Duk Game da Fushin Jima'i Na Maza

Wadatacce

• Stereotypes game da sha'awar jima'i na maza
• Maza suna tunani game da jima'i duk tsawon rana
• Maza suna yin al'aura fiye da mata
• Maza yawanci sukan dauki mintuna 2 zuwa 7 zuwa inzali
• Maza sun fi buɗewa ga jima'i na jima'i
• Ma'aurata 'yan luwadi sun fi jima'i jima'i fiye da' yan madigo
• Maza basu cika soyayya da mata ba
• Jima'i da kwakwalwa
• Testosterone
• Rashin libido
• Outlook

Hasashe game da motsawar jima'i na maza

Akwai maganganu da yawa waɗanda ke nuna maza a matsayin injina masu lalata jima'i. Littattafai, shirye-shiryen talabijin, da fina-finai galibi suna ɗauke da haruffa da maganganu waɗanda ke ɗauka cewa maza suna da hankali game da jima'i kuma mata suna damuwa da soyayya kawai.

Amma gaskiya ne? Me muka sani game da sha'awar jima'i?

Stereotypes game da sha'awar jima'i na maza

Don haka menene ra'ayoyi game da motsawar jima'i na maza gaskiya ne? Yaya ake kwatanta maza da mata? Bari mu kalli wadannan sanannun tatsuniyoyin game da jima'i na namiji.

Maza suna tunani game da jima'i duk tsawon rana

Wani binciken da aka yi kwanan nan a Jami'ar Jihar Ohio na ɗalibai sama da 200 ya ɓata labarin da ke cewa maza suna tunanin yin jima'i a kowane sakan bakwai. Wannan na iya nufin tunani 8,000 cikin awanni 16 na farkawa! Samarin cikin binciken sun ba da rahoton tunanin jima'i sau 19 kowace rana a kan matsakaita. Youngananan mata a cikin binciken sun ba da rahoton kimanin tunani 10 game da jima'i kowace rana.

Don haka maza suna tunani game da jima'i sau biyu fiye da mata? Har ila yau, binciken ya ba da shawarar cewa maza suna tunanin abinci da barci fiye da mata. Zai yiwu maza su fi kwanciyar hankali game da jima'i da bayar da rahoton tunaninsu. Terri Fisher, babban marubucin binciken, ya yi iƙirarin cewa mutanen da suka ba da rahoton suna jin daɗin yin jima'i a cikin tambayoyin binciken na iya yin tunani game da jima'i akai-akai.

Maza suna yin al'aura fiye da mata

A wani bincike da aka gudanar a shekara ta 2009 kan manya 600 a Guangzhou, China, kashi 48.8 na mata kuma kashi 68.7 na maza sun ba da rahoton cewa sun yi al'aura. Binciken ya kuma nuna cewa yawancin manya suna da mummunan ra'ayi game da al'aura, musamman mata.

Maza yawanci sukan dauki mintuna 2 zuwa 7 zuwa inzali

Masters da Johnson, masu mahimmanci masu bincike game da jima'i, suna ba da Misali mai Tsarin Hudu don fahimtar maimaita amsar jima'i:

1. tashin hankali
2. plateau
3. inzali
4. ƙuduri

Masters da Johnson sun tabbatar da cewa maza da mata suna fuskantar waɗannan matakan a yayin yin jima'i. Amma tsawon kowane lokaci ya bambanta sosai daga mutum zuwa mutum. Ayyade tsawon lokacin da namiji ko mace za su ɗauka kafin su yi inzali yana da wuya saboda lokacin farin ciki da kuma yanayin plateau na iya farawa na mintina da yawa ko awanni da yawa kafin mutum ya cika.

Maza sun fi buɗewa ga jima'i na jima'i

ya nuna cewa maza sun fi mata son yin jima'i ba da jimawa ba. A cikin binciken, maza 6 da mata 8 sun kusanci maza 162 da mata 119 ko dai a wani gidan rawa ko kuma a harabar kwaleji. Sun bayar da goron gayyata don yin jima'i na yau da kullun. Mafi yawan mazaje sun yarda da tayin fiye da mata.

Koyaya, a kashi na biyu na wannan binciken da waɗannan masu binciken suka gudanar, mata sun fi yarda da karɓar gayyata don yin lalata lokacin da suke cikin yanayi mafi aminci. An nuna wa mata da maza hotunan masu neman aure kuma an tambaye su ko za su yarda da yin jima'i ba da jimawa ba. Bambancin jinsi a cikin martani ya ɓace lokacin da mata suka ji suna cikin yanayi mafi aminci.

Bambanci tsakanin waɗannan karatuttukan biyu yana nuna cewa abubuwan al'adu kamar ɗabi'un zamantakewar jama'a na iya yin babban tasiri kan yadda maza da mata ke neman alaƙar jima'i.

