Comediennes yayi Magana Jima'i kuma Ya Kasance cikin Sabon Podcast mai ban dariya

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Kamar kowane iri-iri, Corinne Fisher da Krystyna Hutchinson-waɗanda suka sadu a wurin aiki shekaru biyar da suka gabata-suna gaya wa juna komai, musamman game da rayuwar jima'i.

Amma lokacin da waɗannan abubuwan 20-wasu abubuwa guda biyu suka musanya asirin, masu sauraro 223,000 sun ji daɗin tattaunawar da ke gudana akan mashahurin "Guys We F **ked, The Anti Slut-Shaming Podcast," wanda aka ƙaddamar akan SoundCloud a watan Disamba na ƙarshe daga Tsaya NY Labs. Oh, kuma waɗannan 'yan matan koyaushe suna da aƙalla ɗayan fitattun su a cikin ɗakin don yin magana da su.

Mun zauna tare da mata biyu masu ban dariya don ɗaukar kwakwalensu game da jima'i, alaƙa, da canza magana game da jima'i na mata.

Siffa: Ta yaya kuka fito da wannan tunanin?

Krystyna Hutchinson (KH): Corinne kawai ta turo min da sako wata rana tana cewa, "Bari mu yi kwasfan fayiloli mai suna 'Guys We have F **ked' inda muke da waɗannan mutanen da muka f **cked a matsayin baƙi." Kuma na kasance kamar, "Ee." Ba za mu iya cire tunanin mu daga ciki ba.

Corinne Fisher (CF): Ya samo asali ne daga wannan mawuyacin lokacin da nake ciki a bara. Na kasance cikin rabuwa mafi muni a kowane lokaci. Na yi asarar fam 20 a cikin watanni biyu kuma ina zuwa gidan Krystyna kowace rana ina kuka tsawon watanni. Yawancin wasan barkwanci yana fitowa daga wuri mara daɗi. Maimakon yin kwasfan fayiloli na musamman, mun yanke shawarar faɗaɗa shi don magance babbar matsala, kamar ɓarna.

Siffa: Tare da shirye-shiryen TV kamar Jima'i a Gari kuma yanzu 'Yan mata, kuna ganin har yanzu cin hanci da rashawa yana da yawa?

CF: Mata yanzu sun fi yin magana game da jima'i, wanda yake da ban mamaki. Amma tabbas idan wasu matan suka tashi, wasu sukan firgita da fada. Wannan na iya haifar da mafi muni a cikin mutanen da suke jin kunya. Kuma yayin da nake ƙauna Jima'i a Gari kuma ina kallon kowane lamari, bana tsammanin shine mafi kyau ga mata saboda kawai ya ta'allaka ne akan su yana jin haushin maza. Abin da nake so 'Yan mata shine cewa akwai abubuwa da yawa da ke faruwa - suna magana game da ayyukansu, dangi, abokai. Yana da kyau juyin halitta.

Siffa: Saboda kuna da irin waɗannan matasa masu sauraro, kuna jin kuna buƙatar zama masu ban dariya da ilimi?

KH: Muna karɓar ra'ayoyi da yawa daga mata a duk faɗin duniya, wanda ya sa na fahimci yadda wannan tattaunawar take da mahimmanci. Mun fara kwasfan fayiloli don yin magana game da jima'i, wanda shine abin da muke magana akai, kuma muna so ya zama abin dariya. Abin da ya faru da duk waɗannan masu sauraron shi ne cewa sun sanya shi cikin wannan faifan ƙarfafawa na zamantakewa, wanda ke da ban mamaki. Yana da ban sha'awa sosai don ganin yadda masu sauraro suke da sha'awar-suna ɗaukar lokaci don rubuta mu akai-akai-da kuma yadda suke da kwarin gwiwa ta wurin nunin mu. [Tweet wannan zance mai ban sha'awa!]

CF:Lallai muna son raddi, amma ba mu canza wasan kwaikwayon ba dangane da maganganunsu. Mu ba masanan jima'i ba ne, kuma ba ma da'awar zama. Sau da yawa muna cewa akan wasan cewa "muna f **k up da yawa." Wannan wani bangare ne na fara'a a cikin podcast. Ba muna ƙoƙarin yin wa'azi ba. Muna gaya muku yadda muke ji ne bisa abubuwan da muka samu na kanmu.

