Sake Farin Ciki a cikin Rayuwar Jima'i tare da Wadannan Matsayin Jima'i 11

Wadatacce

• Idan kuna son mishan, kuna so:
• 45 digiri
• Kwanciya chilling baiwar Allah
• Aara abin wasa
• Idan kuna son salon kare, za ku so:
• Hawa mara hannu
• Katako mai laushi
• Cokali
• Idan kuna son yin jima'i a zaune, kuna iya son:
• Tura ta bango
• Shawa da jima'i
• Idan shigar farji mai zafi ne ko ba mai daɗi ba, kuna iya son:
• Gwada Ohnut
• Fara da yatsu kuma koyaushe amfani da lube
• Gwada gwadawa

Mun haɗa da kayayyakin da muke tsammanin suna da amfani ga masu karatu. Idan ka siya ta hanyoyin yanar gizo a wannan shafin, zamu iya samun ƙaramin kwamiti. Ga tsarinmu.

Waɗannan madadin matsayi wasa ne akan na gargajiya

Kai, mishan yana da kyau, amma yaushe ne karo na karshe da ka gwada sabon abu kuma kusan iri ɗaya ne? Lokaci ne na hunturu kamar yadda yake can, don haka wane lokaci mafi kyau don nutsewa cikin sabuwar duniya ta jin daɗi, cuddling tsirara.

Kamar yadda nishaɗi kamar yadda jima'i na farji zai iya zama - kuma ooh, zai iya zama daɗi - wani lokacin kuna son sauya shi daga tsofaffin matsayi. Don haka, mun sami wasu hanyoyi don duk wuraren da kuka fi so, da kuma abin da za mu gwada idan shigar azzakari ba kawai ya dace da ku ba.

Idan kuna son mishan, kuna so:

45 digiri

Masanin ilimin jima'i Dr. Janet Brito ne ya kawo mana, wannan matsayin yana da kyau don samun zurfin kutsawa yayin har yanzu yana kan daidai tabo kamar mishan. Hakanan yana ba da damar zaɓin ido na zaɓi. Jigon wannan matsayi shine samun kafafunku a kafaɗun abokin tarayyarku wanda ke ƙirƙirar kusurwa 45-degree.

Don shiga wannan matsayin, Brito ya ce:

1. Fara da kwanciya a bayanka ka sanya kanka a gefen gado.
2. Yayinda kake bakin gadon, sanya 'yan maruƙan ka digiri 45 daga fuskarka ka kwantar da su a kafaɗun abokin tarayyar ka. Sanya kirjinku.
3. Da zarar kun daidaita, sai ku kamo cinyoyinsu ku kawo su gaba kadan, don haka kirjinsu yana sama da nonuwanku, a kasan cinyarku.

Kwanciya chilling baiwar Allah

Wani Brito na musamman, wannan matsayi yana da ɗan rikitarwa. Fara farawa akan gadonku tare da aan matashin kai ƙarƙashin cinyoyinku. Kawo tushen ƙafafunku tare a cikin matsayi na malam buɗe ido. Abu na gaba, Brito ya bada shawarar lalataccen lube akan kintar ku.

"Bayan haka, sai abokiyar zamanka ta kwanta a samanka, a hankali ka ɗauki azzakarinsu ko dildo ka jujjuya azzakarinsu ko dildo a kusa da farjinka - a kan sharuɗɗanka da kuma saurin da kake yi - yin da'irar da ke zagaye-zagaye a kusa da kwancenku."

Ta bayyana, “Lokacin da kuka ji da misalin karfe 8 cikin 10, sai ku saki tafin ƙafafunku sannan ku nade ƙafafunku da ƙafafunsu, kuma ku girgiza duwawarku sama da ƙasa, yayin da jikin abokin aurenku yake motsawa tare da ku, yana tabbatar da cewa kun sami kwanciyar hankali kara kuzari kuke bukata. Idan abokiyar zamanka ta fi ka nauyi, ka juya baya kawai, sai ka hau gaba. Don ƙarin kwaikwayon, sanya matashin kai a ƙarƙashin ƙashin ƙugu. ”

Aara abin wasa

Idan kana so ka ci gaba da aikin injiniya na mishan amma kana son samun ƙarin abu kaɗan, gwada amfani da matashin kai na jima'i, kamar The Liberator.

