Mata Mata Masu Karfi 28 Suna Ba da Shawara Mafi Kyawu

Wadatacce

• Sheryl Sandberg
• Helen Gurley Brown
• Ellen Alemany ne adam wata
• Heather Thomson
• Cindy Barshop
• Alexandra Lebenthal
• Mary Kinney
• Patti Stanger
• Marla Gottschalk
• Barby K. Siegel
• Becky Carr
• Gina Bianchini
• Lisa Bloom
• Gina D'Ambra
• Sunan mahaifi Lunden
• Afrilu Zan
• Pam Alabaster
• Alana Feld
• Gail Warrior
• Rema Khan
• Maria Castañón Moats
• Tiffany Krumins
• Jenna Fagnan
• Nicole Williams
• Lyss Stern
• Katrina Radke, MFT
• Candy Crowley
• Janice Lieberman ne adam wata
• Bita don

Coco Chanel sau daya ya ce, "Yarinya yakamata ta kasance abubuwa biyu: mai daraja da ban mamaki." Wannan nasihar ta daya daga cikin mashahuran masu zanen kaya a duniya (cikin sauran tidbits) tana da kwarin gwiwa a yau kamar yadda ta fara kaddamar da turarenta na farko a shekarun 1920.

Kwanan nan, lokacin da aka yi ƙasa Cosmopolitan editan mujallar Helen Gurley Brown ya mutu yana da shekaru 90, a bayyane yake abin da ta gada zai ci gaba da kasancewa a cikin yawancin shawarwarin da aka buga. Daga cikin nasihohin ta masu jayayya? "Aure shine inshora ga mafi munin shekarun rayuwar ku. Ajiye 'mafi kyau' don lokacin da ba ku da aure."

Yayin da Chanel da Brown suka kasance mata na majagaba a zamaninsu, yanzu babu ƙarancin mata masu jan hankali a saman filayensu - kuma akwai yalwa da za su iya koya mana. Ko sun shafe shekaru suna hawa tsani na kamfani, suna taimaka wa babban gidan kayan gargajiya ko mujallu, ko gina alama ta dala biliyan, waɗannan mata 28 masu ƙarfi sun koyi igiyar aikin da suka zaɓa, sun haɓaka iyalai, kuma sun ƙware fasahar daidaitawa. Ga shawara mafi kyau da za ku iya ɗauka daga gare su.

Sheryl Sandberg

Babban Jami'in Gudanarwa na Facebook; Mace Ta 10 Mafi Karfi A Duniya (Forbes); shekaru 42

"Na yi kuka a wurin aiki. Na gaya wa mutane cewa na yi kuka a wurin aiki. Kuma an ruwaito a cikin jarida cewa 'Sheryl Sandberg ta yi kuka a kafadar Mark Zuckerberg,' wanda ba daidai ba ne abin da ya faru. Ina magana game da fata na. da tsoro da kuma tambayar mutane game da nasu. Ina ƙoƙarin yin gaskiya game da ƙarfi da raunina - kuma ina ƙarfafa wasu su yi haka. Duk ƙwararru ce kuma duk na sirri ne, duk a lokaci ɗaya."

Helen Gurley Brown

Mawallafi Ba'amurke, Mawallafi, kuma 'yar kasuwa, kuma Babban Editan Cosmopolitan mujallar shekaru 32

’Cosmo ya kasance kusan samun wani wuri daga babu inda. Idan za ku iya farawa a matsayin wanda ba a riga aka sani ba, babu abin burgewa, linzamin kwamfuta, kamar ni kuma ku zauna tare ta hanyar yin mafi kyawun abin da za ku iya, to wannan ba kyakkyawan ra'ayi bane na gwadawa? "

Ellen Alemany ne adam wata

Shugaba da Shugaba na RBS Citizens Financial Group; Shugaban RBS Amurka; shekaru 56

"Na san mata da yawa kamar ni waɗanda ke da ayyuka masu yawan damuwa da suka haɗa da tafiye-tafiye da yawa. A koyaushe ina ganin yana da mahimmanci don ɗaukar lokaci don kanku don shakatawa da kuma kasancewa cikin koshin lafiya. Abin da na fi so na damuwa shine yin tafiya mai tsawo, cikin sauri da safe. ta cikin unguwa tare da karena, Pablo. Yana da daɗi kuma kyakkyawan motsa jiki ne. "

Heather Thomson

Shugaba kuma wanda ya kafa Yummie Tummie; Tauraron Bravo's Uwayen Gidajen NYC; shekara 42

"Rungumi lamuran ku gwargwadon sifofin ku. Kun cika kunshin kuma babu wanda ke ganin sashi ɗaya kawai. A ƙarshen rana, idan ba za ku iya ƙaunar abin da kuke ɗauka na kurakuran ku ba, to dole ne ku yi kokarin canza su. "

