Me yasa muke Sumbatar? Abin da Kimiyyar Kimiyya ke faɗi Game da Sutura

Wadatacce

• Wasu sumban sumba suna da tushe a haɗe
• Wasu sumban sumayya sun samo asali ne daga soyayyar soyayya
• Kuma wasu sumbatar suna motsawa ta hanyar jima'i
• Ari da, sumbatar (kowane nau'i) kawai yana jin daɗi
• Layin kasa

Ya dogara da wanda muke sumbata

Mutane suna yin girman kai saboda kowane irin dalili. Muna sumbatar juna don soyayya, don sa'a, don yin gaisuwa da ban kwana. Akwai kuma duka ‘yana jin daɗi sosai’.

Kuma lokacin da kuka tsaya kuma da gaske kuke tunani game da aikin sumbanta, yana da ban mamaki, ko ba haka ba? Latsa laɓɓanka akan wani kuma, a wasu halaye, musanya yau? Ya nuna cewa akwai wasu ilimin kimiyya a baya da wannan baƙon yanayi amma mai daɗi.

Akwai ra'ayoyi da yawa game da yadda sumbanta ya samo asali kuma me yasa muke yin sa. Wasu masana kimiyya sun yi imanin cewa sumbatar ɗabi'a ce ta koya, tunda kusan kashi 10 cikin ɗari na mutane ba sa sumbatar sam sam kuma ƙarancin sumba da soyayya ko kuma sha'awar jima'i. Wasu kuma sun yi imanin cewa sumbatarwa ilhami ne kuma tushen ta ilimin halittu ne.

Dubi wasu daga cikin ilimin kimiyya bayan sumba iri daban-daban kuma ku ga abin da kuke tunani.

Wasu sumban sumba suna da tushe a haɗe

Sumbata yana haifar da tasirin sinadarai a kwakwalwarka, gami da fashewar kwayar halitta ta oxytocin. Ana kiran shi sau da yawa a matsayin "hormone na ƙauna," saboda yana motsa tunanin ƙauna da haɗuwa.

Dangane da nazarin 2013, oxytocin yana da mahimmanci a taimaka wa maza su haɗu da abokin tarayya kuma su kasance tare da mata ɗaya.

Mata suna fuskantar ambaliyar ruwa a lokacin haihuwa da shayarwa, suna ƙarfafa dangin uwa da ɗa.

Da yake magana game da ciyarwa, mutane da yawa sun gaskata cewa sumbatarwa ya samo asali ne daga aikin bautar sumba. Yawa kamar tsuntsaye suna ciyar da tsutsotsi ga chickan chickan kajinsu, uwaye suna yi - kuma wasu har yanzu suna yi - ciyar da yaransu abincin da suke taunawa.

Wasu sumban sumayya sun samo asali ne daga soyayyar soyayya

Kuna san wannan tsinkayen da kuke ji yayin da kuke kan kan dugadugan ku don sabon soyayya da kuma ɓatar da lokacin cin abinci tare dasu? Wannan tasirin dopamine ne a cikin hanyar ladan kwakwalwar ku.

Ana sakin Dopamine lokacin da kuka yi wani abu da zai ji daɗi, kamar sumbatarwa da kuma ɓata lokaci tare da wanda kuke so.

Wannan da sauran “hormones masu farin ciki” suna sa ku ji daɗin rayuwa da annashuwa. Gwargwadon yadda kuke samun wadannan kwayoyin halittar, jikin ku yana son su. Ga wasu, wannan na iya bayyana a farkon dangantaka - musamman idan mafi yawan lokutan ku ana kashewa a kulle leɓe.

Idan zaku iya cigaba da saurin sumbatarwa bayan waccan fitinar ta farko, zaku iya ci gaba da more fa'idodin waɗancan homon ɗin na farin ciki.

Wataƙila ma kuna da dangantaka mafi gamsarwa. A cikin nazarin na 2013, ma'aurata a cikin dangantakar abokantaka ta dogon lokaci waɗanda ke sumbatar juna akai-akai sun ba da rahoton ƙara gamsuwa da dangantaka.

Kuma wasu sumbatar suna motsawa ta hanyar jima'i

Ba asiri ba ne cewa wasu sumban sumbaci gabaɗaya sun mamaye jima'i kuma suna nesa da platonic.

Wani bincike da ya gabata ya nuna cewa ga mata, sumba wata hanya ce ta kara girman wacce zata aura. Hakanan yana taka muhimmiyar rawa a cikin shawarar da suka yanke na buga zanen gado.

Mahalarta mata sun ce ba za su iya yin jima’i da wani ba tare da sun yi sumba ba. Sun kuma bayar da rahoton cewa yadda sumbatar wani zai iya sanya ko karya damar abokin tarayya na zuwa tushe na uku.

Hakanan an nuna cewa maza suna sumbatarwa don gabatar da homonin jima'i da sunadarai wadanda suke sanyawa abokiyar zamansu ta zama mai saurin karbar jima'i.

Bude baki da sumbatar harshe suna da tasiri musamman wajen kara girman sha’awar jima’i, saboda suna kara yawan yawan jinin da ake samarwa da musayar su. Arin tofa musanya da kuka yi, da ƙarin kunna za ku samu.

Ari da, sumbatar (kowane nau'i) kawai yana jin daɗi

Kuna iya gode wa yawancin jijiyoyin da ke cikin leɓunku saboda sashin da suke yi don sumbatar da jin daɗi sosai.

Lebbanku sun fi sauran sassan jikinku jijiya. Idan ka matsa su akan wani leben ko ma fatar dumi, kawai tana jin dadi. Haɗa wannan tare da hadaddiyar giyar da aka saki yayin sumbatarwa, kuma kuna da girke-girke wanda tabbas zai baku dukkan ji.

Tare da oxytocin da dopamine wanda ke sa ku ji daɗin jin daɗi da nishaɗi, sumbatarwa yana sake serotonin - wani sinadarin jin daɗi. Hakanan yana saukar da matakan cortisol don haka ku sami kwanciyar hankali, don samun kyakkyawan lokacin kewaye.

Layin kasa

Sumbata yana da kyau kuma yana yiwa jiki kyau. Zai iya taimaka wa mutane jin alaƙa da ƙarfafa alaƙar kowane irin abu.

Kawai tuna cewa ba kowane mutum yake son a sumbace shi ba ko ya ga yana sumbatarwa kamar yadda kuke yi. Babu matsala idan kuna gaishe da wani sabo, ko yin alfahari da shi don sanya mafi kyawu, ko shiga cikin smooch sesh tare da soyayyar soyayya - ya kamata ku tambaya koyaushe kafin kuyi murmushi.

Kuma kar a manta da yin aiki da tsaftar baki don sabo, bakinda ya cancanta.