"Mafi kyawun Shawarwarin Aiki Na taɓa Samu"

Wadatacce

• Alexis Wolfer
• Emily Liebert ne adam wata
• Alison Kornberg-Walch
• Wendy Diamond
• Dr. Alyssa Dweck
• Audra Lowe
• Polly Blitzer
• Sunan Mitchell
• Jen Abrams
• Sabina Ptacin
• Judy Goss
• Melanie Notkin
• Ellen Lewis ta
• Jill Zarin
• Kimiya Smith
• Gwen Wunderlich
• Julie Wax
• Jen Groover
• Sunan Usigan
• Lisa Avellino
• Jeannine Morris
• Cherie Corso
• Pamela Gill Alabaster
• Bita don

"Ka gwada kawai, menene mafi munin da zai iya faruwa? Ba za ka so shi ba sannan ka gwada wani abu?" Waɗannan kalaman har yanzu suna cikin raina, duk da cewa an faɗa mini su sama da shekaru goma sha biyu da suka wuce. Dare ne kafin in fara aikin horon aiki a wani gidan talabijin na gida a Albany, NY, kuma amsar da mahaifiyata ta bayar kenan bayan na ce mata, "Amma ni ba ma son labarai!" Na yi godiya da na saurare, domin bayan na kammala wannan horon, na shafe shekaru hudu masu ban sha'awa na inganta aikin jarida a wannan tashar.

Yanzu, a matsayina na marubucin wallafe-wallafe, wakilin gidan talabijin, kuma mai salo, ina ba da shawarar sana'ata ga ɗalibai da matasa mata da yawa da nake magana da su a azuzuwan koleji daban-daban. Wani abu nake gaya musu koyaushe? Koyaushe ɗaukar filaye a cikin jakar ku kuma bincika mummunan hali a ƙofar. Ma'anar ita ce yayin da wataƙila ba ku yi tafiya a cikin takalmin wata mace ba, har yanzu kuna iya koyo daga matakan ta (ko kuskure).

Mun kai ga mata 23 masu nasara daga kowane fanni na rayuwa da zaɓin hanyoyin aiki kuma muka nemi su raba mafi kyawun shawarwarin aiki da suka taɓa samu.

Alexis Wolfer

"Kada ku ji tsoron neman taimako! Mutane da yawa suna tunanin samun 'yancin kai alama ce ta nasara, amma babu wanda ke kan madafan iko da ya isa wurin ba tare da goyon baya da taimakon wasu ba, don haka kada ku ji tsoron neman shawara. da taimako kamar yadda ake bukata. " -Alexis Wolfer, Wanda ya Kafa Bean kyakkyawa

Emily Liebert ne adam wata

"Amintar da raina na hanji. Idan bai ji daidai ba, tabbas ba haka bane." -Emily Liebert, Mawallafin Facebook Fairytales: Mu'ujizai na Zamani don Ƙarfafa Ruhin Dan Adam

Alison Kornberg-Walch

"Shawarata mafi kyau ita ce wani tsohon edita wanda ya halarci jawabin farawa na Apple Steve Jobs' Stanford a 2005 ya ba ni. Kuna iya haɗa su suna kallon baya. Don haka dole ne ku amince cewa ɗigon za su haɗu a nan gaba.'" -Alison Kornberg-Walch, wanda ya kafa MrsGuided.com

Wendy Diamond

"Wani magidanci a gaban sanannen otal ɗin Plaza da ke birnin New York ya taɓa gaya mani cewa yana samun kuɗi da yawa yana neman sauyi fiye da yadda zai yi aiki a McDonalds. Ya ba da shawarar in shafe yini ɗaya na aikin sa kai na ƙungiyar Coalition for the Mara gida don ganin yadda abin yake a zahiri. Haɗuwa da wannan mutumin sannan ciyar da ranar don taimaka wa marasa gida ya haifar da aikin gabaɗaya yana taimaka wa marasa gida, yara, da dabbobi. a yau, wannan ban dariya mai ban dariya a gaban The Plaza har abada yana cikin tunanina! " -Wendy Diamond, Mutum na TV kuma Wanda ya kafa Kafafen Watsa Labarai na Dabbobi da Lucky Diamond Productions, Inc.

