Juya Babban Daren Dare Cikin Jima'i Mai Zafi

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Dangane da sakamakon binciken YourTango's Power of Tarction, 80% daga cikinku sun yi imani cewa "daren daren" shine sihirin sihirin da zai dawo da wutar dangantakar ku-hey, yadda kuka fara yaudare shi da farko!

Amma yayin da kwanan wata yawanci ke ba da tabbacin za ku sami abincin dare mai daɗi, abubuwa na iya samun mai ɗimbin yawa yayin da kuka zama babban kwano. Canja wurin kwanan dare zuwa sha'awar da ba za a manta da ita ba tare da waɗannan shawarwari masu ban sha'awa, tabbas za su juya duk wani tsohon abincin dare-da-fim zuwa cizon lebe, ɗaukar takarda, yatsan yatsa, jima'i mai zafi!

Kwanan wata Tukwici na Dare #1: Yi shiri

Shirya kanku don daren kwanan wata mai sexy yakamata ya fara da zaran kun farka da safe. Wasu shirye -shiryen rana mai sauƙi na iya tafiya mai tsawo, mai tsananin sexy daga baya a daren ranar.

Shirya tunanin ku. A cikin yini duka, Dr. Diana Kirshner, Masanin YourTango kuma marubucin littafin mafi kyawun littafi Kulla Yarjejeniyar: Jagorar Jagoran Ƙaunar zuwa Ƙauna Mai Dorewa, yana ba da shawarar ɗaukar lokaci don rufe idanunku kuma ku yi tunanin hasashen jima'i da kuka fi so. "Ka yi tunanin abokin tarayya a cikin wannan tunanin," in ji ta. "Hanya ce mai kyau don dumama kanku."

Shirya ɗakin kwana. Sanya kyandir a kusa da ɗakin wani yanayi ne na sexy-lokaci wanda babu fitilar Outfitters Urban da zata taɓa bugawa. Kowa ya dubi mafi kyawun su a cikin dumi, hasken soyayya. Sai ki sa man tausa ko man shafawa kusa da gadon domin samun saukin lallashinsa da tabawa. Kuma kar a manta da samun lube da kuka fi so, kwaroron roba ko "kayan wasa" a kusa! Domin, bari mu fuskanta, da zarar kun fara, ba za ku so ku daina ba.

Shirya jikin ku. Slip a kan wasu sexy lingerie ƙarƙashin tufafin ku. Zai zama ƙaramin sirrinku duk yini kuma zai taimaka wajen haɓaka farin ciki don babban bayyani daga baya a wannan daren. Kwararren Masanin YourTango Veronica Monet ya ba da shawarar dabaru guda biyu na cinikin uwargidan: babban diddige da turare. "Babban diddige suna jaddada gindi da maraƙi a cikin wani yanayi mai daɗi wanda ke haukata maza da sha'awa." Amma ku yi hankali kada ku rufe kanku a cikin gajimare na cologne, Madam Monet ta kara da cewa. "Ku yi amfani da mafi ƙarancin dab a wuyan hannu da bayan gwiwoyinku. Kada ku sanya turare a wuyanku, ƙirjinku ko al'aurarku - yana ɓoye mahimman pheromones waɗanda ke korar maza."

Shirya mutuminku. Don shirya kwanan ku don dare mai cike da sha'awa, kuna buƙatar abu ɗaya: wayar salula don zazzage shi da rubutu! Yi masa jima'i hoton rigar rigar kafin ka saka ko ma jakar da rigar ta fito. Ƙara zafi kaɗan ta hanyar aika masa da hoton ku a cikin yanayin jima'i da kuke son gwadawa daga baya a wannan daren tare da rubutu kamar "Duk abin da nake buƙata shine ku." Ka sa yana tunanin duk abubuwan datti da yake son yi maka daga baya. Gina wannan tashin hankali, yarinya!

Karanta don ƙarin nasihu don tafiya daga daren ranar zuwa jima'i mai zafi.

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