Menene Scissoring? Abubuwa 12 da yakamata ku sani Game da Matsayin Jima'i

Wadatacce

• 1. Yin aski ba kawai ga 'yan madigo ko mutanen da ke da farji ba.
• 2. Scissoring na iya jin daɗi sosai.
• 3. Lube na iya sa yanayin jima'i almakashi ya ji daɗi sosai.
• 4. Zaku iya yin almakashi da sutura.
• 5. Scissoing shine ainihin motsa jiki.
• 6. Yana da kyau a miƙa kafin matsayin jima'i na almakashi.
• 7. Kewaye (da matashin kai) abokanka ne yayin almakashi.
• 8. Zaka iya ƙara vibrator zuwa wurin jima'i almakashi.
• 9. Hakanan zaka iya gwada abin wasa na ciki.
• 10. Ƙara wani abu mai banƙyama ga jima'i na almakashi.
• 11. Ana iya watsa cutar ta STI da juna biyu yayin almakashi.
• 12. Scissoring kawai bazai yi muku aiki ba.
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Menene aljihun tebur ɗinku da ɗakin kwanciya suke da alaƙa? Almakashi. Da kyau, yakamata ɗayan ya sami almakashi da kuke amfani da shi don yanke (✂️), ɗayan kuma yakamata ya sami matsayin jima'i mai ban sha'awa wanda kuke amfani dashi don jin daɗi (✂️ ✂️ 😈).

Duk da yake kuna iya daidaita almakashi tare da aikin vulva-on-vulva, hakika yana da nisa mafi fa'ida da matsayi na jima'i fiye da na yau da kullun na batsa (nushi) na iya yi muku imani. "Scissoring jima'i duk wani jima'i jima'i da ya shafi al'aura-on-al'aura shafa ko nika," in ji ƙwararriyar jin daɗin jiki Carly S., wanda ya kafa Dildo ko Dildon't.

Matsayin ya sami sunansa saboda yawanci yakan shafi mutane biyu suna yada kafafunsu, "kamar nau'i-nau'i na buɗaɗɗen almakashi, sa'an nan kuma haɗuwa a tsakiya," in ji Sarah Sloane, mai koyar da jima'i kuma kocin a Good Vibrations and Pleasure Chest. Ana iya cika shi ta hanyar abokan tarayya biyu suna kwance a bayansu ko gefensu, ko kuma tare da ɗaya abokin tarayya yana ɗaure ɗayan.

Amma wannan shine farkon. Karanta don duk abin da kuke buƙatar sani game da scissoring da yadda ake almakashi tare da kowane haɗin al'aura.

1. Yin aski ba kawai ga 'yan madigo ko mutanen da ke da farji ba.

Sloane ta ce: "A tarihi, yin almubazzaranci wani abu ne na jima'i wanda ya haɗa da masu ɓarna guda biyu suna matsa al'aurarsu. Mahimmin kalma anan: a tarihi! A kwanakin nan, abin da ya cancanta a matsayin abin raɗaɗi ya faɗaɗa don haɗawa da duk wata hulɗar al'aurar mace, in ji Carly S.

Godiya ga rukunin PornHub scissoring yana da suna a matsayin "Dokar Jima'i," amma wannan ƙarya ne. "Scissoring ba shine madigo aikin jima'i, "Sloane ya yarda. Na ɗaya, ba duk wanda ke gwadawa ko son abin ƙyama ba ke bayyana shi a matsayin ɗan madigo. Tsarin jima'i, bayan haka, an ƙaddara shi ne ta keɓancewar mutum, ba ta irin abubuwan da kuka fi so ba. Na biyu, akwai 'yan madigo da yawa da suke yin hakan. kada ku aikata matsayin jima'i na almakashi, kuma wannan gaskiyar ba ta sa su zama 'yan madigo ba.

