Wannan Kocin Ya Kokari Jiki Ya Bayar Da Mace Ta Siyan Ayyukan Sa

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Rage nauyi shine abu na ƙarshe a zuciyar Cassie Young lokacin da saurayinta na shekaru tara ya nemi ta aure shi. Amma jim kaɗan bayan sanar da aikinta, mai ba da horo na dijital mai shekaru 31 a The Bert Show wani mai ba da horo ya tuntube shi a Twitter wanda ya ba da shawarar taimaka mata "daidaita," don babban ranar ta.

Da farko, Cassie cikin ladabi ta ƙi, amma mutumin ya ci gaba da tura ayyukansa a kai a kai. Daga ƙarshe ya kai matsayin da Cassie ta ji wulakanci kuma ta yanke shawarar raba hulɗa akan Facebook don jawo hankali ga girgiza jiki. (Mai Alaƙa: Mutane Suna toauka a Twitter don Raba Farkon Abin da Ya Kunyata Jiki)

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"Ina taya ku murna," in ji mutumin, wanda asalinsa Cassie ya zaɓi yin sirri. Ya ci gaba da lissafin shaidodinsa kuma ya nemi Cassie ta ɗauke shi aiki don rage nauyi don bikin aurenta.

Ba tare da tunanin komai ba, Cassie ta amsa: "Ina cikin siffa! Na gode ƙwarai da wannan tayin."

Da hakan zai kasance wuri mai kyau don kawo karshen zancen, amma mutumin ya sake kai mata, yana matsa mata ta rage kiba. (Mai dangantaka: Julianne Hough ba ta da sha'awar cin abinci kafin Auren ta)

"Na san kuna son yin kwalliya a ranar auren ku," ya rubuta. "Idan ba ku dauke ni aiki ba, ku ɗauki wani, waɗannan hotuna sun wuce ƙarni. 'Ya'yan 'ya'yan ku za su kasance da waɗannan hotuna."

A gigice da martanin, Cassie ta yanke shawarar tsayawa kan kanta kuma ta gaya wa mutumin game da gwagwarmayar da ta yi da hoton jikin, da fatan hakan zai sa ya bar ta ita kaɗai. "Na san da alama yana da wahala a gare ku fahimtar wannan, amma ya ɗauki dogon lokaci don son jikina," ta rubuta. "A koyaushe ina jin kunya ko tunatar da ni cewa ina da nauyi kuma ya kamata in ji kunya-ko mutane sun kunyata ni-ko kuma kawai su mike suna rashin kunya, suna kirana 'abin ƙyama." Na yi fama da wannan duka kuma ina son kaina da yadda nake kallo. "

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Mutumin ya yi saurin amsawa yana cewa: "Kuna iya yarda da yadda kuke kallo amma ba za ku yi farin ciki da yadda kuke kallo ba. Ba za ku iya yiwa kanku karya ba ... Ina fatan duk babban jiki ya karɓi mutane za su yarda da gaskiyar cewa ba sa jin daɗin jikinsu. " (Mai Alaƙa: Babban Makarantar Sakandare ta Kama Studentsaliban da Bai Kamata Su Sanya Rigunan ba Sai dai Girman Su ne 0 ko 2)

Cassie ya isa. Ta ce: "Ina bakin cikin ku cewa darajar ku ta kunsa a cikin bayyanar ku." "Kuna sanya kaya da yawa a cikin kamanni amma kun kasa fahimtar cewa ba kowa bane ke son a daure shi cikin rashin tsaro."

Ta kara da cewa a gaskiya shi yana cikin matsalar kuma ta ki ta taka rawar gani a wasan nasa. "Na yi watsi da ra'ayin ku na yin aiki akan fatar baki da kamannuna, kuma na rungumi manufofin lafiya ta ta ciki."

Cassie ta yi fatan cewa ta hanyar raba wannan tattaunawar za ta iya taimakawa wani wanda aka yi wa riga -kafi saboda rashin tsaro. "Kimar ku ta ciki da kimar kan ku ta fito daga wurin ku, ba yadda kuke kama ba," ta rubuta tare da sakon. "Wanene ke ba da f **k idan kun sami ƙarin fam. Ko goma. Ko ashirin. Talatin. Ko menene.

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