Ilimin Jima'i A Amurka Ya Karye - Dorewa yana son gyara shi

Wadatacce

• Na farko, Ƙididdiga akan Jima'i Ed
• Me yasa Ingancin Ilimin Jima'i Yayi Mahimmanci?
• Hasashen Karin Ilimin Ilimin Jima'i
• Abin da ake tsammanin daga Ƙarin Jima'i
• Yadda ake Yaki don Samun Cikakkun Jima'i Ed
• Inda Za A Ƙara Koyi Game da Jima'i A Lokacin
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Idan akwai wani abu Ma'anar Yan Mata, Ilimin Jima'i, ko kuma Babban Baki ya koya mana, karancin tsarin ilimin ilimin jima'i yana haifar da nishaɗi mai girma. Abun shine, babu wani abu mai ban sha'awa game da gaskiyar cewa ba a koya wa yara cikakkun bayanan likitanci da suke buƙata don yin zaɓi na zahiri game da jikinsu.

Sustain-kamfani wanda aka fi sani da tampons na halitta, kwaroron roba, da man shafawa-yana nan don nuna rashin jin daɗi. A yau kamfanin ya kaddamar da wani sabon kamfen mai suna Sexpect More da wani bidiyo (karanta: rallying cry) mai dauke da muryoyi masu tasiri guda 20 da ke bayyana abin da suke so a koya musu a ajin jima'i. Manufa: don haskaka yadda yanayin ilimin jima'i yake a Amurka da kuma fara tattaunawa ta gaskiya game da abin da zai yi kama da gaske.

Ci gaba da karantawa don wasu ƙididdiga masu ban mamaki game da ilimin jima'i a Amurka. Ƙari ga haka, hanya mai ban sha'awa Sustain ke aiki don inganta shi.

Na farko, Ƙididdiga akan Jima'i Ed

Idan kun tuna da yin wasa a cikin hotuna masu hoto na cututtukan da ba a magance su ta hanyar jima'i ko cin nasara yayin da aka tsage uwa mai kuka daga ciki kamar yadda jaririn da ya fi girma ya yi kukan wanzuwa, kuna ɗaya daga cikin (kuma na ƙi faɗi hakan) m wadanda, wadanda suke da wani kamannin ilimin jima'i kwata-kwata.

Tun daga ranar 15 ga Yuni, 2020, jihohi 28 kawai da gundumar tarayya na Washington DC suna buƙatar ilimin jima'i da ilimin HIV, a cewar Cibiyar Guttmacher, babbar ƙungiyar bincike da ƙungiya mai himma don haɓaka lafiyar jima'i da haihuwa da haƙƙoƙi a cikin Amurka da duniya . Ee, kawai fiye da rabi. Ko da mafi muni: Daga cikin waɗannan jihohi, 17 ne kawai ke buƙatar tsarin ilimin ilimin jima'i ya zama daidai a likitance. Ma’ana, ya dace malamai su tashi a can su kori karya.

Kuma saboda abubuwa da yawa suna tasiri ainihin ilimin da ɗalibi ke karɓa-gami da tallafin jihohi da tarayya, dokokin jihohi da ƙa'idodin jima'i, ƙa'idodin matakin gundumar makaranta da ƙa'idodi dangane da manhaja da abun ciki, shirin ko manhajar makarantar mutum ɗaya da takamaiman malamin da ke koyar da shirin - ƙwarewar ed ɗin jima'i na iya bambanta sosai, har ma a cikin jihohi ko gundumomi waɗanda ke ba da umarni, a cewar masu ba da shawara ga Matasa.

Kamar abin ban mamaki: Jihohi biyar ne kawai suka ce batun yarda yana buƙatar kasancewa a cikin tsarin karatunsu na ilimin jima'i. "Wannan abin ban tsoro ne, abin kunya, kuma yana buƙatar canzawa yanzu fiye da kowane lokaci," in ji marubuci, ɗan wasan kwaikwayo, kuma mai magana Alok Menon, marubucin littafin. Bayan Binary Gender, a cikin Bidiyo mai dorewa. (Mai alaƙa: Menene Yarda, Ainihin? Ƙari, Ta yaya da Lokacin Nemansa)

Me yasa Ingancin Ilimin Jima'i Yayi Mahimmanci?