Sanya dunƙular ƙarƙashin ƙashin ƙashinku tare da mafi girman gefen da ke fuskantar ƙafafunku don zurfafawa mai zurfi da ƙarin iya aiki.Hakanan za'a iya ƙara siɗin a kowane ɗayan matsayi na sama don ƙarin turawa.

Idan ba kwa son kashe ƙarin kuɗin don sayen sihiri, 'yan matattun matattun matattun matattun ƙarƙashin ƙashin ƙugu za su yi abin zamba.

Wani kyakkyawan abun wasa mai ratsa jiki shine Njoy wand. An yi shi da ƙarfe mai ƙarfi, wannan abin wasan yana da ɓangarori biyu - ɗayan ya fi ɗayan girma - kuma yana iya isa ga waɗancan wurare masu wahalar isa-wurin. Haɗa sandar Njoy tare da na baka don iyakar jin daɗi.

Idan kuna son salon kare, za ku so:

Hawa mara hannu

Wani matsayi na gargajiya ya juya kaɗan a kansa, wannan matsayin asalin salo ne na kare kare zaune.

Sa abokin zama ya zauna a gefen gadon sannan sannu a hankali ka ɗora kanka a saman su, kana fuskantar su.

Brito ta ba da shawara: “Sanya nau’ikan lube na silik a kan yatsan abokin tarayyar ka. Yayin da kake zamewa cikin su, ka shiryar da hannun su zuwa ga al'aurar ka, ka hau hannun su zuwa yadda kake so. Ma'ana: Saka hannunka akan nasu don nuna musu irin kewayen da kake son a yi maka azzakari - karami, matsakaici ko babba - ko kuma idan kana son motsawa sama da kasa, yayin da kake tunzura abin da kake so, ta hanyar amfani da kafafun ka su kasa ka.

Katako mai laushi

Matsayi mai kyau tare da kyakkyawan suna.

Sanya kanka kirji a saman ƙwallon motsa jiki ko matashin kai biyar. Na gaba, Brito ya ba da shawarar: “Buɗe ƙafafunku, kuna ɗan girgiza ƙashin ƙugu, yayin da suke durƙusawa kuma suna shirin shiga cikinku ta baya. Idan ka yanke shawarar amfani da kwallon motsa jiki, ka tabbata ka sanya matashin kai ko ka tsaya a gaban sa don gujewa birgima. ”

Kwallan ko matashin kai zai yi aiki a matsayin matashi, yana ba ka damar samun kyakkyawar shiga cikin jiki ba tare da daidaitawa ko riƙe kanka ba.

Cokali

A madadin madaidaiciya ga salon kare dangi, wannan matsayin abin birgewa ne ga mai hankali, mai saurin sha'awa. Ka sanya abokin zama ya nade jikinsa daga baya - babban cokali! - kuma sannu a hankali su shigar da kai ta baya. Ku zo da hannuwansu a hankali a kusa da jikinku ko zuwa ga ƙirjinku sannan kuma a hankali kuyi ta baya da baya har sai kun sami cikakkiyar yanayin.

Idan kuna son yin jima'i a zaune, kuna iya son:

Tura ta bango

Idan kana jin daɗin jin shigowar mutum daga ƙasan, to yi amfani da bangon ɗakin kwananka don amfanin ka.

Sa abokiyar zama ta dauke ki sama kuma ta nade kafafun ku a kugu yayin da suke shigar ku a hankali daga kasa. Tura baya da bango don ƙirƙirar ɗan tashin hankali kuma a hankali fara motsawa sama da ƙasa ko kewaye da da'ira.

Ga waɗanda ke da ƙarancin ƙarfin jiki, ana iya samun irin wannan yanayin a kan tebur ko kanti kuma a sanya abokin tarayya cikin ku yayin da kuke zaune a gefen.

