Ban sami kaina kyakkyawa ba don haka ban fahimci yadda namiji zai same ni kyakkyawa ba. A cikin kaina, na yi imani cewa matar da ta fi ni 'yar wasa ko ta fi ni wasa ta fi ni saboda girma ana koya mana haka ne abin da ake ganin yana da kyau kuma abin so ”.

Saurayinta Ben Mullis, ya bayyana mata cewa eh, a gaskiya ya ja hankalin nau'in jikinta. "Ban taɓa saduwa da wani mutum wanda ya sami mata masu son ban sha'awa ba don haka kawai na kasa fahimta," in ji ta. "Ya kuma gaya mani cewa ba ma bukatar mu zama 'yan uwan ​​juna, yana jin daɗin cewa muna da sha'awa daban-daban a rayuwa - kawai ya kasance yana ɗagawa da aiki." (Mai dangantaka: Katie Willcox tana son ku san kun yi yawa fiye da abin da kuke gani a madubi)

A wani bangare, Langas ya dora alhakin rashin wakilcin nau'ikan jiki daban -daban a cikin kafofin watsa labarai don batutuwanta da hoton jikin. "Shekaru goma da suka wuce, babu wani nau'i mai lankwasa ko nau'ikan jiki iri-iri da aka wakilta a cikin mujallu na yau da kullun," in ji ta. "Matan da aka zana a waɗannan littattafan shine abin da na yi imani cewa maza suna so: Wani wanda yake da fata da manyan nono. A gare ni, abu ne mai sauƙi: Ina tsammanin Ben, kamar dukan maza, zai fi farin ciki da mace da ta fi ni fata saboda ni. wannan shine abin da aka tsara ni don tunani. " (Mai alaƙa: Katie Willcox Yana son Mata Su daina Tunanin Suna Bukatar Rage Nauyi Don Zama Ƙauna)

Yayin da Langas ke motsa jiki akai -akai kuma yana cin abinci mai lafiya, Mullis ya kasance ɗan wasa duk rayuwarsa, ya buga wasan tennis a kwaleji, kuma a halin yanzu mataimakiyar koci ce a Jami'ar Pepperdine. Don haka, eh, jikinsu su ne An gina ta daban-amma ta ɗauki shekaru da yawa don jin daɗin wannan ra'ayin, in ji ta."Ya taimake ni in fahimci cewa ba wai yadda jikinka yake ba, kawai game da rayuwa lafiya-kuma lafiyar ta bambanta ga kowa."

Yayin da Langas ta sami amincewarta kuma ta sami kwanciyar hankali tare da jikinta ta hanyar aikinta na ƙirar ƙirar da mai ba da shawara mai kyau, ƙarancin bayyanar saurayinta yana sa ta ji ƙanƙanta, in ji ta. "Ina ganin lokacin da kuke farin ciki da kanku, zai fi muku sauƙi ku yi farin ciki ga wasu," in ji ta. "Ga Ben, yin aiki yana sa shi farin ciki sosai, don haka ina so in tallafa masa a wannan kuma in yi murna da nasarorin da ya samu tare da shi."

Ga wasu matan da za su iya tambayar alakar su dangane da nau'in jikin su, Langas ya ce wannan: "Da yawa mata suna jin kamar ba su cancanci wani ba dangane da yanayin su saboda a matsayin mu na mata muna fuskantar matsin lamba don duba wata hanya. Wannan shi ya sa na kasance mai cikakken imani ga mata suna samun kwarin gwiwa da kuma kasancewa a shirye don karbar duk abin da suka cancanci a rayuwa."

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