Kwakwalwar Namiji: Kishi

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"Naji dadi da ita." Waɗannan kalaman Oscar Pistorius ne ya yi amfani da su a kotu wajen bayyana irin shakuwar da ya yi wa budurwarsa, Reeva Steenkamp, ​​wadda ya harbe har lahira a bara. Ko ba ku yarda da labarin Blade Runner ko a'a ba game da kuskuren ƙaunataccensa ga ɗan fashi, ya yarda yana jin kishi da mallake ta.

Tabbas, yawancin maza suna gudanar da tsare kishi. Amma yawa kada. A zahiri, kusan dukkan maza suna fuskantar irin wannan rashin son Pistorius ya yarda da rantsuwa. "Laifi na sha'awa yawanci maza ne ke aikatawa," in ji Helen Fisher, Ph.D., masanin ilimin halittu kuma marubucin littafin. Dalilin da yasa muke son: Yanayi da Chemistry na Soyayyar Soyayya. Maza kuma sun ninka mata sau biyu da rabi su kashe kansu, in ji Fisher, ya kara da cewa, a tausaya, maza galibi sun fi rauni kuma sun fi saurin jujjuyawa tsakanin jinsi biyu idan ana batun alaƙa (aƙalla a farkon matakan).

Duk da cewa babu ilimin kimiyya mai yawa akan ilimin kimiyyar kishi, ga yadda zai iya rikitar da kwakwalwar mutum idan ya gina kuma ya gina.

Rana ta 1: Makon Farko na Alakar

Nazarin ya nuna jima'i (ko kawai yiwuwar jima'i) yana haifar da sakin testosterone, wanda kuma aka sani da hormone na sha'awa. Testosterone ya mamaye yankin hypothalamus na kwakwalwar mutumin ku kuma yana motsa sha'awar haifuwa. Abin takaici, T kuma yana haɓaka tashin hankali da mallakarsa don tsoratar da wasu masu neman aure, in ji Fisher. Don haka wannan ya bayyana dalilin da yasa zai iya yin fada da abokan ku maza kuma ya kalli duk wani saurayi a cikin ƙafa 20 na ku. Wani abin da ke haifar da wannan tashin hankali na farko yana da alaƙa da hauhawar matakan vasopressin na hormone, wanda wasu nazarin dabbobi ke da alaƙa da haɓaka yanayin ƙasa tsakanin maza masu neman aure, in ji Fisher.

Ranar 27: Makon Hudu na Hulda

Matsayin T na mutumin ku har yanzu yana da girma. Kuma yanzu da kuke kulla dangantakar soyayya ta kud da kud, Fisher ya ce yana iya fuskantar sinadarai na kwakwalwar euphoric kamar dopamine (wanda ke aika matakan kuzarinsa da mai da hankali ta cikin rufin) da norepinephrine (wanda ke ba da karfin zuciya). Haɗe da kishi, waɗannan hormones na iya haifar da halin ɗabi'a, Fisher hypothesizes. Babban matakan norepinephrine na iya rage yawan ci idan yana jin kishi.Ainihin, shi “miyan” ne na waɗannan sinadarai na kwakwalwa daban-daban, waɗanda za su iya sa shi ya zama inuwar da ba za a iya faɗi ba ta yadda ya saba, in ji Fisher.

Rana ta 85: Wata na Uku na Dangantakar, da Bayansa

Kodayake akwai karancin bincike kan illar kishi na tsawon lokaci a kwakwalwa, Fisher ta ce ba za ta yi mamaki ba idan tsawaita takunkumi ta yi tasiri irin na danniya a jikin da tunanin mutum. Testosterone abu ne mai caustic, in ji ta, kuma a ƙarshe zai iya haifar da sakin hormones na damuwa kamar cortisol, wanda aka danganta da hauhawar nauyi, bacin rai, da sauran raunin rashin lafiya. Testosterone da cortisol suma suna iya hana sakin serotonin hormone mai tsara bacci, bincike daga Jami'ar Pisa a Italiya ya nuna. A sakamakon haka, mutuminku baya yin barci mai ƙarfi da dare, wanda zai iya haifar da hargitsi na tunani. Matsayi mai ɗimbin yawa na waɗannan homonin na iya lalata tsarin garkuwar jikin sa, yana ɗaga matakan kumburin sa, in ji Fisher. Hakan na iya sanya shi yin rashin lafiya, kamar yadda bincike ya nuna.

A saman wannan duka, wasu bincike na baya -bayan nan daga Isra’ila sun danganta oxytocin zuwa mummunan motsin rai kamar ƙiyayya. Ana kiran Oxytocin "hormone na soyayya" saboda yana karuwa yayin sabbin hanyoyin haɗin gwiwa tsakanin masoya. Amma yana iya tayar da martani na tunanin kowane nau'i-mai kyau ko mara kyau-wanda zai iya taimakawa wajen bayyana halin ɗaci game da ku, in ji marubutan binciken.

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