Lokacin 'Schitt's Creek' wanda ya sa Emily Hampshire ta gane cewa ita Pansexual ce

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Emily Hampshire kwanan nan ya buɗe game da yadda wani yanayi daga Schit's Creekya taimaka mata ta gane cewa ita 'yar madigo ce.

A yayin bayyanar Talata a ranar 4D Tare da Demi Lovato podcast, Hampshire ya tuno yanayin lokacin da halinta, Stevie Budd, da halayen Dan Levy, David Rose, suka yi bayanin jima'i da su ta amfani da misalin ruwan inabi. Jarumar ta ce wannan lokacin ya sa ta kara fahimtar yanayin jima'i da kanta.

"Ya ce, a ƙarshe yana son giya, ba lakabin ba kuma cewa ɗan luwadi ne. Ban taɓa jin kalmar 'pansexual' ba," in ji Hampshire. "A koyaushe ina ɗaukar kaina a matsayin babban masani game da abubuwan LGBTQ kawai saboda kowa a rayuwata, abokaina, yawancinsu mutanen LGBTQ ne, amma ban san wannan ba."

"Sai kusan shekaru biyar bayan haka. Ina saduwa da wani kuma na ga a cikin allunan sakonnin mutane suna cewa, 'Stevie 'yar madigo ce?' 'Shin Emily ɗan luwaɗi ne?' "Wacece Emily?" Ta ci gaba.

Hampshire, 40, ta kuma gaya wa Lovato cewa wata tattaunawa ce da Levy, 38, wanda ya taimaka mata a karshe ta fahimci jima'i. "Na ce wa Dan, na kasance kamar, 'Wannan abin mamaki ne. Menene ni?' Domin da gaske na yi soyayya da mutum kuma inda suke a kan jinsi ba kome ba ne a gare ni, kuma tun daga lokacin ba kome ba ne a gare ni - dole ne in so mutumin. hankalin mutum," in ji ta. "Ya kasance kamar, 'Kai ɗan jima'i ne. Shin, ba ka kallon wasan kwaikwayonmu?'" (Mai alaƙa: Ta yaya "Fitowa" Ya Inganta Lafiyata da Farin Ciki)

Gabaɗaya akwai ma'anoni guda biyu da aka yarda da su na ɗan adam: isaya tana jan hankalin wani komai na jinsi ko asalin jinsi, yayin da ɗayan abin jan hankali ne duka jinsi da jinsin jinsi.

Yayin tattaunawar ta da Lovato, 29, Hampshire ta kara da cewa a cikin kyakkyawar duniya, tana tunanin lakabi ba zai zama dole ba. "Duniya ta utopian kamar, 'Ba lallai ne ku bayyana kanku a matsayin wani abu ba.' Ba lallai ne in ce ni ɗan luwadi ba ne, ɗan luwadi, wani abu. Ina samun dalilin da yasa dole mu yanzu.

Yayin tattaunawar ta da Lovato, Hampshire ta kuma bayyana cewa tauraron tauraron ya taba shiga cikin DM don tambayar ta. Hampshire ta tuno yadda Lovato, wacce ta bayyana a matsayin mai zaman kanta kuma ba ta jima ba, ta aika mata da sako, tana tambayar jarumar kwanan wata. (Mai alaƙa: Abin da Ainihin Ma'anar Kasancewa Ruwan Jinsi ko Gano A Matsayin Wanda Ba Na Biyu)

Hampshire ya ce: "Kun yi birgima a cikin DM na kuma kun ce, 'Hey, Ina son ku akan wasan kwaikwayon. Ya kamata mu buga shi wani lokaci,'" in ji Hampshire. "Sa'an nan kuma ka ce, a ƙarƙashinsa, 'Kuma ta hanyar buga shi, ina nufin ku tafi kwanan wata, na same ku mai ban sha'awa. Kun bayyana cewa kwanan wata ne, kuma ina son hakan saboda wani lokacin wannan yana da rudani. Na girme ku shekaru da yawa, don haka 'bura,' ina kallon shi."

Hampshire ya ce Lovato ya kuma amince da gibin shekarun su na kusan shekaru 11, inda ya kwatanta yiwuwar haduwarsu da Sarah Paulson, 46, da Holland Taylor, 78. "Kun kuma ce, 'Ku yi tunanin Sarah Paulson da Holland Taylor.' Kuma bayan kun kasance kamar, 'Ba ina nufin kai Holland Taylor ba ne!' Ina tsammanin abu ne mai ban dariya a duk duniya saboda ni Holland Taylor ce a cikin wannan yanayin, ”in ji Hampshire. "Alfahari da zama!"

Lovato ya amsa, "Mutumin da ba na binary ba zai iya yin mafarki. Kuma su, ita - Ni 'ta' a lokacin - tana mafarki mai girma. Na kasance kamar, 'Mene ne mafi munin da zai iya faruwa?' Kuma na yi abokin kirki, kai abokin dope ne, kuma na yi farin ciki da muka zama abokai." Sai Hampshire ya amsa, "Ni ma! Da ma ba ka kai 29 ba!" (Mai dangantaka: Demi Lovato ya godewa 'Sarauniya' Lizzo don Gyaran Paparazzo Bayan Rashin Basu)

Har zuwa yaya rayuwar soyayyar Lovato da Hampshire take a yanzu? Suna kiyaye shi ƙananan maɓalli bin kowane ɗayan ayyukan da suka lalace: Lovato's zuwa Max Ehrich a cikin 2020 da Hampshire ga mawaƙa Teddy Geiger a 2019.

"Na shiga tsaka mai wuya kuma irin wannan ya tilasta ni da gaske zuwa farfajiya da duba kaina saboda ni duk game da wani mutum ne. Komai ya kasance game da ni ba ni da wata buƙatu da ƙima da kai kuma yanzu da na a ƙarshe na samu, bayan ɗimbin magunguna masu tsada, masu tsada, cewa ina ƙaunata sosai kuma ina yin abin da nake so in yi, wanda nake jin tsoron shiga dangantaka. Ina cikin damuwa cewa kawai zan ba da hakan sama," raba Hampshire.

Amma game da Lovato, sun gamsu da kallon Netflix da chillin' solo. "Na kai ga wannan lokacin kuma inda nake, 'Amma jira, ina matukar son tawa Grey ta Anatomy Marathon da nake da kaina, '"in ji su." Ban sani ba idan wani wanda na yi soyayya da shi zai yi sha'awar hakan. "

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