Meghan Trainor yayi Magana da Hankali game da Ra'ayin Rai da Ciwon Jiki Mai Wuyar Ciki da Haihuwa

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Sabuwar waƙar Meghan Trainor, "Glow Up" na iya zama waƙar yabo ga duk wanda ke gab da canji mai kyau na rayuwa, amma ga Trainor, waƙoƙin na sirri ne. Bayan ta haifi ɗanta na farko, Riley, a ranar 8 ga Fabrairu, Trainor ya shirya tsaf don dawo da jikinta, lafiyarta, da rayuwarta - duk an gwada su a lokacin wani ciki mai cike da tashin hankali da kuma ƙalubalen haihuwa wanda ya bar ɗanta a ciki. sashen kula da lafiyar jarirai na tsawon kwanaki hudu.

Snagging na farko a cikin nasarar nasarar Grammy na farkon ciki ciki ya zo a cikin watanni uku na biyu, lokacin da ta sami ganewar asali ba zato ba tsammani: ciwon sukari na ciki, cutar da ke shafar kusan kashi 6 zuwa 9 na mata masu juna biyu a Amurka, a cewar Cibiyoyin Cutar. Sarrafa da Rigakafin.

"Ba tare da ciwon sukari na ciki ba, ni tauraron dutse ne," in ji mawaƙin Siffa. "Na kware sosai da samun ciki, na yi kyau sosai. Ban taɓa yin rashin lafiya ba da farko, na yi tambayoyi da yawa, 'Shin ina da juna biyu? Na san ban taɓa yin zagayowa ba kuma gwajin ya faɗi haka, amma ina jin al'ada ."

Trainor ya ce wasa ne na bazuwar a binciken yau da kullun wanda ya kai ga gano cutar ta ƙarshe, wanda baya haifar da alamun bayyanar ga yawancin mata. "Na yi gwajin jini saboda ina ƙoƙarin yin wargi da kuma sauƙaƙe ɗakin," in ji ta. "Na ce, 'mahaifiyata ta ce tana da ciwon sukari na haihuwa amma tana tunanin hakan ne saboda ta sha babban ruwan lemu a safiyar yau kuma abin da ya zub da sukari na jini."

Bayanin mai ba da horo na mai ba da horo ya sanar da likitocin ta wata alama mai jan tuta. Duk da yake ba a fahimci abubuwan da ke haifar da su ba, yawancin mata masu ciwon sukari na ciki suna da aƙalla dangi ɗaya na kusa da cutar ko wani nau'in ciwon sukari. Kuma karuwar jinin mahaifiyarta ba kawai labari ne mai ban dariya ba - ya sa likitocinta cikin gaskiyar cewa wataƙila mahaifiyarta ta ɗan sami wani abin da bai dace ba ga sukari, alama ce ta rashin lafiya. Don gwada ciwon sukari a cikin mata masu juna biyu, likitoci galibi suna gudanar da gwajin haƙuri na glucose inda mai haƙuri ke shan madara mai daɗi bayan azumi sannan a gwada jininsu akai -akai na awanni da yawa.

Sakamakon farko na mai horarwa ya kasance na al'ada, amma sai aka gano ta tana da cutar a cikin makonni 16. "Dole ne ku duba jinin ku bayan kowane cin abinci da safe, don haka sau hudu a rana kuna so ku gwada jinin ku kuma ku tabbatar da matakan ku daidai," in ji ta. "Kuna sake koyon yadda ake cin abinci kuma ban taɓa samun kyakkyawar alaƙa da abinci ba, don haka wannan ƙalubale ne."

Yayin da Trainor da farko ya kira shi "kumburi a hanya," sa ido da amsa akai-akai ya yi tasiri sosai a yanayin tunaninta. "A kwanakin da kuka fadi jarrabawar amma kuka yi komai daidai, kawai kuna jin kamar babban rashin nasara," in ji ta. "[Na ji] kamar, 'Na gaza a matsayin uwa tun tuni kuma jaririn baya nan.' Ya kasance mai taurin zuciya sosai. Har yanzu ina tsammanin babu isassun [albarkatun] a wurin don taimaka wa mata masu ciwon sukari na ciki."

