Audio Erotica: Dalilin da Ya Sa Yawancin Mutane ke Sauraron Batsa

Wadatacce

• Lafiyar jima'i
• Saurara a
• Ji vs. gani
• Samun dama
• Awauki

Laura, mai ba da labarin "Hot Vinyasa 1," labarin da za ku iya saurara a kan dandalin Dipsea, ana iya ba da labarin sa sosai. Tana da damuwa ta hanyar aiki, mai san-da kai game da makara zuwa ajin yoga, kuma sabon malamin ta, Mark, wanda ya gina kamar Hemsworth kuma ya tsananta game da gyaran hannu.

Shin yana samun wannan kusa da kowa? " Laura ta yi mamaki, ta ji kunya.

Kafin labarin na mintina 15 ya ƙare, dusar ƙanƙara ta sami Laura da Mark su kaɗai a cikin ɗakunan fitilun kyandir. Ba abin mamaki ba, tufafin yoga masu gumi sun zo hanya gaban Shavasana.

Kana son jin karin bayani? Kuna cikin sa'a Akwai ƙari da yawa inda "Hot Vinyasa" ta fito. Muna cikin sake wayewa na batsa na sauti, tare da yalwar labaran sauti na batsa, da kuma maganganun da ake magana game da erotica, da aka bayyana fina-finan jima'i, da kwasfan fayiloli na NSFW.

Batsa na gargajiya ba ya raguwa cikin shahara - ba ma kusa ba. Shekarar da ta gabata, yawan ziyartar batsa juggernaut Pornhub ya kai biliyan 33.5. Amma mutane suna samun jin daɗi ta hanyar zaɓuɓɓuka marasa ganuwa waɗanda da gangan suka bar abubuwa da yawa ga tunanin.

Lafiyar jima'i

Dipsea wata mata ce da aka kafa ta labarin mata wacce take dauke da “labaran batsa na sauti wadanda suke sanya yanayi da haifarda tunanin ka,” a cewar shafin su.

Tsarin dandalin yana ba da nasihu don samun fa'ida daga kwarewar sauraren batsa: Shirya wani mnage a moi. Tunanin hankali pregame kwanan wata. Juya wasan gaba cikin sa'a mai farin ciki. Ga Gina Gutierrez, co-kafa da kuma Shugaba na Dipsea, wannan duka game da haɓaka "lafiyar jima'i."

“Lafiyar jima'i ya haɗa da jin daɗin shiga cikin jikinki, da kuma iya samun kyakkyawar kusanci da kai da kuma abokan tarayya. Kuma hakan na nufin samun kwanciyar hankali don bincika da bayyana buƙatu da sha'awar mutum, "Gutierrez ya bayyana.

Manufar Dipsea ita ce bayar da gajeren abun ciki wanda zai iya taimakawa masu amfani don haɓaka ƙawance tare da abokan hulɗarsu, buɗe ƙarin kwarin gwiwa da haɓaka walwala.

"Jima'i da jin daɗin kai suma hanyoyi ne don buɗe zurfin jin rai da kuzari, wanda ya dace da ayyuka kamar tunani ko motsa jiki." Wataƙila wannan yana bayyana dalilin da yasa jerin "Hot Vinyasa" - ee, akwai fiye da labari ɗaya - sune mashahuri na Dipsea.

Saurara a

Rashin shigar da abubuwan gani yana iya bayar da kwakwalwar da za ta yi, in ji Carol Queen, Good Vibrations ma’aikatan ilimin jima’i ce kuma marubuciya ta “Littafin Jima’i da Jin Dadi: Kyakkyawar Rawar Girgiza ga Babban Jima’i ga Kowa.

"Ba wai kawai ba mu ba da amsa ba ne ga abubuwan da ba su faranta mana rai ba, an ba mu filin kyauta don tunanin haruffa da shigar da kanmu cikin lamarin ta hanyoyi daban-daban," in ji ta.

Wasu mutane suna fuskantar wani abin mamaki da ake kira (ASMR), wanda sauti kamar raɗa, slurping, tapping, da kuma taunawa suna haifar da ƙwanƙwasawa, rawar jiki fatar kan mutum wanda aka bayyana a matsayin "ƙwaƙwalwar-gasm."

Bidiyon ASMR na taimaka wa wasu mutane shakatawa, damuwa, ko yin barci. Nazarin hoton kwakwalwa yana nuna cewa mai yiwuwa ne saboda yana haskaka yankuna masu alaƙa da wayewar kai da haɗin kai na zamantakewa.

Akwai kuma batsa na ASMR, wanda ke haɗa abubuwan motsa sauti tare da sauti ko bidiyo na ayyukan jima'i. Kodayake, ba lallai bane juyawa ga kowa. Ga wasu, sautunan ASMR suna haifar da damuwa da damuwa. Wasu kawai sun fi son jima'i da, da kyau, sauti kamar jima'i.

Brianne McGuire ita ce wadda ta kirkiro da Sadarwar Sadarwa ta Jima'i, inda ake gayyatar masu sauraro da su saurari yanayi daban-daban kamar jima'i na baki, mamaya, da kuma al'ada. Sauran labaran suna nuna mutane suna magana da gaskiya game da rayuwar jima'i.

Mafi mashahuri shine hira da maza biyu da mace a cikin dangantakar haɗin kai wanda ya haɗa da ɗaurin igiya.

