Me yasa muke son Jesse Pinkman (da sauran mugayen samari)

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Tabbas, Jesse Pinkman wanda ya daina makarantar sakandare kuma tsohon ɗan wasa ne wanda ke aiki a cikin kasuwancin miyagun ƙwayoyi kuma ya kashe wani mutum, amma kuma ya kama ƙawancen visceral na kowace mace a Amurka tare da bugun zuciya da kuma biyan kuɗin gidan talabijin na USB. Jan hankali ga "mummunan yaro" ba sabon abu bane, amma wannan halin, wanda Emmy ya lashe sau biyu Haruna Paul akan wasan kwaikwayo na jarabawar AMC Breaking Bad, Yana da ikon da ya dace don sa matsakaicin mata masu kallo su ji kamar ta kasance cikin dangantaka mai ban tsoro da meth cook tun 2008. (It has been a rough few years but I'm getting through it!)

Don girmama farkon farkon jerin shirye-shirye takwas na ƙarshe a ranar 11 ga Agusta, mun yanke shawarar yin zurfafa nazarin abin da ke game da Jesse wanda ya sa mu ƙaunace shi a kan mafi kyawun hukuncinmu. Mata, idan kuna son zaɓar mutumin da bai dace ba, ku kula. Wannan bincike ta masanin ilimin halin ɗabi'a da memba na kwamitin shawarwari na SHAPE Belisa Vranich, PsyD, da masanin ilimin ɗan adam da mai ba da shawara na kimiyya ga Match.com Helen Fisher, Ph.D., ya shafi rijiyoyin ne'er-do-rayuwa na ainihi kamar yadda yake yi. zuwa ga saurayinmu mai ƙyalƙyali mai launin shuɗi. ("Breaking Bad" faɗakarwar ɓarna idan ba a kama ku ba!).

Na farko, a bayyane: Wannan fuskar! Tsaye a 5'8 kawai", firam ɗin Jesse na iya zama siriri da ƙanana, wanda yakan ɓoye a ƙarƙashin manyan kaya da wake, amma fuskarsa ta bayyana wani labari. ) mai kusurwa mai ƙarfi, mai ƙarfi 2) manyan dusar ƙanƙara 3) manyan kumatu 4) lebe na bakin ciki, da 5) babban goshi, ”in ji Fisher, wanda ya rubuta littafin Me yasa Shi? Me yasa ta?.

"Dalilin da ya sa mata za su sami wannan abin ban sha'awa a hankali shine saboda testosterone wani abu ne mai ban sha'awa wanda ke buƙatar tsarin garkuwar jiki mai ƙarfi don jure yawan matakan hormone," in ji ta. "Wannan yana nufin cewa waɗannan mutanen suna talla ta fuskokinsu cewa 'tsarin garkuwar jikina yana da ƙarfi sosai da zan iya jure wannan adadin na testosterone.' A bayanin da ke da alaƙa, babban testosterone kuma yana nufin yana da babban sha'awar jima'i, in ji Fisher, kuma wanene baya son abokin kwanciya wanda zai iya ci gaba?

Ba shi da tabbas. Idan kuna son abin hawa na rollers, zaku so Jesse, wanda da alama yana da mafi girma da ƙasa na kowane hali akan jerin. Yana iya jin farin ciki, baƙin ciki, bege, da ban tausayi duk a cikin wani lamari guda. Rashin sanin yadda zai mayar da martani ga al'amura na daga cikin roko. "Mata suna son sabon abu," in ji Fisher.

"Yana motsa tsarin dopamine a cikin kwakwalwa kuma hakan yana ba ku ƙarfi, mai da hankali, motsawa, kyakkyawan fata, da sassaucin tunani," in ji ta. Ainihin, kasancewa kusa da mutumin da ba a iya faɗi ba, kamar Jesse, na iya zama da ban sha'awa sosai. A lokaci guda, irin wannan halin rashin kwanciyar hankali na iya zama mahaukaci, wanda shine dalilin da yasa ba zai taɓa yin tasiri ba.

Yana nuna walƙiya na hazaka. Kananan kalmomi guda uku: "Ee, karkiya! Magnets!" Yayin abokin kasuwancinsa kuma tsohon malamin ilmin sunadarai na makarantar sakandare Walter White (wanda ba zai iya jurewa ba Bryan Cranston) da an daɗe an kafa shi a matsayin kwakwalwar aikin, Jesse ya sami lokacin haske mai ban sha'awa. A cikin shekara ta biyar, kyakkyawan tunaninsa na yin amfani da maganadisun don lalata shaidar da ba ta dace ba a kan kwamandan kwamfyutocin Gustavo "Gus" Fring wanda aka kulle a hedkwatar 'yan sanda ya cece su daga kamawa. Hawan testosterone na Jesse, kamar yadda fuskarsa ta nuna, watakila yana da wani abu da ya yi da shi.