Amma ganewar asali shine kawai ƙalubalen farko da Mai Horarwa ya fuskanta yayin haihuwar ɗanta. Kamar yadda ta gaya wa mabiyanta na Instagram a cikin sakon Instagram a watan Janairu, jaririnta ya yi ɗumi, ma'ana an sanya shi sama-sama a cikin mahaifa, tare da nuna ƙafafunsa zuwa tashar haihuwa-batun da ke faruwa a kusan kashi 3-4 na duk masu juna biyu. kuma yana sa haihuwar farji ta fi wahala, idan ba zai yiwu ba.

"A makonni 34, yana cikin [dama], a shirye yake ya tafi!" tana cewa. "Sai kuma bayan mako guda, sai ya juya baya. Ya kawai son kasancewa a gefe. Ina son, 'yana jin dadi a nan, don haka zan gyara kwakwalwata don shirya wani sashin C.'" (An danganta: Shawn Johnson ya ce yana da ciwon wani sashen C ya sa ta ji kamar ta '' kasa '')

Amma abin da Mai Horarwa ya gamu da shi a lokacin haihuwa - 'yan kwanaki kawai suna jin kunyar ranar haihuwar ta - wani cikas ne da ba a zata ba ta ji ba ta shirya ba. "Lokacin da ya fito daga karshe, na tuna muna kallonsa kamar, 'wow yana da ban mamaki,' kuma na yi mamaki," in ji ta. "Dukkanmu mun yi farin ciki da murna sannan na ce, 'me yasa ba ya kuka? Ina wannan kukan?' Kuma bai taba zuwa ba. "

Mintunan da ke gaba sun kasance guguwa yayin da Trainor - mai magani kuma a cikin yanayin farin ciki bayan ganin danta a karon farko - ya yi ƙoƙari ya tattara jerin abubuwan da suka faru a bayan ɗigon tiyata. "Sun ce, 'za mu ɗauke shi,' kuma mijina ya roƙe su su bar ni in dube shi," in ji ta. "Don haka sai suka ruga da shi sannan kuma [daga baya] ya gudu kai tsaye, don haka ina da sakan daya na dube shi."

Nan da nan aka garzaya da Riley zuwa NICU inda aka ba shi bututun ciyarwa. "Sun gaya min cewa komai ya shafi 'lokacin da yake son farkawa,'" in ji ta. "Na kasance kamar, 'farka?' Ba shakka sun kasance masu ban tsoro. bututu a ko'ina? ' Abu ne mai ban takaici da wuya sosai." (Mai Dangantaka: Tafiya mai ban mamaki na wannan Matar zuwa Mahaifiya ba wani abu bane mai ban sha'awa)

Yi wahayi zuwa gare ku ta wannan jariri wanda ya fito daga cikin ku. Kun girma abin. Saboda ku ne suke raye a yanzu - abin mamaki ne. Don haka ɗauki hakan kuma ku motsa kanku. Ina son dana ya kalli yadda nake cim ma komai don ya san zai iya yin hakan kuma.

Heather Irobunda, MD, kwararriyar likitan mata a birnin New York kuma memba ce a majalisar ba da shawara kan lafiyar Peloton ta ce labarin mawakin ya shahara sosai. "Yana kama da jaririnta na iya samun tachypnea na ɗan lokaci," in ji ta, lura da cewa galibi tana ganin yanayin sau da yawa a mako a cikin aikinta. TTN cuta ce ta numfashi da ake gani jim kaɗan bayan haihuwa wanda galibi yana ɗaukar ƙasa da sa'o'i 48. Bincike kan isar da lokaci (jariran da aka haifa tsakanin makonni 37 zuwa 42), yana ba da shawarar cewa TTN yana faruwa a kusan 5-6 a cikin haihuwa 1,000. Yana iya faruwa ga jariran da aka haifa ta hanyar C-section, waɗanda aka haife su da wuri (kafin makonni 38), kuma aka haife su ga mahaifiyar mai ciwon sukari ko fuka, a cewar Cibiyar Kula da Magunguna ta Amurka.