Cindy Barshop

Wanda ya kafa kuma ya mallaki cikakkiyar Bare Hi Tech Spa; shekara 47

"Ku yi ƙoƙari ku zama mafi kyawun abin da za ku iya, idan kun shiga cikin sadaka, to kada ku ba da gudummawa kawai. Ku shiga kuma ku ciyar da lokaci tare da wadanda suka fi bukata. Ƙarfafawar ciki shine mabuɗin, domin idan ba ku turawa kanku ba." Wanene zai iya?Haka kuma, rungumar canji. Yawancin suna jin tsoronsa, amma abu ne mai kyau, lokacin da nake aiki a IBM a farkon shekarun 20 na, ina samun kuɗi mai yawa kuma na wuce duk burina na tallace-tallace. yi abubuwa da yawa kuma ku ba da sabis don canza rayuwar mata. Tare da manyan haɗari suna samun lada mai girma da damar yin canji. "

Alexandra Lebenthal

Shugaba da Shugaba na Lebenthal & Kamfanin; shekara 48

"Tambaya kuma za ta karba! Sau da yawa mata kan yi musu wuya su nemi abubuwa, ko damar kasuwanci ce ko karin albashi. Muna sa ran kawai wasu su gane ƙimarmu da aiki tukuru. Neman abin da kuke so cikin alheri, mai tunani. sau da yawa yana haifar da samun abin da kuke so, don haka ku sanya tsoronku a gefe kuma ku nemi abin da kuke so. Kuna iya samun sa kawai! "

Mary Kinney

Mataimakin Shugaban Kasa da COO na Ginnie Mae (Ƙungiyar Bayar da Lamuni ta Gwamnati); shekaru 59

"Shawara mafi hikima da na taɓa samu ita ce in gina sana'ata a kan abin da nake so, ba abin da wasu ke so a gare ni ba. Wannan yana nufin yarda da cewa yayin da ba za ku iya zama mafi kyawun abu ba, har yanzu kuna iya cimma burin ku idan kun mallaki shauki da Wannan kuma yana nufin kula da kanku, motsa jiki da kula da abinci mai kyau yana da mahimmanci don taimakawa wajen sarrafa matsalolin matsayi mai girma."

Patti Stanger

Wanda ya kafa Millionaires Club International; Shawarar Shawara ga www.PattiKnows.com; Tauraron Bravo's Miliyoniya Matchmaker; shekara 51

“Sirrin zama mace mai nasara a kasuwa a yau shi ne, ka yi tafiya zuwa ga bugun ganga, ka saurari hankalinka, kuma a kodayaushe, idan kana shirin yin abokin tarayya, to ka bi tsarin C guda uku, wanda kuma ya shafi. don nemo abokin aure: sadarwa, dacewa, da sunadarai...domin idan ba tare da wannan ba, kasuwancin ku ba zai yi nasara ba."

Marla Gottschalk

Shugaba na The Pampered Chef, Ltd .; shekaru 51

"Nemi sha'awar ku da aikin da kuka yi imani da shi. Lokacin da kuka ji kamar kuna kawo canji a rayuwar mutane, ya zama fiye da aiki. Alal misali, na san lokacin cin abinci na iyali yana da mahimmanci. Don haka yana da kuzari sosai don jagoranci. wata kungiya ta mayar da hankali kan hakan."

Barby K. Siegel

Shugaba na ZENO GROUP, wani kamfani na PR wanda ya sami lambar yabo tare da ofisoshi shida a cikin Amurka; shekara 48

"Tun da farko, an gaya mini cewa, 'Kada ku ce a'a' kuma in yi amfani da kowace zarafi. Wannan shawarar ta yi min amfani da kyau, ku yi amfani da duk damar da za ku yi, ku fita daga yanayin jin dadi. Kuma shawarar mahaifiyata: 'Allah ya ba ku baki. . Yi amfani da shi."

Becky Carr

CMO na Foxwoods ® Resort Casino; shekaru 47

"Makullin daidaita aiki da dangi shine kasancewa tare da mai da hankali kan abin da ke gabanka-zama zance da yaranku ko miji ko aiki kan harka ta kasuwanci. Kada ku ji laifi game da jin daɗin aikinku-yaranku suna samun babban abin koyi wajen daidaita farin cikin su nan gaba. "

Gina Bianchini

Wanda ya kafa Mightybell da Co-kafa / Tsohon Shugaba na Ning; shekaru 40

"Nasara a harkar kasuwanci sha'awa ce haɗe da kisa marar tsoro. Mutanen da na fi samun nasara na sani suna mai da hankali kan abubuwan da za su iya sarrafawa da cika cikakkun bayanai."