Ma'aurata 'yan luwadi sun fi jima'i jima'i fiye da' yan madigo

Wannan tatsuniyar tana da wahalar tabbatarwa ko kuma yin tatsuniyoyi. 'Yan luwadi da matan' yan madigo suna da abubuwan kwarewa iri-iri kamar na maza da mata maza da mata. Maza maza masu aure a cikin biranen birni suna da suna don samun manyan abokan tarayya. Amma 'yan luwadi suna yin kowane irin ma'amala.

Ma'auratan 'yan madigo kuma na iya samun ma'anoni daban-daban game da abin da "jima'i" yake nufi a gare su. Wasu ma'aurata 'yan madigo suna amfani da kayan wasan yara don yin jima'i. Sauran ma'aurata 'yan madigo suna ɗaukar jima'i a matsayin al'aura ne ko shafawa.

Maza basu cika soyayya da mata ba

Kamar yadda Shawarar Masters da Johnson's Model-Phase Model suka bayar da shawarar, tashin hankali na jima'i ya bambanta ga kowa. Tushen motsa sha'awa na iya bambanta sosai daga mutum zuwa mutum. Nora'idodin jima'i da taboos galibi suna tsara yadda maza da mata ke fuskantar jima'i kuma suna iya yin tasiri ga yadda suke ba da rahoto a safiyo. Wannan yana da wahala ga tabbatarwa a kimiyyance cewa maza ba su da sha'awar ilimin rayuwa.

Jima'i da kwakwalwa

Jima'i galibi ana bayyana shi da libido. Babu wani ma'auni na lamba don libido. Madadin haka, ana fahimtar motsawar jima'i a cikin lamuran da suka dace. Misali, karamin libido na nufin a ragu sha'awa ko sha'awar jima'i.

Namiji libido yana zaune a wurare biyu na ƙwaƙwalwa: ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwa da tsarin lalata. Wadannan sassan kwakwalwa suna da mahimmanci ga sha'awar jima'i da motsawar mutum. Suna da mahimmanci, a zahiri, cewa mutum na iya yin inzali ta hanyar tunani ko mafarki game da ilimin jima'i.

Texwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwayar cuta shine launin toka wanda ya haifar da ƙarshen rufin kwakwalwa. Sashin kwakwalwarka ne ke da alhakin manyan ayyuka kamar tsarawa da tunani. Wannan ya hada da tunanin jima'i. Lokacin da hankalinku ya tashi, siginonin da suka samo asali a cikin kwakwalwar kwakwalwa na iya mu'amala da sauran sassan kwakwalwa da jijiyoyi. Wasu daga cikin wadannan jijiyoyin suna hanzarta bugun zuciyar ka da jini ya kwarara zuwa al'aurar ka. Hakanan suna nuna alamar aikin da ke haifar da gini.

Tsarin limbi ya hada sassa da yawa na kwakwalwa: hippocampus, hypothalamus da amygdala, da sauransu. Waɗannan sassan suna da alaƙa da motsin rai, motsawa, da kuma motsawar jima'i. Masu bincike a wurin sun gano cewa kallon hotuna masu motsa sha'awa sun haɓaka aiki a cikin amygdalae na maza fiye da mata. Koyaya, akwai bangarori da yawa na kwakwalwa wadanda ke tattare da amsar jima'i, don haka wannan binciken ba lallai bane ya nuna cewa maza sun fi maza saurin maza.

Testosterone

Testosterone shine hormone da ke da alaƙa da haɗin jima'i na maza. An samar dashi mafi mahimmanci a cikin kwayoyin, testosterone yana da muhimmiyar rawa a yawancin ayyukan jiki, gami da:

• ci gaban al'aura maza
• girman gashin jiki
• kasusuwa da ci gaban tsoka
• zurfafa murya a lokacin balaga
• samar da maniyyi
• samar da jajayen kwayoyin jini

Levelsananan matakan testosterone ana danganta su da ƙananan libido. Matakan testosterone sun fi girma da safe da ƙasa da dare. A rayuwar mutum, matakan testosterone dinsa sun kasance mafi girma a cikin samartakarsa, bayan haka a hankali suke fara samun koma baya.

Rashin libido

Jima'i yana iya ragewa da shekaru. Amma wani lokacin asarar libido na da alaƙa da yanayin asali. Mai zuwa na iya haifar da raguwar sha'awar jima'i:

Outlook

Shin motsawar jima'i na maza ya taɓa tafi? Ga maza da yawa, libido ba zai taɓa ɓacewa gaba ɗaya ba. Ga yawancin maza, libido tabbas zai canza cikin lokaci. Hanyar da kuke yin soyayya da jin daɗin jima'i zai iya canzawa a tsawon lokaci kuma, kamar yadda yawan zai yi. Amma jima'i da shaƙatawa na iya zama wani ɓangare na jin daɗin tsufa.