Duk da cewa sun fito ne daga "dukkan bangarorin rayuwa," magoya bayan McGuire suna jin daɗin sauraro saboda wannan dalili - mai da hankali, yanayin rikodin. "Wasu sun bayyana shi a matsayin 'jima'i na mutum ta waya' ko kuma kamar ana ɓoye shi a cikin ɗakin kwanan wani," in ji McGuire.

"Ina so in canza tattaunawar da ake yi game da jima'i," in ji ta. "Duk da damarmu ta kafofin yada labarai na jima'i, har yanzu mutane da yawa suna jin kunya, da tsoro, da jinkirin yin magana game da sha'awar su, iyakokin su, da abubuwan da suka samu."

Ji vs. gani

"Akwai shaidar da ke nuna cewa mutane sun fi saurin tarawa ta hanyar karin karfi," in ji Nicole Prause, PhD, masaniyar jijiyoyin jijiyoyi a Los Angeles wacce ke binciken halayyar jima'i ta mutum. "Misali, audio erotica [na iya zama mai tsokanarwa fiye da tunanin jima'i kadai, kuma finafinan batsa sun fi burgewa fiye da erotica na sauti."

Muradin Dipsea na son ba da labarin tatsuniyoyin sha'awa wanda Cibiyar Kinsey ta yi wanda ya nuna cewa mata suna amfani da "ƙirar hankali" - aka seen conjuring ko fantasizing - don a kunna.

Batsa na gargajiya, koda lokacin kyauta kuma akwai 24/7, kawai baya yi wa kowa.

Caroline Spiegel, kanwar ‘yar shekaru 22 ga shugaban kamfanin Snapchat Evan Spiegel, a kwanan nan ta bude wani shafin yanar gizo na batsa ba tare da gani ba mai suna Quinn.

A cikin hira da TechCrunch, Spiegel ta bayyana gwagwarmaya da lalatawar jima'i saboda matsalar cin abinci da kuma imanin ta cewa batsa tana ƙara tasirin hoto na jiki. Ba ita kadai ba ne cikin jin an ware maimakon kunna ta.

"Na ji daga mata da yawa cewa nau'ikan jikin batsa suna sanya su cikin bege cewa kowa zai taba tunanin cewa yana da jima'i," in ji Sarauniya. “Suna jin maza suna kwatanta su da taurarin batsa. Akwai kuma wasu matan da ba za su iya tunanin matan da ke kan fuska suna daɗi sosai ba. "

Sauran koke-koke na yau da kullun da Sarauniya ta ji basu da haske, baƙaƙen rubutu, rubutattun hanyoyin kula da lafiyar mata, ɗaukar hoto mai saurin ban sha'awa. Kuma shin za mu iya dakatar da shi tare da bayarwar isar da Pizza Guy, tuni?

Kawai a cikin tunaninmu, ga alama, mu ne ainihin masanan yankinmu. Kuma tare da batsa mai jiwuwa, za mu iya ƙirƙirar namu abubuwan da suka dace da abubuwan da muke so da dandanonmu, komai irin banbancinmu.

Samun dama

Ga waɗansu, batsa ba ta batsa ba game da fifiko ba ne - yana da damar samun dama.

A cikin 2016, Pornhub ya ƙaddamar da "Tsararren Bidiyo" wanda ke ba da kwatancin sauti na aikin allo don mutanen da ke da matsalar hangen nesa. Har ila yau, akwai "Yanayin Rashin Lafiya" tare da faɗaɗa rubutu, bambancin launi na musamman, da gajerun hanyoyin keyboard.

"Samun dama wani abu ne da muka fi maida hankali a kai," in ji Corey Price, mataimakin shugaban kamfanin na Pornhub. “Muna son mutane su iya kewaya dandamalinmu ba fasawa kuma su dandana nishaɗin manya a duk ɗaukakarsa. A koyaushe muna neman hanyoyin da za mu sanya accessible sauƙaƙe ga kowa. ”

Dubawa a cikin waɗannan rukunan ya wuce tsammanin.

Price ya ce "Yanzu mun sami damar daukar kanmu zuwa kusan mutane biliyan 1.3 a duk duniya wadanda ke rayuwa tare da wata nakasa ta rashin gani."

Awauki

Fantasy wani yanki ne na dabi'a na lalata da sha'awa, Sarauniya ta ce. "Yawancin masu ba da ilimin jima'i suna samun kuɗin su don ƙarfafa kwastomomi don yin riya ko aiki tare da abin kunyar da za a iya haɗe da wannan da sauran abubuwan jima'i."

Zai iya zama mai arha, banda ambaton mafi daɗi, don sauraron wani abu da zai kunna ku.

Har ila yau, akwai burbushin sirri na iya jin daɗin sauti na kashin kai a ɓoye yayin jama'a, McGuire ya nuna. "Wanene zai yi zargin [cewa] yana zuwa ta kunnen kwastomomi ko sitiriyo a cikin motar wani makale a cikin zirga-zirga?"

Stephanie Booth marubuciya ce da ke zaune a Portland, Oregon, wanda labarunta suka bayyana a fannoni kamar Real Simple, O, Psychology Today, The Washington Post, da Salon. Lokacin da ba ta rubutu ba, ta fi son yin yawo ko a yoga, amma shan kofi yana da kyau, kuma.