Lokacin da Bai Ce "Ina Son Ka" Baya

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Idan kun murƙushe sauraron Juan Pablo a duk tsawon mulkinsa a matsayin Digiri,.

Bayan Nikki-matar da ya raunata ta zabar-ta yi ta furta kalmar L-kalma ga 'yan wasan ƙwallon ƙafa ta Venezuela, kawai ya amsa da cewa, "Ina son ki sosai." Ya kuma gaya mata cewa yana da zoben alkawari a aljihunsa-amma ba zai yi amfani da shi ba. Ainihin kalmominsa: "Ba ni da tabbacin 100 bisa 100 ina so in ba ku shawara, amma a lokaci guda na tabbata 100 bisa dari ba na so in bar ku."

Alhali bai kamata ku ɗauka ba da yawa darussa na soyayya daga wasan kwaikwayon da ke watsa ƴan takara a faɗin duniya zuwa wurare masu ban sha'awa tare da lalata su da abinci, sha, da dabino masu ɗauke da tsalle-tsalle na bungee da hawan doki, suna cewa "Ina son ku" kuma rashin jin ta baya wani abu ne da yawancin mu ke tsoro.

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Tracey Steinberg, wani kwararre kan harkar soyayya a birnin New York ya ce "Yana da kyau mutane biyu su rika tafiya da gudu daban-daban." Amma idan kun kasance a "Ina son ku," kuma yana kan "Ina son ku," wannan babban bambanci ne. Rike da ƙarfi kuma ba wa kanku wa'adin-watanni biyu, faɗi-sannan sannan shiga ciki: Shin ya kama ko akwai babban rata a yadda kuke ji? Yin wannan yana ba ku dama don alaƙar ta haɓaka amma yana ba ku tabbacin ba ku zaune kusa da jiran abin da a zahiri ba zai faru ba, in ji Steinberg.

A wannan lokacin, kula da ayyukansa.Ya shigar da ku cikin rayuwarsa? Shin yana nunawa lokacin da kuke buƙatarsa? Shin kuna nuna ku ga danginsa da abokansa? "Waɗannan alamomi ne da ke nuna cewa mutum yana son ku, duk da cewa ba zai kasance a shirye ya faɗi hakan ba," in ji Steinberg. Tabbas, dole ne ku yi wa kanku adalci da abin da kuke so (kuma wannan na iya zama mutumin da zai iya jin daɗin yadda yake ji), amma idan saurayinku yana yin soyayya, kuna iya son ba shi ɗan ƙaramin lokaci don shigar da shi da babbar murya.

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