Wannan Kulob din Littafi Mai Tsarki Yana Ba Mata Ƙarfafa Rungumar Jikinsu

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Membobin kungiyar Topless Book Club na New York sun kasance suna hana nonon su a Tsakiyar Tsakiya tsawon shekaru shida da suka gabata. Kwanan nan, ƙungiyar ta fara yawo bayan raba bidiyo game da manufarsu: Don tabbatar da cewa yana yiwuwa mata su iya nuna tsiraici ta hanyar da ba ta dace ba-yayin da suke tunatar da New Yorkers cewa toplessness doka ce a cikin garin su.

"Ina jin kamar tun suna kanana ana gaya wa mata su yi shuru ko su yi tawali'u game da jikinmu," in ji mamban kulob Cheyenne Lutek. "Al'umma suna gaya mana cewa mu yi ado ko yin wata hanya don zama 'al'ada' ko 'karɓa,' kuma a gaskiya na yi imani za mu iya amfani da jikinmu ta kowace hanya da muka ga ya dace."

Cheyenne ya shiga kulob din ne a shekara ta 2013 bayan ya karanta game da shi a kan layi. Nan take taji sha'awarta saboda ci gabanta. "Sun karbe ni hannu bibbiyu, kuma na hadu da wasu manyan mutane ta hanyar ta," in ji ta.

Rachel Rosen, a gefe guda, an gabatar da ita ga ra'ayin a cikin 2011 ta hanyar abokin ciniki na horo. "Ina tsammanin ra'ayi ne mai ban mamaki da nake so in tallafa," ta gaya mana. (Mai Dangantaka: Gano Me yasa Daruruwan Mata ke Raba Hotunan Kansu Suna Yin Yoga Tsirara)

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Babu daya daga cikin matan da ya taba jin irin wannan abu a baya amma ya kamu da soyayya da kungiyar ta tsaya. Rachel ta ce "Yana inganta ra'ayin cewa yakamata mu kasance masu 'yanci don nuna kansu a cikin kowane irin sutura da sutura cikin kyakkyawan yanayi kuma ba a yanke mana hukunci ba," in ji Rachel. "Hakanan yana ƙara wayar da kan jama'a cewa abin karɓa ne kuma a zahiri abin so ne ga mata su zama marasa ƙarfi."

Ga Cheyenne, komai ya kasance game da koyan zama cikin kwanciyar hankali da kwarin gwiwa a cikin fatarta. "Babu kawai dama da yawa kamar wannan a can kuma tabbas an raina shi," in ji ta. "Amma muna bukatar mu kasance masu kula da jikin mu da lafiyar mu-wannan shine abin da wannan ƙungiyar take."

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A halin yanzu kulob din yana da daruruwan mambobi masu aiki, wasu da suka kirkiro kananan kungiyoyi a duniya. Manufar su ita ce su taru sau ɗaya a wata don karanta komai daga Shakespeare zuwa littattafan ban dariya yayin da suke tattaunawa mai zurfi game da yancin mata da batutuwa.

"Kasancewa cikin ƙungiyar ya haifar da haske ga matsaloli da yawa a duniya ga mata, kamar albashi, samun ilimi, kiwon lafiya - Ban taɓa sanin wasu daga cikin waɗannan abubuwan a da ba," in ji Cheyenne. "Ya canza tunanina game da abin da ake nufi da zama mace a duniyar yau." (Mai alaƙa: Abin da Na Koyi Game da Ni Daga Ƙoƙarin Yoga Tsirara)

Kungiyar tana yarda da kowa da kowa, muddin suna son barin duk hukunci a baya. Amma masu kallo ba koyaushe suke ba da ladabi iri ɗaya ba. "Lokaci -lokaci, muna samun wasu maganganu marasa kyau da kyan gani," in ji Cheyenne. "Amma tare mun fi karfi kuma muna goyon bayan juna, don haka mutanen da ke da wani abu mara kyau a fada yawanci suna kula da harkokinsu."

Rachel tana son ba wa waɗannan mutanen fa'idar shakka. "Ina tsammanin sun fi kowa son sani," in ji ta. Mutane da yawa suna zuwa suna yaba mana saboda abin da muke ƙoƙarin yi don tsararraki masu zuwa. "

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A cikin shekaru da yawa, mata biyu sun yi amfani da ƙungiyar don ƙarfafa kansu kuma sun koyi rungumar jikinsu a cikin wannan tsari. Cheyenne ta ce: "Suna birgima ne kawai." "Kasancewar babu koli a cikin jama'a ya koya mini in kasance da kwarin gwiwa da kuma farin ciki. A gaskiya ina ji kamar na fita na yi abubuwan da ban taba yi ba saboda wannan." (Mai Alaka: Yadda Gudun Tsirara 5K Ya Taimaka Ni Rungumar Cellulite Dina da Alamomin Tsagewa)

Rachel tana son ƙungiyar ta haɗa nau'ikan mata daban -daban tare kuma tana ba su amintaccen sarari don su kasance da kansu. "Ba 'kungiyar mafi girma ba ce," in ji ta. “Mata a cikin rukunin suna zuwa da siffofi daban-daban da girma kuma suna koyon cewa jiki abu ne na halitta, ba ya buƙatar yin jima’i, sun koyi cewa mata ne. iya tafiya a kusa ba tare da saman ba kuma yana iya zama alamar ko su wanene. Ba ya buƙatar zama wani abu kuma."

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