Don masu farawa, kamar yadda gwaninta ko tunani zai iya gaya muku: Ilimin jima'i-kauracewa kawai ba ya hana yara yin jima'i. Duk abin da yake yi shi ne kiyaye yara daga yin jima'i mafi aminci ko kariya. Ƙididdiga kan STIs da ciki na samari da ba'a so su dawo da wannan: A cewar binciken da jaridar ta buga Jaridar International STDs da AIDs, Jihohin da ke da shirye-shiryen kauracewa kawai suna da adadin cututtukan da ake ɗauka ta hanyar jima'i kamar gonorrhea da chlamydia a tsakanin matasa. Kuma yawan ciki da ba a shirya ba da kuma wanda ba a so shi ma ya fi girma (musamman, sau biyu (!) Babba) a cikin yawan jama'a inda yara ke samun manhajojin koyar da jima'i da ke ƙarfafa kauracewa-kawai.

Ba kimiyyar roka ba: Ba tare da isasshen ko ingantattun bayanai na likitanci a hannun su ba, matasa ba sa samun cikakken hoto game da haɗarin (ko jin daɗi!) Na jima'i. Kuma a sakamakon haka, a zahiri ba za su iya yanke shawara kan kiwon lafiya ba, ko kuma ɗaukar matakan da suka dace don rage haɗarin.

Amma fiye da haka, duk wani shirye-shirye na kauracewa sau da yawa yakan ƙare yin wa'azin auren mace ɗaya, kyakkyawan 'ƙirar iyali', da tsarin iyali na nukiliya. A sakamakon haka, suna ƙarewa a bayyane kuma a bayyane suna kunyatar da waɗanda suka tsira daga cin zarafin fyade, waɗanda suka riga sun fara yin jima'i, masu son juna da yin tambayoyi ga matasa, har ma da mutane daga gidajen masu gadi.

Ka yi tunanin an gaya maka cewa duk wanda ya yi jima’i kafin aure zai je jahannama sa’ad da ka riga ka yi. Ko kuma, fara tambayar jima'i kuma ana gaya muku cewa P-in-V shine kawai nau'in jima'i da "ƙidaya." Irin waɗannan darussa (daga jima'i mai mayar da hankali kan kaurace wa ko wasu saƙon al'adu) na iya haifar da kunya ko kunya ta jima'i da ke da alaƙa da kowane tunanin jima'i, ji, ɗabi'a, da halaye. Ma'ana, irin wannan ed ɗin jima'i mai kunyatarwa na iya barin tasiri na dindindin akan ikon mutum na samun lafiya da jin daɗin rayuwar jima'i da/ko samun kyakkyawar alaƙa da jikinsu.

Kuma har zuwa rashin bayanai game da yarda ya tafi? Kamar yadda dan wasan barkwanci kuma yar wasan kwaikwayo Sydnee Washington ta fada a cikin faifan bidiyo na yakin neman zabe, "To, hakan yana da ma'ana sosai, idan aka yi la'akari da abubuwan da ke faruwa." Ma’ana, yawaitar al’adun fyade da ake yi a kasar, a kalla, ya faru ne saboda rashin yarda da ake koyar da su a makarantu. (Mai alaƙa: Menene Yarda, Gaskiya? Ƙari, Ta yaya da Lokacin Neman Shi).

Hasashen Karin Ilimin Ilimin Jima'i

Cikakken ilimin jima'i yakamata ya wuce kawai raba bayanai game da cututtukan da ake ɗauka ta hanyar jima'i da ciki. Yakamata ya rufe e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g, gami da ilmin jikin mutum, jin daɗi, yarda, lafiyar haihuwa, ikon cin gashin kai, bayyana jinsi, jima'i, dangantaka mai lafiya, lafiyar hankali, al'aura, da ƙari.

Ina fata na koya a cikin jima'i ed shine cewa ba duk labias iri ɗaya bane. Kuma wannan farjin ya bambanta. Kuma cewa kawai saboda yanayin ku ya bambanta da wanda wataƙila kun gani ba yana nufin baƙon abu bane ko kuma wani abu yana damun ku. Yana nufin kawai sun bambanta, kuma daban -daban suna da lafiya kuma daban daban suna da kyau, kuma daban -daban shine abin da ke sa jikin kyau.

Mary Bet Barone, mai wasan barkwanci

Masu tasiri waɗanda ke cikin yunƙurin Sustain suna samun ƙarin hasashe game da yadda cikakken ilimin jima'i zai yi kama. Misali, a cikin faifan bidiyon, ’yar wasan kwaikwayo kuma ’yar wasan barkwanci Tiffany Haddish ta ƙara da cewa: “Da ma sun koya wa mutane cewa [ƙuƙwalwa] na faruwa don kada ku kasance da aminci kuma ku yi tunanin cewa farjinku ya karye! (ICYWW, queefs ba kawai farts farji ba ne.) Kuma mai shirya bidiyo Freddie Ransom ya ce, "Da ma na koyi cewa al'aura tana da kyau! Yana da kyau! (Yayin da muke kan batun, ga wasu matsayi na al'aura don gwada ku, er, hannu a.)