Lisa Bloom

Lauyan shahararre; Wanda ya kafa kuma Manajan Abokin Kamfanin Bloom Firm; Mai Binciken Shari'a don Avvo.com; mafi kyawun marubucin Yi tunani da Swagger, shekara 50

"Mafi kyawun shawarar da zan iya bayarwa ana iya taƙaita shi a cikin kalma ɗaya: Karanta. Kada ku kasance cikin kashi 80 cikin ɗari na mutanen da ba su karanta littafi ba a bara. Karatu lafiyar kwakwalwa ce. Ba za ku iya samun isasshen bayanai na hankali ba tare da cin abinci mai ɗorewa na rubutattun labarai, sharhi, kuma mafi mahimmanci, littattafai. duniya da ke kewaye da mu. Littattafai suna fitar da hankalinmu a waje, zuwa duniyar tunani, kuma inda kwakwalwarmu ta tafi, jikinmu yana bi."

Gina D'Ambra

Wanda ya kafa Ƙungiyar LuxMobile; shekaru 34

"Ku yi watsi da mutanen da suka ce a'a ga abin da kuke ji a cikin zuciyarku babban tunani ne. Mafi munin abin da zai iya faruwa shi ne ba ya aiki, amma za ku sami nasarar yin ƙoƙari kawai."

Sunan mahaifi Lunden

Wanda ya kafa kuma Shugaba na Dirrty Records; shekaru 32

"Shawarata ita ce ku yi amfani da abin tuntuɓe ku a matsayin tsani. Takeauki aikinku mafi ƙalubale da ƙwallo ku sarrafa shi."

Afrilu Zan

Shugaba na HydroPeptide; shekara 33

"Ina gaya wa wasu cewa, ko da wane irin cikas kuka fuskanta lokacin girma, tare da horo da kuma kyakkyawar dabi'a, za ku iya ƙirƙirar rayuwar mafarkinku. Na fito daga matalauta kuma na yi aiki na sa'o'i 70 a mako a matsayin dalibi na cikakken lokaci. , kuma yanzu ni mahaifiya ce mai 'ya'ya biyu da farin ciki, mai tseren marathon, kuma Shugaba na layin kula da fata na."

Pam Alabaster

Babban Mataimakin Shugaban Kamfanin Sadarwar Kamfanoni, Cigaba Mai Dorewa & Harkokin Jama'a na L'Oréal USA; shekara 51

"Ci gaba da koyo yana haifar da ci gaba mai ɗorewa. Ba da himma don haɓaka ilimin ku, ƙwarewar ku, da ƙwarewar ku. Yanayin kasuwanci yana canzawa da sauri, kuma fahimtar manyan ayyuka, tunani, da kayan aiki masu tasowa zasu taimaka muku sarrafawa don samun sakamako mai kyau. dalibi na rayuwa."

Alana Feld

Babban Mataimakin Shugaban Feld Entertainment, Inc .; shekaru 32

"Koyaushe bi don gina dangantaka. Aika rubutu ko imel bayan saduwa da wani sabon, kuma ku tuna da cikakkun bayanai kamar idan wani ya yi aure, idan suna da yara, ya koma kwanan nan, da dai sauransu. danginsu, don haka hanya ce mai kyau don yin hulɗa da mutane kuma ku sanya kanku abin tunawa."

Gail Warrior

Shugaba kuma wanda ya kafa The Warrior Group Construction; shekaru 44

"A matsayina na mace a masana'antar da maza suka mamaye, sau da yawa ana tambayata game da yadda nake magance wannan batun. Na amsa cewa shingayen da mata keyi na kasuwanci sun ragu sosai a yau fiye da ko da shekaru 10 da suka gabata. Kuma ko da kasancewa mace a cikin ku Bangaren kasuwanci na iya zama matsala ga wasu abokan ciniki masu yuwuwa, kar ku bari ya zama ɗaya gare ku.A cikin kasuwanci, kun saita sautin ta zama ƙwararren ƙwararre, don haka kuna kafa kanku a matsayin wanda ya cancanta don samun aikin kuma ku bar wannan ya yi magana da kansa. Na yi imani da gaske mata shugabanni ne na halitta kuma ’yan kasuwa. Don haka haɓaka kasuwancin ku bisa tsarin fasahar ku da kwakwalwar ku! A matsayinmu na mata, muna da duka biyun da yawa!"

