Yadda Gudun Taimaka Kaylin Whitney ta rungumi Jima'i

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Gudun koyaushe ya kasance abin so ga Kaylin Whitney. 'Yar wasan mai shekaru 20 tana karya tarihin duniya tun tana' yar shekara 14 a cikin wasannin matasa na mita 100 da 200. A 17, ta ba da cancantar makarantar sakandare (da NCAA) don juyawa pro, ta lashe lambobin zinare biyu a Wasannin Pan Am, kuma a halin yanzu tana hanzarta zuwa mafarkin ta na fafatawa a gasar Olympics.

Tabbas, tana gaske kyau a wasanni. Amma Whitney ita ma ta yaba da gudu tare da ba ta kwarin gwiwar zama kanta-koda hakan yana nufin ficewa daga taron.

"Tun ina ƙarami, koyaushe ina da ƙwazo, amma waƙa ita ce wasan farko da na taɓa yin gasa. Tun daga lokacin na kasance kusa da zuciyata domin ko da menene ke faruwa a rayuwata, ko a cikin raina, yin gudu koyaushe a can, ”in ji Whitney Siffar (Mai alaƙa: Yadda Gudu Ya Taimaka Ni Na shawo kan Ciwon Cikina)

Whitney ta san tun tana yarinya cewa yanayin jima'inta ya bambanta da abokanta a ƙaramin garinta na Florida Claremont, in ji ta. Ta san tun da wuri cewa ba ta son "ɓata kuzarin ta kasancewa abin da ba ta ba," don haka ta fito zuwa dangin ta tun tana ƙuruciya, in ji ta. Ta ce "Duk da cewa abin ya kasance abin tausayawa da firgici, na san iyalina da abokaina za su ƙaunace ni komai komai, don haka ba ni da wani abin da zan iya faɗi game da shawarar da na yi don in fito da ƙuruciya," in ji ta. (Mai alaƙa: Yadda Kayayyakin da kukafi so suke bikin Alfahari a wannan shekara)

Wannan ba shine a ce abubuwa koyaushe suna tafiya cikin sauƙi ga Whitney ba. Akwai lokutan da ta yi gwagwarmaya kuma ta ji ita kaɗai-amma a nan ne gudu ya shigo. "Wannan haɗin gwiwa ne ya haɗa ni da duniya," in ji ta. "Ya zama kanti na. Wuri ɗaya ne na san zan iya zama Kaylin dari bisa ɗari kuma babu wanda zai ce komai game da hakan. Duk lokacin da na hau kan hanya, na san ina ba shi komai na, kamar kowa kuma-kuma zan iya yin wancan lokaci da lokaci kuma. " (Mai Dangantaka: Yadda Ake Ƙarfafa Amana A Cikin Matakai 5 Masu Sauki)

Yarda da goyan bayan da ta samu ta hanyar waƙa da fagen fama sun taimaka wa Whitney ta gane cewa babu wani bambanci da zai iya shafar girman kanta ko rage ta. "A cikin kwarewata, kasancewa LGBTQ a cikin wasanni kamar kowane abu ne," in ji ta. "Kuma kawai zan iya ganin yana samun ingantuwa nan gaba." (Mai Alaƙa: Wasu Breweries suna Bikin Watan Alfahari Tare da Giya mai ƙyalli)

Don raba gogewarta da duniya, Whitney ta yanke shawarar yin bikin Watan Alfahari ta wata hanya ta musamman. 'Yar wasan da ke tallafawa Nike- da Red Bull ta yanke shawarar bi ta Rainbow Tunnel a Birmingham, Alabama-wani abu da ke da mahimmanci a gare ta ba wai kawai yana da wanda ke da alaƙa da jama'ar LGBTQ ba har ma a matsayin wanda ya gauraya launin fata, in ji ta. "Na yi tunanin wuri ne mai ban mamaki da zan kasance a wannan watan," in ji ta. "Hanya ce ta ba da girmamawa ga mutanen da suka yi fafutuka don ci gaba da fafutukar neman daidaito."

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Duk da kasancewarta 'yar shekara 20 kawai, tabbas Whitney wani ne da za ta yaba da shi idan aka zo batun mallakar ta da kuma rashin sanin yakamata. Ga waɗanda za su yi fafutukar yin irin wannan, ta ce: "Dole ne kawai ku zama kanku. A ƙarshen rana, rayuwar ku ce kuma dole ne ku yi duk abin da ya sa ku farin ciki. Idan kun dogara da sauran mutane. ra'ayi ko tunanin ku, ba za ku taba gamsuwa ba."

Ta kara da cewa: "Lokacin da ka fara yi maka rayuwa da kuma yin abubuwan da za su faranta maka rai, a lokacin ne ka fara rayuwa da gaske." Ba za mu iya ƙara yarda ba.

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