Saboda tsarin karatun ilimin jima'i na MIA, ana tilasta wa mutane da yawa su je tono amsoshin wasu wurare. Mutane da yawa suna neman kula da cibiyoyin ciki na rikice-rikice, waɗanda galibi ƙungiyoyin addini ke gudanar da su tare da wasu dalilai na daban, tarukan kan layi kamar Reddit, waɗanda ba a bincikar gaskiya ta hanyar docs, ko kuma daga masu ba da lafiya. Yayin da shi alama kamar likitoci za su zama tushen ingantaccen bayanin kiwon lafiya, yawancin likitocin ba su da shiri don amsa matsalolin lafiyar jima'i da tambayoyin majiyyatan su; bincike ya nuna cewa likitoci ba sa magana da matasa game da ilimin lafiyar jima'i musamman saboda rashin horo da kwarin gwiwa. A cikin binciken da ke binciken yadda makarantar med ta shirya likitoci don tantancewa da magance matsalolin jima'i, masu bincike sun gano cewa an koyar da ilimin ɗan adam a matsayin hanya a cikin kashi 30 kawai na makarantu. (Wannan shi ne dalili ɗaya da ya sa ƙungiyar likitocin kanta ta sake yin magana akai-akai game da * a kan ilimin jima'i-kawai.)

Dogaro da masu ba da kiwon lafiya don ilimin jima'i yana da haɗari musamman ga marasa lafiya waɗanda ke memba na ƙananan tsirarun mutane: A cikin binciken 2019 na masana ilimin oncologists 450 da aka buga a cikin Jaridar Clinical Oncology, kusan rabin likitocin ne ke da kwarin gwiwa a cikin ilimin su game da damuwar lafiyar lafiyar 'yan madigo,' yan luwadi, da masu jinsi biyu. Wani bincike na biyu ya nuna cewa marasa lafiya na Baƙar fata suna karɓar, a matsakaita, kulawa mafi muni idan aka kwatanta da fararen Amurkawa - rigakafin rigakafi, haihuwa, da kula da lafiyar jima'i duk sun haɗa. (Dubi: LGBTQ+ Kiwon Lafiyar Ya Kamata Fiye da Takwarorinsu madaidaiciya kuma Me yasa Abubuwan Lafiya na Bukatar Bukatar Sashe na Tattaunawa Game da Wariyar launin fata)

Bugu da ƙari, "ba za ku iya zuwa likita ba duk lokacin da kuke da tambaya game da wani abu da jikinku ke yi ko kuma za ku sami sabon abokin tarayya," in ji Sustain co-founder and president, Meika Hollender. "Ba gaskiya bane kawai."

Don haka idan har likitoci ba koyaushe ba ne amintaccen hanya don cike ramukan da littafin jima'i na makarantar ku ya bari, ina za ku iya zuwa don ƙarin koyo? Gabatarwa: Sexpect More.

Abin da ake tsammanin daga Ƙarin Jima'i

Sustain's Sexpect Ƙarin himma yana da ɓangarori da yawa.Na farko, alamar tana fatan haskaka yadda tsarin ilimin ilimin jima'i na ƙasar ya kasance - kuma don haka yana buƙatar canji - ta hanyar yin kididdigar da ke sama ya zama mallakarta. "Mutane da yawa ba su san yadda yanayin jima'i ya kasance har yanzu ba," in ji Hollender.

Na biyu, kamfen ɗin yana tara kuɗi don Advocates for Youth, ƙungiyar da ke fafutukar kare haƙƙin matasa don samun bayanan lafiyar jima'i na gaskiya tare da samun dama, sirri, da kuma kula da lafiyar jima'i mai araha. Sustain yana farawa da gudummawar $ 25,000, sannan a duk lokacin da aka raba bidiyon kamfen ɗin su tare da hashtag #sexpectmore, kamfanin zai ba da ƙarin $ 1 ga ƙungiyar. Ditto zai tafi idan kun aika amsar tambayar "menene ya ɓace daga ilimin jima'i?" akan Instagram, Facebook, ko Twitter (kawai kar ku manta da hashtag).

