Tiffany Haddish ta yi magana da gaskiya game da tsoron da take yi na zama uwa a matsayinta na mace baƙar fata.

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Idan kowa yana amfani da lokacinsa a keɓe da wadata, Tiffany Haddish ne. A cikin tattaunawar YouTube Live ta kwanan nan tare da tauraron NBA Carmelo Anthony, Haddish ta bayyana tana aiki akan sabbin shirye-shiryen TV, tana motsa jiki (da alama za ta iya "yi rabe-raben yanzu"), aikin lambu, dafa abinci, har ma tana yin tunanin wani tunani don mai da hankali kan al'umma. sarkar kantin kayan miya don jama'ar BIPOC.

Haddish kuma tana amfani da lokacin ta don shiga cikin zanga -zangar Black Lives Matter, gami da wani taron kwanan nan da ke tallafawa haƙƙin haƙƙin baƙi a Hollywood. Lokacin da ta tuno da gogewarta a zanga -zangar ga Anthony, Haddish ta ce ta yi magana da taron mutane a wannan ranar game da abin da ake nufi da zama Baƙar fata a Amurka, yadda tashin hankali na son kai ya shafa ita da iyalinta, da damuwar da take da ita ta zama uwa. a matsayin Bakar mace. (Mai alaƙa: Ta yaya wariyar launin fata za ta iya shafar lafiyar tunanin ku)

"Ni ba mutum bane mai tsoro, amma na kalli yadda jami'an 'yan sanda suka kashe abokai da suka girma," in ji Anthony. “A matsayina na Baƙar fata, ana farautar mu, kuma koyaushe ina jin haka. An farautar mu kuma an kashe mu, kuma suna samun wannan lasisin don kashe mu, kuma hakan bai dace ba. ”

Lokacin da mutane suka tambayi Haddish game da ko za ta haifi 'ya'ya, ta yarda da Anthony cewa galibi tana "ba da uzuri" don guje wa faɗin gaskiya game da fargabar ta. "Zan ƙi in haifi wanda ya yi kama da ni sannan na san za a farauto su ko a kashe su," in ji ta. "Me yasa zan sanya wani ta wannan? Mutanen farar fata ba za su yi tunanin hakan ba. ” (Masu Alaka: Hanyoyi 11 Bakar Fata Zasu Iya Kare Lafiyar Hankalinsu Lokacin Ciki Da Bayan Haihuwa)

Ko da kuwa ko Haddish wata rana ta yanke shawarar samun yara, babu shakka tana yin nata aikin don tallafawa yara a cikin al'ummomin da ba a yi musu hidima ba. Jarumar ita ce ta kafa Gidauniyar She Ready, wata ƙungiya da ke taimaka wa yaran da ke cikin kulawa don samun albarkatu da tallafin da suke buƙata ta hanyar tallafawa, akwatuna, jagoranci, da ba da shawara.

Haddish ta gaya wa Anthony cewa kuruciyarta a cikin kulawa ta ƙarfafa ta don ƙirƙirar tushe. “Lokacin da nake ɗan shekara 13, na kasance ina zazzagewa sosai, kuma duk lokacin da suka motsa ni, sai su sa ni saka dukan tufafina a cikin jakunkuna. Kuma hakan ya sa na ji kamar shara, ”in ji ta. “Daga ƙarshe, wani ya ba ni akwati, kuma hakan ya sa na ji daban. Kuma na yi tunani a kaina sa’ad da nake ɗan shekara 13, ‘Idan na sami kowane irin iko, zan yi ƙoƙari in tabbatar da cewa babu yara su ji kamar sharar gida.’ Saboda haka, na sami ɗan ƙarfi, kuma na soma tushe na.” (Mai alaƙa: Samun dama da Tallafin Abubuwan Kiwon Lafiyar Hankali don Black Womxn)

Ta kammala tattaunawar ta da Anthony, Haddish ta raba wani sako mai karfafawa ga matasan Black Black: "Sanar da ku [kuma] kada ku ji tsoron shiga cikin al'umman ku," in ji ta. "Kayi rayuwa mafi kyau, zama mafi kyawun kanka, zama ka.”

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