Shawa da jima'i

Wannan kyakkyawan zaɓi ne don yaji kayan aikinku na safe - ko wataƙila don tsarkakakken lokacin jima'i. Ka sanya abokin zamanka ya tsaya a ƙarƙashin ruwa yayin da kake sanya ƙafa ɗaya a gefen bahon ka ko kuma a bangon ruwan wanka. Ka sa su shiga ka kuma daidaita saitin ƙafarka don iyakar kwanciyar hankali.

Yi gaba da gaba, yana barin ku duka don jin daɗin tururi da ruwan dumi. Idan kuna son jima'i na shawa, kuna so ku saka hannun jari a cikin matakala da ƙafafun kafa, kamar wannan kayan jima'i na shawa. Akwai mafi haɗarin faɗuwa a cikin shawa, wanda ke kawo sabon ma'ana ga kyakkyawan haɗarin jima'i.

Idan shigar farji mai zafi ne ko ba mai daɗi ba, kuna iya son:

Gwada Ohnut

Sabuwar bidi'a a duniyar ilimin jima'i, Ohnut yana taimaka wa waɗanda suka sami shigar azzakari cikin raɗaɗi. Emily Sauer, wanda ya kirkiro Ohnut, ya bayyana cewa, “An yi ado a waje a gindin wani abokiyar shiga (misali, mai dauke da azzakari ko abin wasa), Ohnut ya danne kasa don yin kamar abin ajiyewa. Kowane saiti ya zo da zobba 4 masu alaƙa wanda a hankali yake daidaita yadda zurfin jin daɗin abokan biyu. ”

Abin wasan ba kawai yana ba da damar ƙarin iko akan zurfin ba, yana kuma ɗaukar wasu ƙarfi, yana ba da izinin ratsa jiki.

Fara da yatsu kuma koyaushe amfani da lube

Idan shigar azzakari daga farji ko abin wasa na da zafi, to fara da yatsu. Yana da cikakkiyar ma'anar cewa jima'i jima'i ne kawai lokacin da azzakari ya shiga cikin farji.

Gwaji tare da yatsu yana da kyau saboda ba kawai za ku iya bincika mafi kusurwa ba, za ku iya ƙara yatsu ɗaya ɗaya lokaci ɗaya don neman cikakkiyar ɗamarar shigar ku.

Hakanan, kar a guje wa lube. Ba duk farji ke samar da isasshen mai na halitta ba - musamman idan kuna kan kwayoyin hana haihuwa ko sama da 40 - saboda haka kwata-kwata babu kunya a cikin amfani da lube.

A matsayinka na ƙa'ida, yi amfani da luba na siliki idan kuna wasa da azzakari da lube na ruwa idan kuna wasa da abin wasa.

Gwada gwadawa

Duk da yake yana iya zama abin ƙyama, idan shigar azzakari cikin farji ba shayin shayi ba ne, babu cutarwa a cikin gwada dubura - ƙila za ku ƙare da ƙaunarta.

Tabbatar amfani da ɗan luƙu kuma fara da yatsa ɗaya. Idan yatsun hannu suna da dadi kuma suna da daɗi, yana da kyau a fara kutsawa tare da azzakari ko abin wasa, matuƙar abin wasan yana da tushe - b-vibe yana da kyawawan zaɓuɓɓuka.

Yayin da kake bincika kusurwa daban-daban na shigar azzakari cikin farji, tuna don tabbatar da cewa kai da abokin tarayyar ku kuna samun kyakkyawan lokacin yarda. Tabbatar yin rajista tare da abokin tarayya bayan gwada sabbin matsayi don haka zaku iya yanke shawarar abubuwan da kuka fi so tare.

Kuma ka tuna, idan shigar azzakari cikin farji ba abu naka bane - haka ne, har yanzu jima'i ne idan kana yin sa ba tare da shigar azzakari cikin farji ba - rayuwar jima'i har yanzu tana aiki kwata-kwata. Abin farin ciki bincike!

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