Dr. Alyssa Dweck

"Ku tuna 5 P's… Tsarin da ya dace yana hana Aiki mara kyau!" -Dokta Alyssa Dweck, OB/GYN da Mawallafin) V na Farji: Jagorar ku na A zuwa Z zuwa lokuta, huda, jin daɗi, da ƙari mai yawa.

Audra Lowe

"Shawarwari guda biyu sun zama gaskiya a gare ni-ku tuna cewa gazawa wakafi ne, ba lokaci ba ne, kuma koyaushe ku tabbata kun karɓi shawara daga wanda ke tafiya ta wannan hanyar da kuke son shiga." -Audra Lowe, Mai watsa shiri TV

Polly Blitzer

"Mahaifin mahaifiyata, wanda aka fi sani da Papa Cecil, ya kasance ma'aikacin yawo na aphorisms. A duk lokacin da na gaya masa game da buri ko sha'awa, yakan kaddamar da shi a cikin kalma ɗaya wanda ba makawa ya kai ga, 'Yi tsarin, canza shi kamar yadda ya cancanta.' Wannan shawara mai sauƙi tana ci gaba da yin tasiri, saboda tana tilasta muku yin tunani mai mahimmanci da dabaru kafin fara wani abu. " -Polly Blitzer, Wanda ya kafa BeautyBlitz.com

Sunan Mitchell

"Ba da katunan kuɗin ku kuma kuyi aiki don duk abin da kuke so!" -Shareen Mitchell, Mallakin Shareen Vintage da Tauraruwar Planet Green's Dresscue Ni

Jen Abrams

"Don gano burina, sannan nemo hanyar yin rayuwa daga ciki!" -Jen Abrams, Mashahurin Stylist

Sabina Ptacin

"A rayuwa, muna jujjuya kwallaye da yawa, wasu daga cikinsu roba ne kuma suna iya dawo da baya idan muka sauke su, wasu kuma gilashi ne kuma za su fasa. Wannan darasi daga mahaifiyata ce, wace ce aikina/guru na . A kullum muna ta jujjuya ne a rayuwa, kuma ko da ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwallo, yawan ƙwallo da kuke ƙarawa, hakan yana ƙara wahala, ba tare da shakka ba za ku zubar da ƙwallon lokaci zuwa lokaci." -Sabina Ptacin, 'Yar kasuwa Serial, Co-kafa kuma Babban Jami'in Farin ciki na PRENEUR

Judy Goss

"Lokacin da na fara ƙaddamar da Mata sama da 40, wani ya ce min in kasance da gaskiya ga hangen nesa na farko na kamfanin komai abin da ya shafi kasuwanci ko cikakkun bayanai. Wannan zai taimaka mini in mai da hankali kan abin da kamfanin yake da kuma ta wace hanya muna kan tafiya. Yana da sauƙi a bi sawun gefe kuma a saurari shawarar kowa, amma lokacin da kuka koma ga ainihin ku da mafarkin da kuka fara yi lokacin da kuka fara, koyaushe za ku gano hanyar da ta dace. " -Judy Goss, Wanda ya kafa Over40Females.com

Melanie Notkin

“Wani ya bani shawarar in karanta littafin Yadda Ake Samun Abokai Da Shafar Mutane da Dale Carnegie. Na karanta ta aƙalla sau ɗaya a shekara don tunatarwa kan yadda ake samun ingantattun alaƙa (da na sirri). ” -Melanie Notkin, Wanda ya Kafa kuma Mafi Kyawun Mawallafi, Savvy Auntie

Ellen Lewis ta

"Ku ɗauki lokaci don ɗaukar ma'aikatan ku, tantance su da kyau, kuma ku tabbata kun ɗauki mutanen da suka fi dacewa da abin da ake tsammanin za su yi a lokacin ku. Sannan ku ba su 'yancin yin aiki." -Ellen Lewis, Wanda ya kafa kuma mai buga Labarin Lingerie

Jill Zarin

"Koyaushe ku kasance da wuri don taro. Kashi 90 cikin 100 na nasara na nunawa A LOKACI!" -Jill Zarin, Halin TV da Kasuwanci, Skweez Couture na Jill Zarin

