Wannan Mai Ba da Labarin Wasanni Mai Ciki tana da Nishaɗi Mai Rage Aikinta don Bari Masu Shaye-shaye su Tawo da ita

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Mai watsa shirye-shirye na ESPN Molly McGrath yana ba da rahoto a gefe a wasan ƙwallon ƙafa a farkon wannan watan lokacin da ta karɓi mummunan DM daga wani abin kunya. McGrath, wacce a halin yanzu tana cikin watanni uku na uku, yawanci tana barin irin waɗannan maganganun su zame. Amma a wannan karon, ta ƙi zama. Madadin haka, a cikin sakon Instagram mai ratsa zuciya, ta raba yadda jikinta mai ciki yake da ƙarfi - ba kawai don haɓaka ƙaramin ɗan adam ba, amma don ci gaba da aikin da ake yawan biyan haraji a jiki.

"A daren jiya na kasance a ƙafafuna sama da awanni shida a madaidaiciya, cikin ruwan sama, kuma na san cewa zan yi bacci na awanni uku kawai saboda canjin jirgi na ƙarshe," ta rubuta tare da hoton da ke nuna yadda take ba da rahoto a gefe . "A karon farko, watakila har abada, na bar wani mummunan troll tweet game da canje-canjen jikina na ciki ya same ni." (Mai Dangantaka: Dalilin Kunyar Jiki Wannan Babban Matsala ce da Abin da Zaku Iya Yi Don Tsayar da shi)

A ci gaba da rubutunta, McGrath ya buɗe game da mawuyacin canje -canjen da jikinta ke fuskanta, musamman yanzu da ta kusan ƙarshen ciki. Ta rubuta. "Ƙafata ta kumbura kuma ta yi rauni kamar ban taɓa zato ba kuma kullun baya na yana ciwo," in ji ta. "Kada a ambaci kashe wasu alamomi kamar tashin zuciya, ƙwannafi, da gajiya." (Mai Alaƙa: Abubuwan da ke haifar da Ciwon ciki Mai Haƙiƙa waɗanda a zahiri al'ada ce)

Tare da duk wannan a zuciya, abu na ƙarshe da McGrath ke damuwa game da kwanakin nan shine yadda jikinta yake, ta rubuta. "Ina yin RAYUWA DAN ADAM," ta raba. "Yarinyar da nake dauke da ita na iya rayuwa a wajen jikina a yanzu, kuma jikin jakina mai karfi ya yi wannan jaririn daga karce."

A saman wannan, McGrath ta ce aikinta da kanta ba abu ne mai sauƙi ba. Ta rubuta cewa "Aikin mai ba da rahoto na gefe yana da wahala tare da balaguro, shirye -shirye, hargitsi don samun bayanai, da kuma gaskiyar cewa ba mu taɓa shiga cikin watsa shirye -shirye gwargwadon abin da za mu iya ba da gudummawa ba," in ji ta. "Amma kun san me, ba zan canza KOWANE halin da nake ciki ba cikin daƙiƙa ɗaya. Ina jin matuƙar sa'a da samun aikin da nake matukar sha'awar sa, ya sa na manta cewa ɗan ɗan adam yana harbin hakarkarina."

A cikin hira da Yahoo Life, McGrath ta ce ta yi tsokaci game da maganganun rashin tausayi na troll ba kawai don nuna cewa mata ba dole ne su ji kunyar jikinsu ba, har ma a matsayin hanyar ƙara wakilcin masu juna biyu a kafofin watsa labarai. "Yana da wuya a ga mace mai ciki a talabijin, amma bai kamata talabijin ya zama wakilcin duniyar da muke rayuwa a cikinta ba?" Ta fada mashi. (Mai alaƙa: Kunya mai ƙiba na iya lalata jikin ku)

Duk da rashin kulawa, McGrath ta rubuta a cikin post ɗin ta cewa tana yaba jikinta don duk abin da za ta iya yi kuma ta ƙi nuna hukunci a kanta. "Ina alfahari da kasancewa mace mai juna biyu da ke aiki na cikakken lokaci kuma ina alfahari da girman samar da rayuwar dan adam bai ragu ba, kuma ba zai rage ni ba," in ji ta. "Mata suna freaking ban mamaki da iko kuma duk wanda bai ga haka ba zai iya sumbaci babban ciwon gindi na." (Mai alaka: Twitter ya amsa da kyau bayan ya wulakanta jikin wata malamar rigarta)

McGrath ya yi nisa da mai ba da rahoto na farko da aka yi wa irin wannan hali na kunyan jiki. A cikin shekarar 2017, wani mai kallon abin takaici a Facebook ya soki Demetria Obilor, mai ba da rahoto kan zirga-zirgar ababen hawa. Kwanan nan, anga labarai na WREG-TV, Nina Harrelson ta yi magana bayan wani mutum ya gaya mata cewa ta yi kama da "babban babba" a talabijin. Akwai kuma Tracy Hinson, masaniyar yanayi na KSDK News, wacce ta tafa baya bayan da ta gaya mata cewa tana buƙatar abin ɗamara don rufe cikinta "kumburi." (Saka dogon nishi a nan.)

Wadannan abubuwan da suka faru a bayyane abin takaici ne, amma mata kamar McGrath, Obilor, Harrelson, da Hinson sun yi fiye da kawai ɗaukar sakaci cikin hanzari. Sun yi amfani da waɗannan maganganun ƙiyayya a cikin damar da za su iya yin tasiri a cikin wasu. Misali: Bayan McGrath ta ba da labarin abin kunya a jikinta a Instagram, ambaliyar ruwa ta mamaye ta daga wasu mata masu aikin ciki masu jin labarin ta ya ba ta ƙarfi.

"Hey @MollyAMcGrath. Dunƙule trolls. Har yanzu ban sadu da wani mutum wanda zai iya cire rayuwar ɗan adam yayin ci gaba da murƙushe aikin su ba," anga tashar talabijin Emily Jones McCoy ta yi tweeting tare da hoton kanta tana ba da rahoto a gefe.

"Ci gaba da kashe shi, yarinya!" 'yar jaridar wasanni Julia Morales ta rubuta a wani tweet. "Ba zan iya jira in gaya wa jaririyata nawa lokacin TV ɗin da ta samu kafin a haife ta ba. Na shirya kuma na ba da rahoto har zuwa mako na 38."

Wakilin NASCAR Kaitlyn Vincie ya wallafa a shafin Twitter tare da hoton ta na iska.

"Don haka ga ƙarin: Ciki na wata shida, yaro yana harba ni koyaushe, musamman yana son lokacin da nake magana akan TV. Ba za ta sami wata hanya ba!"

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