A ƙarshe, daga baya a wannan shekarar, alamar za ta ƙaddamar da cikakken tsarin karatun ta na jinsi, wanda ba shi da cikakkiyar kyauta, dangane da amsa kai tsaye daga wannan bidiyon kamfen. Hollender ta ce "Wannan manhaja za ta kasance mataki na farko a cikin manufar Sustain don samar da karin ilimi, samun dama, ci gaban ilimin jima'i ga mutane na kowane zamani," in ji Hollender.

Yadda ake Yaki don Samun Cikakkun Jima'i Ed

Baya ga raba bidiyon Sustain a ko'ina, za ku iya amfani da 'yancin ku na kada kuri'a a zabukan kananan hukumomi da na tarayya. Gwamnatin Shugaba Donald Trump ba kawai aikin da Shugaba Barack Obama ba ya yi ba na inganta ilimin jima'i amma kuma ta ware dala miliyan 75 ga manhajoji na kaurace wa kawai. Wannan makudan kudade ne zuwa shirin da baya aiki (sake duba waɗannan ƙididdigar a sama), ba ku tunani? (Ban tabbata ba yadda za a yi rijista don jefa ƙuri'a? Je nan.)

Wancan ya ce, yayin da makarantu za su iya samun tallafin tarayya don takamaiman shirye -shiryen koyar da ilimin jima’i, Ma'aikatar Ilimi ta Amurka da gwamnatin tarayya ba su da bakin magana kan ko ilimin jima’i (ko wane nau'in) an umarce shi a makarantu; wanda ke karkashin ikon gwamnatocin jihohi da kananan hukumomi da kuma gundumomin makarantu da kansu, a cewar Advocates for Youth. Duk da yake babu wata doka a halin yanzu da ke tallafawa cikakkiyar jima'i ed, akwai dokar da ake jira da ake kira The Real Education for Healthy Youth Act, wanda zai tabbatar da cewa an ware kudaden tarayya don shirye-shiryen ilimin ilimin jima'i na jima'i wanda ke ba matasa kwarewa da bayanan da suke bukata don yin bayani. , alhakin, da kuma yanke shawara masu lafiya.

Don bayar da shawarar inganta ilimin jima'i a yankinku, kuna iya:

• Tuntuɓi hukumar makarantar ku. Tuntube su da buƙatar cikakkun shirye -shiryen lafiyar jima'i da ɗaukar ƙa'idodin Ilimin Jima'i na ƙasa - jagororin da ƙwararru a cikin lafiyar jama'a da fannonin ilimin jima'i game da mafi ƙarancin abun ciki da ƙwarewar da ake buƙata don taimakawa ɗalibai yanke shawara game da lafiyar jima'i.
• Shiga Majalisar Ba da Shawarar Lafiya ta Makaranta. Yawancin hukumomin makarantu suna ba da shawara daga Majalisar Shawarar Kiwon Lafiya ta Makaranta (SHACs), waɗanda suka ƙunshi daidaikun mutane waɗanda ke wakiltar al'umma kuma waɗanda ke ba da shawarwari game da ilimin kiwon lafiya.
• Tuntuɓi membobin Majalisarku. Tuntuɓe kai tsaye, ta waya, ko kan layi don ƙarfafa su su goyi bayan Dokar Ilimi ta Gaskiya don Lafiyar Matasa.
• Bincika kowane takardar kudi ko dokoki masu dacewa a cikin jihar ku. Misali, Jihar New York a halin yanzu ba ta buƙatar kowane ilimin jima'i da za a koyar a makarantu. Idan kai ɗan New York ne, zaka iya kuma tallafawa NY State Assembly Bill A6512, wanda ke kira ga cikakkiyar ilimin jima'i, haɗawa, da ilimin likitanci na jima'i a makarantu a NYS. Kawai je zuwa wannan gidan yanar gizon, danna "aye" don kada kuri'a, ƙara bayanin kula (na zaɓi) ga sanatan jihar New York, kuma ta-da-a cikin ƙasa da daƙiƙa sittin, kun yi wa matasan gobe ƙarfi. (Anan akwai jerin dokokin ilimin jima'i ta jihar.)

Inda Za A Ƙara Koyi Game da Jima'i A Lokacin

Yayin da kuke jiran haƙuri don ƙaddamar da cikakken ilimin ilimin jima'i, bincika waɗannan sauran dandamali waɗanda ke aiki don cike gibin ilimin jima'i kamar O.School, OMGYes, Scarleteen, Queer Sex Ed, da Afrosexology.

Don a sanar da ku lokacin da shirin Sustain ke gudana, shigar da imel ɗin ku anan.

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