Kimiya Smith

"Farfesa na kwalejin Freshman koyaushe yana cewa 'Dole ku yi tsari'. Komai abin da kuke yi ko burin da kuke nema, akwai buƙatar bayyana ma'anar abin da kuke so da matakan da ya kamata ku ɗauka. don isa can, yayin da kake iya tantance kanka a fili a ma'auni daban-daban daga hangen nesa na dogon lokaci da gajeren lokaci. fara wani aiki." -Kimmie Smith, Edita a Babban Kitten Lounge, Mai ƙira, da Kakakin

Gwen Wunderlich

"Ku ci gaba da tafiya! Tsohon maigidana ya kasance yana faɗin haka lokacin da na yi kuskure, na kasa gano wani abu, ko kuma in yi uzuri da yin tambayoyi masu ban dariya da ta ga ya bata min rai, abin ya dame ni sosai a lokacin, amma yanzu na ji. ta fahimci cewa, duk abin da take ƙoƙarin koya mani shi ne, kada ku yi gumi da ƙananan abubuwa kuma ku gano abubuwa da kanku maimakon dogaro da amsoshin wasu, wannan darasi ya sa na zama mai ƙarfi, mai zaman kansa, mai cin gashin kansa, mai kasuwancin banza wanda aka sani da shi. cimma ko da mafi tsanani ayyuka." -Gwen Wunderlich, Jarida kuma Shugaban Wunderlich, Inc.

Julie Wax

"Yi abin da kuke so kuma ku ƙaunaci abin da kuke yi. Na kamu da aikina kuma ba zan iya yin farin ciki da shi ba. Ina ganin hakan ya nuna!" -Julie Wax, Blogger, I Heart Heels

Jen Groover

"Kada ku ɓata ƙarfin ku akan gaya wa mutane yadda kuke da wayo ko iyawa, ku nuna su. Ku tashi ƙarƙashin radar kuma kada ku bari su gan ku kuna zuwa." -Jen Groover, ɗan kasuwa, Mawallafin Idan kuma me yasa? Halin Talabijan, da Mai Magana Mai Ƙarfafawa

Sunan Usigan

"Mahaifiyata ta gaya min in manta da kuɗi, take, da shahara. Abu mafi mahimmanci da za a yi la’akari da shi yayin zaɓar hanyar aiki ko yanke shawarar aiki ita ce, 'Za ku yi farin ciki?' Matukar kuna cikin farin ciki, to komai zai gudana, bayan shafe shekaru 10 tana harkar yada labarai, na tabbata tana da gaskiya kwata-kwata." -Ysolt Usigan, Daraktan Yanar Gizo a rukunin XO

Lisa Avellino

"Na haɗu da nasihohi guda uku mafi kyawun abin koyi-mahaifiyata, mahaifina, da Michael Jordan-kuma na sa kaina a ciki don amfani da shi ga rayuwata da aiki na. Jordan ya ce 'idan kuka yi aikin, za ku sami lada .' Mahaifiyata ta ce 'Dole ne ku yi aiki yau da kullun, babu uzuri,' kuma mahaifina ya ce 'kawai ku nuna.' Na gano duka ukun gaskiya ne! " -Lisa Avellino, Mai Susan Marlowe Fitness a Scarsdale, NY kuma Mahaliccin Iso-Towel Weight Loss Workout DVD Series

Jeannine Morris

"Dress ga aikin da kuke so, ba aikin da kuke da shi ba!" -Jeannine Morris, Wanda ya kafa kuma Blogger na BeautySweetSpot.com

Cherie Corso

"Mahaifina ya taba cewa babu wanda ke yin shi shi kaɗai kuma don alfahari da duk abin da kuke yi! Kasance ɗan wasan ƙungiya! A matsayina na ɗan kasuwa, ba zan taɓa daina ba; koyaushe ina ci gaba da karatuna, kuma a shirye nake in ɗauki ƙalubalen koyo. " -Cherie Corso, wanda ya kafa G2 Organics

Pamela Gill Alabaster

"Dukkanmu mun sami shawarwarin sana'a da yawa tsawon shekaru… wasu masu kyau, wasu mara kyau, wasu kuma munanan da gaske, amma wannan tunanin ya yi min aiki akai-akai: Sanya mashawarcin ku kuma kuyi ƙoƙarin wuce shi." -Pamela Gill Alabaster, Babban Mataimakin Shugaban Sadarwar Kamfanoni, Ci gaba Mai Dorewa & Harkokin Jama'a, L'Oréal Amurka

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