"Mazan da ke da testosterone masu girma suna da hankali, ma'ana, kai tsaye, yanke hukunci, mai taurin kai, masu shakku, kuma masu ƙwarewa a aikin injiniya, makanikai, kwamfutoci, kuma, a wannan yanayin, suna dafa meth crystal," in ji Fisher. "Tsawon miliyoyin shekaru, mata suna son mutumin da zai iya bugun wannan buffalo a kai da dutse kuma yana da kyakkyawan sarari, dabarun bincike don gano wannan. Mata suna sha’awar maza waɗanda za su iya dawowa gida da abincin dare,” in ji ta.

Shi ruhu ne da ya ɓace. Babu shakka Jesse yana buƙata-kuma yana neman wanda zai cece shi. Tsohon junkie ya yi ƙoƙarin tsaftace aikinsa fiye da sau ɗaya a cikin jerin, musamman tun lokacin kakar uku lokacin da ya fara soyayya da uwa ɗaya kuma yana murmurewa shan tabar wiwi Andrea. A bayyane yake cewa wani ɓangare na shi yana son yin imani cewa zai iya zama mutumin kirki, amma duk wannan yana fita taga a ƙarshen kakar lokacin da aka tilasta masa kashe wani marar laifi, Gale, don ceton rayuwar Mista White. Ganin jinkirin sa kafin ya jawo abin ya isa ya sa kowace mace ta so shiga ciki ta yi magana da shi.

"Wasu mata kan zama uwa kuma sun yi imani cewa za mu iya canza mutane kuma mu ceci rayukansu da suka ɓace. Yana jan hankalin iyawarmu na haɓakawa, waɗanda ke da alaƙa da estrogen," in ji Fisher. Kuma ka ce ka yi nasara ka cece shi? Zai iya fashewa a fuskarka. Vranick yayi gargadin "Mata da yawa sun taimaki mutum ya ga ƙarfin sa kuma da zarar ya kai ga, zai iya barin ta saboda zai iya samun abokiyar zama mafi kyau a yanzu." "Dole ka tambayi kanka, ina goyon bayan sadarwarsa? Me ya sa ba shi da? Akwai dalili."

Yana da taurin kai. Idan aka ba shi zaɓin aikin da ba na al'ada ba kuma ba bisa ƙa'ida ba, Jesse ya yi nisa da mai bin doka. Samun ikon zama mutum nasa kuma ba bin ƙa'idodin da sauran jama'a ke rayuwa da shi ba irin zafi. Vranick, marubucin littafin ya ce: "Mata suna son yin rayuwa ta hanyar waɗannan maza kuma su tashi cikin farin ciki, amma waɗannan kerketai masu son kai ba sa yin maza nagari." Yana da Yiwuwa.

A gefe guda kuma, fita da kanku alama ce ta jarumtaka, wanda shine abin da mata suke bukata daga abokan zamansu a wannan rana don a ciyar da su da kuma kiyaye su. "Mata suna son mutumin da ba wai kawai ya kawo abincin dare a gida ba har ma ya kare su, kuma yawanci hakan zai zama wanda ya kasance mai tsaurin ra'ayi kuma yana iya tsayawa tsayin daka," in ji Fisher. A cikin yanayi biyar da suka gabata, yanayin duhun Jesse ya jure duka-rai-rai-rai, mutuwar ƙaunarsa ta farko, kisan wani mutum marar laifi - cewa yana shirye ya yi kasada da komai, har ma da ransa, ga abin da ya yi imani da shi. Misali mai kyau: Lokacin da ya fuskanci dillalan miyagun ƙwayoyi guda biyu game da kisan ɗan'uwan Andrea ɗan shekara 11, Tomas.

Yana da motsin rai. Shi ba Tin Man-yana da zuciya! Lokaci na farko da sauri ya bayyana cewa Jesse ya shiga tare da mahaifiyarsa Jenny don ya kula da ita yayin kwanakin ƙarshe na yaƙar cutar kansa. A kakar wasa ta uku, ya fara gina haɗin mahaifi ga ɗan budurwar Andrea, Brock. Kuma tun da farko ya nuna tsananin biyayya ga Mista White, wanda a karshe ya kore shi bayan kisan wani karamin yaro da ba shi da laifi (yaron ya ga sun yi fashin jirgin kasa na methylamine) ya sa Jesse ya so. Hankalinsa da aka haɗa tare da nadama shine mafi hatsarin haɗakar miyagu, in ji Vranick.

"Mata suna cin guntun burodin da ke nuna cewa mutum mutumin kirki ne saboda muna da bege kuma masu kyau kuma muna son tunanin mutane gabaɗaya suna da kyau," in ji ta. "Mata sun fada tarkon da ke zurfin ciki yana da kyau tare da fatan zai gane cewa ta gan shi don lu'u -lu'u a cikin mawuyacin halin da yake ciki, wanda hakan ya sa ta ji na musamman, amma hakan ba zai taɓa faruwa ba."

Sassan ƙarshe na Breaking Bad farko Lahadi, 11 ga Agusta, da karfe 9 na dare. Farashin AMC. Za ku kalla? Tweet mana @shape_magazine kuma gaya mana abin da kuke tunani game da wasan kwaikwayon da manyan halayensa.

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