2. Scissoring na iya jin daɗi sosai.

Sloane ya ce "Masu Vulva suna da nama mai yawa a ƙarƙashin lebba (ciki har da ƙwanƙwasa), waɗanda za a iya motsa su ta hanyar motsa jiki na waje," in ji Sloane. ICYDK, ƙwanƙwaran ku ya fi wannan ɗan ƙaramin nub ɗin da ke saman lebban ku; babban tsattsauran ra'ayi na shimfiɗa a ƙarƙashin labia a kowane gefen farjin ku, don haka yana motsa wannan yanki gaba ɗaya (wanda abin ƙyama yana aikatawa) na iya jin ban mamaki sosai kuma yana ƙara haɗarin ku. Gaskiyar nishaɗi: Yawancin ƙusoshin masu ƙulli za su mamaye kuma labban su za su yi nauyi da ƙima (eh, yana da wahala sosai) yayin ƙoshin godiya ga duk jinin da ke hanzarta zuwa yankin gaba ɗaya da kuma cika abin da ke cikin tsintsiyar. martani ga kunnawa, in ji Sloane.

Wani abu mai daɗi game da almakashi shine cewa tsokoki na ɓangarorin ku suna kunna kai tsaye lokacin da kuke motsa ƙashin ƙugu a cikin motsin motsi akan abokin tarayya, in ji ta. (Yep, niƙa yana kama da yin ƙananan ƙananan ƙwanƙwasa a cikin Pilates!). Domin inzali da gaske jerin naƙasar ƙashin ƙashin ƙugu ne, ta ce za ku iya lura da cewa inzali. zo cikin sauri a lokacin wannan matsayi a sakamakon.

Game da masu azzakari? Carly S. Inherently, wannan zai ji daɗi, in ji ta . (Dubi: Hot Take: nika shi ne mafi Underrated Sex dokar)

3. Lube na iya sa yanayin jima'i almakashi ya ji daɗi sosai.

Duk da cewa al'aura a dabi'ance suna fitar da man shafawa sosai yayin jima'i, musamman al'aurar ku (wato canal na ciki) ne ke samar da mai mai, ba farji ba (bangaren al'aurar mata). Domin farjin ku shine abin da ke fuskantar mafi yawan gogayya yayin almakashi, wannan na iya haifar da chaffing (ouch).

Sauki mai sauƙi: "Ƙara ɗan man shafawa da aka siyo a cikin farji zai iya taimakawa ƙara yawan jin daɗi, da kuma taimakawa al'aura su hau kan juna cikin sauƙi," in ji Sloane.

4. Zaku iya yin almakashi da sutura.

Sloane ya ce "Scissoring na iya zama mai tsanani tare da tufafi a kan," in ji Sloane. "Kuna iya samun abokin tarayya ɗaya ya bar jeans ɗin su don abokin tarayya na biyu ya sami ƙarin gogayya." Ko kuma ku duka biyu ku ajiye rigar ku a cikin motsi mai bushewa.

5. Scissoing shine ainihin motsa jiki.

Dangane da kashe kuzarin kuzari da ƙarfin da ake buƙata da ƙarfin gwiwa, scissoring yana nan tare da Rider On Top (wanda zaku iya sani da cowgirl). Da zarar kun shiga wurin farawa, za ku so ku motsa al'aurarku sama da ƙasa a kan juna don tada hankalin ku, in ji Sloane. Wannan motsi yana kiran glutes, core, quads, da hamstrings babban lokaci.

Idan kun gaji da tsakar dare, tambayi abokin tarayya don canza wanda ke yin mafi yawan aikin, in ji Carly S. (Yawanci wanda ke saman yana yin aiki fiye da wanda ke kasa). "Hakanan zaka iya canzawa zuwa aikin jima'i daban," in ji ta. Kuna iya, alal misali, ɗaukar numfashi yayin zina da jima'i ko al'aura tsakanin juna, sannan ku koma yin abin ƙyama da zarar kun huta.

