Yawan Jima'i Ba Ya Daidaita Karin Farin Ciki, Inji Sabon Bincike

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Duk da yake yana iya bayyana a sarari cewa kawai yin aiki da yawa sau da yawa tare da S.O. ba lallai ba ne yana nufin mafi girman ingancin dangantaka (idan kawai ya kasance mai sauƙi!), Nazarin sun daɗe sun sami ƙarin jima'i don daidai da farin ciki. Amma yanzu, godiya ga sabon bincike, akwai babban fa'ida: Yayin da ake samun damuwa sau da yawa yayi sa ku farin ciki, za ku zama kamar farin ciki bayan daya jima'i sesh a mako kamar yadda za ku yi bayan hudu. (Yayin da muke ciki, duba Kurakurai 10 na Jima'i suna birge ku a cikin buhu.)

An buga a mujallar Ilimin halin dan Adam da Kimiyyar Halittu, binciken ya dogara ne akan binciken fiye da 30,000 ma'aurata a Amurka, kuma shine farkon gano cewa lokaci ɗaya a mako shine duk abin da kuke buƙata don girbar fa'idodin farin ciki! Abin mamaki, babu wani banbanci a cikin sakamakon da aka samu dangane da jinsi, shekaru, ko tsawon lokacin da ma'auratan suka yi aure, in ji jagoran masu bincike da masanin halayyar ɗan adam, Amy Muise, Ph.D, a cikin sanarwar manema labarai. (Don haka maza kada ku son jima'i fiye da mata? Hankali ya busa.)

Koyaya, hanyar haɗin yanar gizon ta kasance gaskiya ne kawai ga waɗanda ke cikin alaƙar soyayya. Me yasa hakan zai kasance? To, ga marasa aure, haɗin kai tsakanin jima'i da farin ciki yana dogara ne akan abubuwa masu yawa, kamar mahallin dangantakar da jima'i ya faru (Shin kuna abokai da amfani? Tsayar da dare daya?) da kuma yadda kuke jin dadi. jima'i a waje na dangantaka. Ainihin, kamar yadda kowane mutum ɗaya zai iya gaya muku: Yana da rikitarwa, sabili da haka ba zai yuwu a yanke shawara ba idan ya zo ga yawan jima'i da jin daɗin rayuwa.

Takeaway? Haka ne, jima'i yana da mahimmanci wajen kiyaye kusanci da abokin tarayya, amma ba kwa buƙatar yin hakan a kowace rana muddin kuna yin aikin sau ɗaya a mako. Kuma, ba shakka, sadarwa koyaushe mabuɗin ce, don haka yi wa wannan mutumin alamar alama kafin ku ci gaba: Tattaunawa 7 Dole ne Ku Yi Don Rayuwar Jima'i Mai Koshin Lafiya.

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