Rema Khan

CEO of s.h.a.p.e.s. Bar Bar; shekaru 35

"Koyaushe ku kalli babban hoto. Na fara ne a matsayin ƙaramin kantin kyau a Chicago kuma yanzu ina da wurare sama da 65 a duniya. Na ɗauki abubuwa sannu a hankali kuma na tantance kasuwa. Sanya maƙasudai masu dacewa a kowane wata don ci gaba da kasancewa kan hanya, kuma a cikin a ƙarshe, za ku zama mafi kusanci ga cimma mafarkin ku. "

Maria Castañón Moats

Babban Jami'in Bambanci na Kamfanin PricewaterhouseCoopers; shekaru 43

"Ƙirƙiri hanyar sadarwa masu amintattun masu ba da shawara da abokan aiki. Wasu mutane za su iya ba mu kyakkyawar fahimta game da kanmu-da iyakokinmu. Dole ne mu kasance da ƙarfin hali don neman taimako da neman buƙatun don faɗaɗa hangen nesanmu na abin da zai yiwu. ba kasafai yake da sauki ba, amma yana da mahimmanci ga nasara. Ba za mu iya ɗauka cewa mutanen da ke kusa da mu sun fahimci iyawarmu ko sun san abin da za mu iya cimmawa ba. "

Tiffany Krumins

Shugaba/Wanda ya kafa AVA the Elephant Brand (kamar yadda aka gani akan Tankin Shark); shekaru 32

"Gudanar da kamfani na ƙasa da ƙasa, yaƙar cutar kansa, da haɓaka yaro na iya cinye kowane daƙiƙa! Yana da mahimmanci a gare ni cewa abinci na bai sha wahala ba; na yanke shawarar zan buƙaci 'ya'yan itatuwa da kayan marmari guda shida a cikin abinci ɗaya, abu na farko da safe! ruwan 'ya'yan itace, tsaba na flax, furotin whey, da almond. Yana da daɗi kuma ina son sanin ranar da ta fara da yawancin abubuwan gina jiki da antioxidants! "

Jenna Fagnan

Shugaban Tequila Avión; shekara 39

"A matsayina na ɗaya daga cikin femalean matan zartarwa a masana'antar ruhohi, na koyi kada in damu da yin kuskure-kowa yana yin su! daga shi sai muci gaba!"

Nicole Williams

Daraktan Sadarwa na LinkedIn; shekara 41

"Wani ɓangare na hanyar da mutane ke canza ayyukansu shine ta hanyar kiyaye babbar hanyar kwararru a hannun su. Sadarwa wani abu ne da yakamata mata suyi a ko'ina da ko'ina kuma duk tsawon yini, daga filin kare zuwa layi a Starbucks. Idan kuna da batu na gama gari, akwai damar da za a haɗa wani abu mai sauƙi kamar, "Menene sunan kare ku?" na iya kaiwa ga mai ba da shawara ko aikin da kuka yi mafarkin. Babu lokacin da za ku je abubuwan sadarwar yanar gizo? Get on LinkedIn and shiga ƙungiyoyin masana'antu kuma ku fara tattaunawa kuma ku ci gaba da wannan tattaunawar. Ba ku taɓa sanin irin dangantakar kasuwanci da za ta iya tasowa daga irin waɗannan nau'ikan musayar ba."

Lyss Stern

Wanda ya kafa DivaLysscious uwaye, The Premiere Lifestyle Company for mothers; shekaru 38

"Don zama 'mace a saman,' lafiyar hankali da ta jiki duk suna da mahimmanci don cin nasara; koyaushe ina tabbatar da ba da kaina lokaci na lokaci a rana don yin abin da nake jin jikina yana buƙata, ko hakan yana ɗaukar juyi. aji, tunani ni kaɗai a cikin ɗakina, ko kuma kula da kaina ga abinci mai daɗi sosai a ɗayan shagunan abinci na NYC da yawa. lafiya kamar yadda ta iya! "

Katrina Radke, MFT

Mai wasan ninkaya na Olympic; Shugaba da Shugaban Olympian Performance, Inc.; shekara 38

"Bayyana kan abin da ke motsa ku da gaske. Ku kasance masu gaskiya ga wanda kuke da gaske, kuma ku fahimci cewa kuna lafiya kamar yadda kuke. Mafarki mai girma kuma ku dage kan abin da kuke so ku yi yayin da kuka fahimci haƙiƙanin ku na gaskiya da tasiri a duniya. "

Candy Crowley

Babban Wakilin Siyasa kuma Anga na Jihar Ƙungiyar tare da Candy Crowley; shekara 63

"Duk abin da kuke yi, ku kasance masu kyau ba za su iya yin watsi da ku ba."

Darajar hoto: CNN / Edward M. Pio Roda

Janice Lieberman ne adam wata

Wakilin NBC

"Shawarata mafi kyau don zama mai farin ciki da koshin lafiya shine zaɓar sana'ar da kuke ƙauna ƙwarai. Babu abin da zai sa ku farin ciki fiye da tunanin aiki shine inda kuka tafi nishaɗi. kasance tare da ku a lokuta masu kyau da mara kyau. Kuma ko da yake wannan na iya zama kamar tsoho ... samun yara shine babban farin ciki! "

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