Rom-Coms Ba kawai Rashin Gaskiya bane, Zasu Iya Zama Mummuna A gare ku

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Mun samu: Rom-coms ba gaskiya bane. Amma ba karamin hasashe ne mara illa ba shine ainihin kallon su? To, ƙila a zahiri ba za su zama marasa lahani ba, bisa ga wani sabon bincike daga Jami'ar Michigan.

Abu ne mai sauƙin ganewa cewa halayen da muke yawan gani daga maza a cikin fina -finai ba haka bane halin da muke gani daga gare su a zahiri (har yanzu yana riƙe da manyan alamun mu anan ...). Amma wannan sabon yanki na bincike yana bincika hanyoyin waɗanda duk na kowa I-will-never-stop-loving-you-and-will-never-give-up-until-I-win-you-back lines plot lines are ainihin skewing nau'ikan halayen da muke ɗauka "na al'ada." (Shin Guy ɗinku yana Al'ada Idan Ya zo Jima'i?)

Masu binciken sun kalli hotunan kafofin watsa labarai na "ci gaba da bin diddigin" da kuma abubuwan da suka biyo baya game da zage-zage. Sun nemi mata da su kalli fina -finai guda shida, wanda duk sun nuna wasu halaye na "soyayya tana cin nasara duka" daga halayen maza. Wasu daga cikin fina -finan, kamar Akwai wani abu game da Maryamu, Ya kwatanta wannan hali a cikin wani dadi, mai ban dariya hanya (Ben Stiller jimre wa wulakanci mai ban dariya don cin nasara akan Cameron Diaz? Awww ...), yayin da wasu, kamar Barci da Makiyi, ya nuna halayen a cikin mafi muni, hanya ta gaskiya (Julia Roberts ta ci mutuncin mijinta mai wulakanci wanda ya ƙi sakin ta? Ahhh!). Sun gano cewa matan da suka kalli rom-coms waɗanda ke nuna halayen maza masu tashin hankali a cikin kyakkyawan yanayi sun fi ganin irin wannan halin a matsayin abin karɓa.

Matsalar tana cikin ainihin duniya, gaba ɗaya ba m. Masu binciken sun damu da cewa duk kyawawan halayen nuna kiyayya, rashin ɗabi'a na iya sa mu zama masu sayayya cikin "tatsuniyar mai saɓani," wanda ke haifar da mu ɗaukar manyan lamura ko yin barazanar ba da mahimmanci lokacin da hakan ta faru a rayuwa ta ainihi. (Nemo abin da kowace mace ke buƙatar sani game da kare kai.)

"[Irin waɗannan fina -finan] na iya ƙarfafa mata su rage rainin hankalinsu," in ji marubucin binciken Julia R. Lippman ga Labaran Duniya na Kanada. "Wannan matsala ce saboda bincike ya nuna cewa ilhami na iya zama alamu masu ƙarfi don taimakawa wajen kiyaye mu. A cikin ainihin, duk waɗannan fina-finai suna kasuwanci a cikin 'ƙauna ta ci nasara' duka. Ko da yake, ba shakka, ba haka ba ne. "

Tabbas, za mu iya yin rauni yayin da mai sha'awar Kiera Knightly ya bayyana a ƙofar ta tare da katunan '' a gare ni cikakke '', amma idan babban abokin mijin ku ya zo yana kira tare da manyan alamun ƙauna IRL? Don haka. Ba. Lafiya. Kawai tabbatar kun san bambanci.

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