Siffa: Kwasfan fayilolin ya kasance kayan aikin cikin catharsis ɗin ku, Corinne?

CF: A'a, na sami catharsis na kafin wannan. Lokaci da tsayuwa na sun taimaka sosai. Kuma fim Yan Hutu. Na shiga cikin wannan lokacin inda nake zuwa fina -finai a daren Juma'a ni kadai, kuma zai zama abin ban sha'awa.

Siffa: Krystyna, yaya saurayinki yake ji game da kwasfan fayiloli?

KH:Yana ganin babban tunani ne. Shi babban mai goyon bayansa ne, abin mamaki ne. Wataƙila ba zan yi hulɗa da shi in ba haka ba, saboda na yi imani sosai da wannan wasan. Ya ma zama bako! Abin ban dariya game da Steven shine ya yi kwanan wata tauraron batsa lokacin da muka fara haduwa. Abin ya burge ni sosai har na nemi ya gaya min komai. Ban sani ba cewa bayan shekara guda zan ƙare tare da shi shekaru uku masu zuwa. Ya kasance ɗaya daga cikin mutanen farko da na tattauna da su game da jima'i da abin da ya kasance gaskiya ne kuma mai hankali. Abin ya ba ni mamaki kuma yana daya daga cikin abubuwan farko da suka fara burge ni game da shi. Dangantakarmu ta fara tare da mu abokai kuma muna magana sosai game da jima'i-wanda bai taɓa faruwa ba.

Siffa: Shin wani sabon sani na kai ya fito daga yin magana da tsoffin ku?

KH: Haka ne, 100 bisa dari. Dukanmu mun koyi abubuwa da yawa game da juna. Ɗaya daga cikin abubuwan da na fara fahimtar kaina da na samu bayan mun sami 'yan baƙi a kan wasan kwaikwayon shine cewa exes na sun kasance da wuyar gaske. Wasu sun ce a'a nan da nan kuma ba za su saurare ni ba. Ya sa na gane cewa na haƙura da ƙwazo fiye da Corinne. Mutane a cikin rayuwarta sun kasance masu sauƙin sauƙaƙe, yayin da samari ba su kasance ba, aƙalla a farkon.

Siffa: Shin kuna da wasu exes akan wasan kwaikwayon wanda ya sanya ku tunani game da sake kunna soyayya?

KH:Akwai wani saurayi da muka yi hira da shi wanda na yi wa sujada a lokacin da muke soyayya. Ban gan shi ba tsawon shekaru. Lokacin da ya zo cikin ɗakin, wannan lokacin mai ban mamaki ne. Tare da wasu mutane, kuna da ilmin sunadarai wanda ba za a iya musantawa ba wanda zai kasance koyaushe. Yana da ruɗani a wasu lokuta, saboda kun san ba za ta taɓa yin aiki a matsayin dangantaka ba, amma wannan sinadari har yanzu yana da kyau.

CF:Lokacin da na gama dangantaka, ya ƙare. Kawai yadda nake. Amma tabbas na sake yin jima'i da mutane bayan faifan podcast saboda kuna magana sosai, kuma yana iya aiki azaman wasan kwaikwayo. Sannan kuna zaune a wurin kuna tuna, "Oh mutum, wannan kyakkyawan jima'i ne." Ko kuma ina tunanin, "Ina tsammanin za mu iya sake gwada wannan kuma mu yi aiki mafi kyau." Ikon sadarwa: Abin da kawai za ku yi shi ne faɗin abin da kuke so don kyautata alaƙar.

Kalli kaset ɗin farko na "Guys We F **cked" a gaban masu sauraro kai tsaye a Jersey Comedy City Festival a ranar Alhamis, 3 ga Afrilu da ƙarfe 6 na yamma. a 9th & Coles Tavern, da kuma sauraron ranar Juma'a tsakanin tsakar rana da 2 na rana. EST don sauraron kwasfan fayiloli.

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