TTN ya fi yiwuwa a cikin jariran da aka haifa ta hanyar C-section saboda "lokacin da aka haifi jariri ta farji, tafiya ta hanyar mahaifa tana matse ƙirjin jaririn, wanda ke haifar da wasu ruwan da zai tara a cikin huhu. ku fito daga bakin jariri, ”in ji Dokta Irobunda. "Duk da haka, a lokacin C-section, babu matsi ta cikin farji, don haka ruwan zai iya tattarawa a cikin huhu." (Dangane: Yawan Haihuwar S-Sashe Ya Ƙaru Ƙwarai)

"Yawancin lokaci, muna damuwa game da jaririn yana da wannan idan, a lokacin haihuwa, da alama jaririn yana aiki sosai don numfashi," in ji Dokta Irobunda. "Har ila yau, za mu iya lura cewa matakan oxygen na jaririn sun kasance ƙasa da na al'ada. Idan wannan ya faru, jaririn ya zauna a cikin NICU don samun ƙarin oxygen."

Trainor ya ce bayan 'yan kwanaki, Riley ta fara inganta - amma ita kanta ba ta shirya komawa gida ba. Ta ce: "Na sha wahala sosai." "Na kasance kamar, 'Ba zan tsira a gida ba, bari in zauna a nan."

Bayan karin ranar murmurewa a asibiti, Trainor da mijinta, jarumi Daryl Sabara, sun kawo Riley gida. Amma raunin jiki da na tunanin abin da ya faru ya sha wahala. "Na tsinci kaina a cikin wani wuri mai zafi da ban taba shiga ba," in ji ta. "Babban abin da ya fi wahala shine lokacin da [na zo] gida, a lokacin ne [ciwon] ya same ni. Zan yi tafiya a kusa da lafiya amma sai na kwanta in kwanta kuma zafin zai buga. Na tuna aikin tiyata da Zan gaya wa mijina yayin kuka, 'Har yanzu ina jin suna yin tiyata.' Yanzu ciwon yana da alaƙa da ƙwaƙwalwa don haka da wuya a shawo kan shi. [Ya ɗauki] kamar makonni biyu don barin kwakwalwata ta manta da ita. " (Mai Alaƙa: Ashley Tisdale Ya Buɗe Game da Ita "Ba Al'ada" Abubuwan Haihuwa)

Juyin Juya Halin Trainor ya zo ne lokacin da ta sami tambarin amincewa don sake fara aiki - a wani lokaci ta ce ta share hanya don "haske" da ta rera a cikin sabuwar waƙar ta, wanda ke cikin sabon kamfen na Verizon.

"A ranar da likita na ya amince da ni in yi motsa jiki - ina jin haushi - nan da nan na fara tafiya kuma na fara jin kaina ya dawo zama ɗan adam," in ji ta. "Na kasance kamar, ina so in mai da hankali kan lafiyata, ina so in dawo don jin jikina kuma. Lokacin da nake da ciki wata tara, da kyar na miƙe daga kan kujera, don haka ba zan iya jira don fara tafiyata ba. don mayar da hankali gare ni ga yarona." (An danganta: Yaya Zaku Iya Yin Motsa jiki Bayan Haihuwa?)

Mai ba da horo ya fara aiki tare da mai ba da abinci da mai ba da horo, kuma bayan watanni huɗu bayan haihuwa, ta ce tana bunƙasa - haka ma Riley. "Yanzu yana da lafiya," in ji ta. "Gaskiya ne, kowa yana jin labarin wannan yanzu kuma yana kama da, 'abin da ke da ban tsoro,' kuma ina son, 'oh muna haskakawa yanzu - wannan shine watanni hudu da suka wuce."

Trainor ta ce tana godiya ga lafiyar iyalinta, amma tana gane alherin da ta samu tun daga farkon duwatsu zuwa uwa. Ta ba da tausayi ga sauran mata masu juna biyu da sabbin uwaye, kuma tana ba da wasu kalmomi na hikima.

"Samun kyakkyawan tsarin tallafi yana da mahimmanci," in ji ta. "Ina da mama mai ban mamaki da miji mafi ban mamaki waɗanda ke wurin kowace rana don ni da ƙungiyata. Lokacin da kuka kewaye kanku da mutanen kirki, abubuwa masu kyau suna faruwa da ku. Kun girma wannan abin. Saboda ku ne suke raye a yanzu - wannan abin mamaki ne. Don haka ɗauki wannan kuma ku motsa kanku. Ina son ɗana ya kalle ni in cika komai don ya san zai iya yin hakan. "

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