6. Yana da kyau a miƙa kafin matsayin jima'i na almakashi.

A wannan bayanin, kamar yadda ba za ku yi tsalle cikin motsa jiki ba tare da fara dumama ba, bai kamata ku yi tsalle cikin almakashi ba tare da fara dumama ba. "Mikewa kwatangwalo kafin lokaci na iya taimakawa wajen sanya wuri ya zama mai dadi," in ji Carly S. Runner huhu, kwararar ruwa, adadi na 4, da 90/90 shimfidawa za su yi dabara. (Hakanan kuna iya ɗaukar ajin yoga mai buɗe gwiwa tare.)

Har ila yau, H2O yana taka muhimmiyar rawa wajen taimakawa tsokoki suyi aiki. Yayin da tsakiyar tsakiyar romb ɗin shine ainihin NBD-kawai ku fita daga matsayi ku girgiza shi-idan zaku iya guje musu da 'yan gulma, ku ma. (A matsayin kari, farawa da ruwa mai kyau zai iya ƙara ƙarfin ku don yin mai.)

7. Kewaye (da matashin kai) abokanka ne yayin almakashi.

"Kada ku ji tsoron yin amfani da abubuwan da ke kewaye da ku don taimaka muku sanya jikinku," in ji Carly S. Kuna da allon kai? Rataye shi. Saukowa akan kujera? Yi amfani da shimfiɗa a baya ko makamai don haɓakawa. Kwanciya ya cika da matashin kai? Dogara a kansu.

A gaskiya ma, mai ilimin jima'i Marla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert don Lovers alamar lafiyar lafiyar manya da dillali sun ba da shawarar saka hannun jari a matashin matsayi kamar Liberator Wedge (Saya, $ 110, lovehoney.com). " Sanya ma'auni a ƙarƙashin gindin ku na iya taimakawa wajen tabbatar da samun sauƙin shiga al'aurar ku," in ji ta.

8. Zaka iya ƙara vibrator zuwa wurin jima'i almakashi.

Uhh, wane matsayin jima'i ba a inganta shi ta hanyar ƙari na ƙima ?? (Ambato: Babu). "Ƙara wasu girgiza tsakanin jikinku biyu don ƙarin jin daɗi," in ji Stewart.Ta ba da shawarar haɗa We-Vibe Chorus (Sayi shi, $ 200, lovehoney.com) wanda shine mawaƙa ma'aurata masu sawa wanda ke ba abokin tarayya damar samun motsawar ciki da waje, ɗayan kuma don samun kuzarin waje. (Dubi Ƙari: Ma'auratan Hankali na Duk Haɗin Gender, Kuna Bukatar We-Vibe Chorus)

Wani zaɓi shine mai girgiza dabino kamar Romp Wave (Saya shi, $ 30, amazon.com), Le Wand Point (Saya shi, $ 130, babeland.com), ko Dame Pom (Saya shi, $ 100, babeland.com). An tsara shi ta hanyar ergonomically don lanƙwasawa cikin farji, Sloane yana ba da shawarar a ɗaga alamar buzzing-a-long tsakanin jikin ku, "sannan girgiza don ku duka ku ɗanɗana jin abin."

9. Hakanan zaka iya gwada abin wasa na ciki.

Yiwuwar wasan wasan jima'i a nan tabbas ba'a iyakance ga masu jijjiga ba. Sloane ya ce "Duk abin da ke cikin yankin ƙashin ƙugu yana da alaƙa, don haka cika farjin ku ko dubura da abin wasa mai girgiza kai kamar bututun butt ko ƙyallen farji na iya haɓaka jin daɗi ko'ina," in ji Sloane. Ta ba da shawarar zaɓin sigar nauyi na waɗannan kayan wasa, kamar b-vibe Snug Plug 1 (Sayi shi, $ 48, babeland.com) ko Lelo Beads Noir Kegel Bukukuwa (Sayi shi, $ 50, babeland.com) saboda tare da kowane turawa , nauyi zai canza, yana ƙarfafa jijiyoyi tare da canal ɗin ku na ciki. "Abin farin ciki ne," in ji Carly S.

