Mai gabatar da shirin TV Sara Haines ta bayyana dalilin da yasa take son mata suyi rayuwa a bayyane

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Idan kun kalli talabijin na rana a kowane lokaci a cikin shekaru 10 da suka gabata, akwai kyakkyawar dama kun riga kun kasance masu tawali'u tare da Sara Haines. Ta hade shi har tsawon shekaru hudu tare da Kathie Lee Gifford da Hoda Kotb Yau, sannan ya canza zuwa Good Morning America Edition Edition a cikin 2013 kafin ya zama abokin haɗin gwiwa akan The View a cikin 2016. A cikin shekarar da ta gabata, tana cin abinci tare da Michael Strahan don GMALokaci na uku.

Haines yana da babban aiki, miji mai ban tsoro, da yara ƙanana biyu (Alec, 3, da Sandra, 1), da ɗaya akan hanya. Amma maimakon yin hoton hoton rayuwa mai kyau, ta bayyana gaskiya da wahalar kiyaye ta tare.

Haines mai shekara 41 ta ce "Da gaske yana fitowa daga ciki," Ina amfani da dandamali na don ƙirƙirar tattaunawa da mata. " Abin da take nufi shi ne: Idan ta mallaki gidan talabijin na ƙasa don, ka ce, ta sha wahala sosai wajen shayar da ɗanta na farko, tana gaya wa wasu mata cewa babu kunya a cikin gwagwarmaya; ita ma ta samu karbuwa da ra'ayoyinsu. (Mai Dangantaka: Furucin da Matar nan take da Zuciya Akan Nono Shine #SoReal)

Ga waɗanda suka ce irin waɗannan al'amura sun fi kyau a ɓoye, Haines koyaushe yana ba da amsa, "Yana da sirri ne kawai idan muka ƙyale shi ya zama abin da muke jin kunya. Lokacin da muka fara rungumarsa, yana ba da ƙarfi."

Haines ya shafe shekaru a matsayin mai gudanar da ayyukan samar da kayayyaki Yau show, wani aiki da ta kira "m wani taron tsarawa ga TV." A lokacin wannan shimfidawa, ta girmama sana'arta ta yin wasan kwaikwayo da inganta darasi, kuma ta ɓaci wasan ƙwallon raga a wasannin lig.

"Aikina na rana, a lokacin, ba shine mafarki na ba," in ji ta. "Amma buga wasan volleyball ya cika wannan zuciyar. A koyaushe ina cewa: Idan ba ku sami sha'awar ku a cikin kuɗin ku ba, je ku nemo wani wuri."

Ko da a yanzu da Haines ta riga ta "isa", har yanzu tana nuna katunan ta kuma gayyaci wasu su yi hakan. A zahirin gaskiya, idan za ta fara wani yunkuri, ta ce zai kasance ne don karfafa wa mata gwiwar yin rayuwa a bayyane. (Mai Alaƙa: Jessie J Ya buɗe Game da Rashin Iya Haihuwa)

"Yawancin tafiye-tafiyenmu iri ɗaya ne," in ji ta. "Yayin da muke buɗewa da kuma yawan magana game da rayuwarmu, ƙananan mu kadai ne."

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