10. Ƙara wani abu mai banƙyama ga jima'i na almakashi.

Maɓalli mai ma'ana: Idan kai ko abokin aikinka (s) kuna da ƙashi ko ɓullowa ƙashin ƙugu ko ƙashin ƙugu, ƙyalli na iya zama "ouch" fiye da "oh!" Carly S. Pass ya ce: "Lokaci daya bayan da aka yi wa wani mutum rauni, yankin pelvic na ya lalace daga duk wani nika da kashi."

Ta ba da shawarar sanya jikin ku da wani abu kamar Pelle Whim Silicone Grinding Toy (Saya shi, $98, feelpelle.com) ko Trojan Tantrix Masturbation Sleeve (Sayi shi, $6, amazon.com). "Hakanan zaka iya rufe kan mai girgiza wand tare da ƙwai Tenga (Sayi shi, $ 9, babeland.com), wanda ke ba ku damar kushe jikinku yayin jin daɗin girgiza."

11. Ana iya watsa cutar ta STI da juna biyu yayin almakashi.

Sloane ta ce: "Yin almakashi ƙaramin aiki ne na jima'i, amma ba aikin jima'i bane mai haɗari." Dukansu STIs suna yaduwa ta hanyar fata-da-fata kuma ana iya yada STIs ta ruwayen jiki yayin matsayi, in ji ta. (Dubi: Yadda Ake Yin Jima'i Mai Kyau A Duk Lokaci)

Idan baku san matsayin ku na STI na yanzu ba, ko kuma ɗayanku a halin yanzu yana da STI, zaku iya rage haɗarin watsawa ta amfani da kariya, in ji Sloane. Idan azzakari ya shiga, wannan yana nufin kwaroron roba na ciki ko na waje, yayin da masu vulva biyu ke nufin dam ɗin hakori. (Mai Alaƙa: Bari Mu Samu Wasu Abubuwa Kai Tsaye Game da Dam Dam)

Hakanan zaka iya ajiye wando ko wando. "[Ba su] ba ruwa-hujja ba amma saka sutura zai rage haɗarin," in ji ta. "Wani zabin shine a je wurin nika-kan-hip maimakon al'aura-kan-girma."

Shin karkatar da ku kan almakashi ya haɗa da azzakarin da ke shiga cikin farji? Idan haka ne, ciki yana iya yiwuwa. Ɗauki matakan da suka dace idan ƙirƙirar ƙaramin ɗan adam ba sakamakon da aka shirya maka ba. (Mai dangantaka: Yadda ake nemo mafi kyawun kulawar haihuwa)

12. Scissoring kawai bazai yi muku aiki ba.

"A cikin gwaninta da bincike na, mutane da yawa ba su da sha'awar almakashi," in ji Stewart. Mutanen da ba a fallasa su ba, fuskokin da ke fuskantar baya-ma'ana, al'aurar su ta fi karkata zuwa bayan jiki-musamman, ba sa jin daɗin matsayin jinsi. Geometry na zargi: kusurwa ta sa ya zama mafi dabara don tayar da su daga matsayin jima'i na al'ada. (Don ƙarin fahimtar kusurwoyin vulva daban-daban, ɗauki ɗan lokaci don bincika Babban bangon Farji.)

Carly S. ya yarda cewa yin alƙawarin ba koyaushe yake yiwuwa ko jin daɗi ba. motsi, ƙarfi, da siffar jiki kuma na iya yin tasiri ko mai neman jin daɗi fan ne ko a'a.

"Ni mai ba da shawara ne don gwada abubuwa aƙalla sau uku," in ji Stewart. "Idan bayan wannan har yanzu ba ku ji daɗin matsayin ba, ƙila ku buƙaci ku sasanta cewa ba abinku bane kuma hakan yayi daidai. Akwai sauran zaɓuɓɓuka da yawa, gami da shafa al'aurar ku akan cinyar abokin aikin ku, murɗa sassa daban daban na su jiki, da dai sauransu. "

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